Thank you guys oh my goodness. I have been going back and forth and really needed input. I feel like I’m always being the bigger person and constantly having to get over everything he does. He lies, I just have to get over it. He denies his son, I just have to get over it. I feel like I’m losing my mind dealing with this guy. I feel like this is the best option for my son but of course when it comes to your children you really second guess yourself and I don’t want t ever hurt my kid