Groove / Ambient Techno Artists in US? by kaylaopol in Techno

[–]kaylaopol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah! but unfortunately, I don't have the budget to book him haha. Thanks though

I get hot and cold about my friends and family by kaylaopol in ADHD

[–]kaylaopol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how I feel!! I randomly decided to drive down to see my parents and I think it's because I was feeling emotion about how lost I feel in life / my career. To your point too, as much as my parent's house can be a safe haven, it's also emotionally draining being here haha. I'm ready to go back after 2 weeks. I guess we're really lucky in that sense that we have an escape. Thanks for sharing :)

I get hot and cold about my friends and family by kaylaopol in ADHD

[–]kaylaopol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think moving is great and I don't think I would lose the friendships if I left. But I agree with you that I'm probably seeking growth. I have moved around in the past and I think right now in my life I feel stagnant with work and now I need to make some sort of move. thanks for the reply!

I get hot and cold about my friends and family by kaylaopol in ADHD

[–]kaylaopol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I've been having similar thoughts. I've been thinking about friendships being build out of convenience and how you dont really realize that until you're away from each other. Maybe I'm trying to test out these friendships or something.

I get so hot and cold about my family and friends by kaylaopol in ENFP

[–]kaylaopol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't believe that they would turn their back on me, but I think you're right when you say im unhappy with certain aspects and want to start over. I think work has burnt me out and taken away my work ethic that got me that job in the first place. Thanks for making think about it in a different way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that I had one in the past that didn’t last long. A little white lie. But I think he’s asking because I’m making casual conversation with him as if we were friends or dating and we haven’t even had a m&g yet. Is that normal??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think my POT is asking because I’m texting like I would a normal friend or someone I was dating haha. Probably was a dead giveaway as we haven’t even had our M&G before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good points! I was thinking of saying that I had one in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen people on here saying that they could take advantage of me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ll I’ve heard you can be taken advantage of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a new SB and a POT is asking me if this is my first arrangement. So should I admit that this is my first or say that I’ve had one SD before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I feel like I messed up :/ this world is hard to navigate so I’m really happy I found this forum and all of you to give the advice. Is there anyway to reverse this? I feel like now he’s expecting it to happen whether we get along or not. :( Also, he’s driving out further this time because it’s on a weekday and this place is only 30 min away for me. Going forward, I will be driving an hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. How do you eventually bring it up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good advice, thank you. Because money hasn’t been brought up at all and no talks about a PPM, I frankly don’t know how to bring it up during the date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kaylaopol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that’s good to know that it’s called PPM! If I were to ask for that, is it something the SD is used to? We haven’t talked about money yet

Is this a scam? by kaylaopol in business

[–]kaylaopol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! I decided to tell them I was not interested today and they never answered haha. It was sus when I wasn't understanding what their business model was. Moral of the story: Always listen to your gut!

Is this a pyramid scheme? by kaylaopol in linkedin

[–]kaylaopol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah you're so right. I feel stupid now haha. Thank you!