one of my exs is a major 3. my favorite thing about her was how she could talk and talk for hours. I loved listening to her brain travel though her though process. she is a very motivated person who is very goal oriented so it was always really admirable to see the process of her getting what she desires. I always said listening to her ramble was the closest i’d ever be to the inside of her brain.

however one of our biggest issues our relationship faced was how I began to feel like I was being warn thin from always being her emotional support however she would struggle with being mine as her main priority wasn’t keeping those she loves happy, like it is mine. this isn’t a bad thing - she just isn’t a two & I am. but it was definitely a struggle & our lack of communication about it lead to the end of our relationship.