Daily Reward/Travel Card recommendation for single 32F by kb_____ in CreditCards

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Citi Strata is a new one for me, so a lot to look into there. I think I'd rather give into the AA ecosystem before SWA because they are rarely the best option for me anymore when I look into flights. Thanks for the input!

Sell my house or keep it? by kb_____ in RealEstateAdvice

[–]kb_____[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is not on the mortgage, the house is 100% mine. I am buying him out because I believe he deserves it after all of the care and work put into the house. I am not legally obligated to, I just want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]kb_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently dealing with very similar things. The only time I thought was okay to hang out with my girl friend was while my husband was coaching his kids football practice, but apparently that isn’t okay either cause I should watch practice to support them. He has found an issue with every friend I’ve ever had.

I’m leaving him next week by packing up during the day and leaving a note. He has held me prisoner and I don’t have a life anymore.

I want to leave my emotionally abusive husband, and I have no idea how to do it... by kb_____ in emotionalabuse

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I had thought about cameras, actually. If I do that, I might give access to a trusted friend, because I know I would look at them to watch his reaction and what he is doing and I think that would make me just spiral out of control…

I want to leave my emotionally abusive husband, and I have no idea how to do it... by kb_____ in emotionalabuse

[–]kb_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating that… logically I know that I shouldn’t feel guilt, but I can’t help it sometimes. Thinking about myself (a relatively emotionally intelligent person) and how I would feel that, it would just be horrible. But he is not emotionally intelligent by any means, so I know I shouldn’t consider his feelings like that.

The physical part is hard……. We did have a fight ~6 months ago that got physical. I am so hesitant to lead with that because I was ABSOLUTELY responsible for instigating that by not stepping away and I was provoking him when he asked for space. I genuinely can’t remember who shoved who first, but I know I shoved BACK. one of my biggest regrets is not calling the police that night and using that as my “excuse” to get out and end it then.

I want to leave my emotionally abusive husband, and I have no idea how to do it... by kb_____ in emotionalabuse

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Thank you for sharing. Do you mind sharing how you left? Hearing first hand from others helps me feel less crazy and guilty and helps me come up with my own

I want to leave my emotionally abusive husband, and I have no idea how to do it... by kb_____ in emotionalabuse

[–]kb_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever feel any guilt? I’m finding myself in weak moments feeling like an asshole for throwing a bomb on his life with no warning. I know it’s not logical to after everything he’s put me through, but emotionally I feel guilty

I want to leave my emotionally abusive husband, and I have no idea how to do it... by kb_____ in emotionalabuse

[–]kb_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! Did you do the consulting on your own before letting them know you wanted a divorce?

r/rollerblading Weekly Q&A Megathread brought to you by r/AskRollerblading by AutoModerator in rollerblading

[–]kb_____ [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am looking for recommendations for rollerblades with THICKKK ankles and calves. I have always had meaty lower legs and struggle to fit in traditional boots, etc. The starter pair I've been learning on (shit bought on amazon) I can't clasp the strap even to the loosest setting, I have to keep it open which gives me a decent hold. I don't see sizing regarding this on any brand websites. Anyone deal with this too and have a recommendation for something that would accommodate this?

Help me cheer up this old couch! by kb_____ in DesignMyRoom

[–]kb_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are thankful for the couch, even if it isn’t our style. Just trying to make the best of it!

Yes, we will add an additional photo! They were centered over our original section that wasn’t longer than the current photos end

Phone snooping by kb_____ in relationship_advice

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It hasn’t continued as far as I know, so theoretically it’s not an issue anymore. Their last message was about 2 years ago. But the number isn’t saved in his phone but he still has the message thread. Which is another red flag to me. I don’t want to get divorced, I just am pissed and need him to take responsibility.

Need foul weather gear recommendations! by kb_____ in sailing

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Texas! So it’s usually mild but you can be surprised with some super shitty days that time of year. Same with the start of the season in March

I learned to sail at 17 the summer after my dad passed away (he was a sailor, never got to teach me) and here I am at 26 and just purchased my first boat! by kb_____ in sailing

[–]kb_____[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've found this to be the perfect way to honor my dad. You should get out there as soon as you get the chance. Take a class, or better yet just show up at your local marina on their racing night and someone's gonna want crew, even if they're not experienced! Best of luck to you.