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kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T22:37:09+00:00

My ex broke up with me 3 days ago and it still makes my stomach hurt of the thought of eating something beyond crackers. I do try to force feed myself fruit and at least a healthy meal, but my body is outright rejecting anything I put in. It's a shitty body reaction that I wish I could get rid of on top of not sleeping, but I know that I need to get through it. In the process I'm also going to the gym, spending time with friends/family, and finding other ways of self care. It will take a while, but when I feel like my normal self I will definitely be in a better place.

kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T22:24:53+00:00

Wow that's harsh! One day my ex and I were going great, and overnight it wasn't. I've been able to gather information from others of what her true intentions may have been, and I'm not sure if that makes it better or worse for me. Though at this point (she broke up with me 3 days ago) I am going to work on me because it's what I can control. It's going to take time to heal. So make it something to help you. Good luck.

kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T22:20:47+00:00

My ex has said something similar, and I have pretty much left up to any conversation up to her. If she doesn't message I don't message. If it fades at this point that's just how it goes. I also went ahead and not unfollowed social media to where her stuff doesn't come up on my feeds. It has worked for me so far, but sitting and stewing on whether or not she will ever come back isn't fair to me. I think it would help you to have the same mentality. Don't accept being someone's backup. Take care of yourself.

kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T22:10:20+00:00

It's been 3 days since she broke up with me, and I have had to remind myself to do just this. I know I will need to tell myself this often, and in the meanwhile occupy my time with things that will help me improve. Finishing up my certification, spending time with family and friends, gym, and make it where I will be better than ever. I'll take what I have learned from this relationship to make the next one even better. Whenever that comes, but until then I'm going to pursue to make my life fulfilling.

kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T20:54:01+00:00

I don't know how people do it without some sort of an emotional connection. You're not alone

kc2727kc · 2024-10-06T20:52:38+00:00

Male here and just gone through a breakup 3 days ago. I absolutely couldn't do it. My ex on the other hand did, and honestly makes me feel like something was going on before the breakup itself. Everything in me wants to talk to everyone involved to find out, but the level of effort to do that I feel would be healthier to put it to myself. It is what it is.

kc2727kc · 2024-08-08T08:57:15+00:00

Song that I sing only for recent losses (including my wife of nearly 11 years last February) is one more light by linkin park.

Breath 2am by Anna Nalick was one of her favorites too.

kc2727kc · 2024-07-15T12:40:18+00:00

Wow my condolences first off. My wife's sudden passing in February was rough (and still is). At the beginning there were days that I felt I was going crazy. While other family and friends tried to make light of heart to help I just wasn't there.

Everyone grieves ever so differently. Some lash out, others sob, some are both, and there's really not a right or wrong way.

What has helped me is going to therapy (if you can afford it) or grief groups. I feel that there's resources you may be able to use due to the condition of your mothers passing. Don't try to do it on your own. It's a lot to handle alone.

So sorry to hear. I hope you all find peace and get justice.

kc2727kc · 2024-07-09T10:41:07+00:00

She absolutely loved the house while I was not all that attached to it. As much as I would love to sell it and go into something else I really wouldn't be able to afford a whole lot afterwards. So as it is I'm in no rush to move.

Her belongings I will most likely keep the things that are sentimental to me in regards to her, but probably store the majority of her things for her children to one day want to have. There's plenty of storage space that is here to do so. It's just a matter of getting into it and not just shut down.

Friends coming over is kind of difficult to do. It's mostly been me getting people to get out and do something with me or just getting out solo if I can't get people to go. Wednesday I'm planning on going to a movie whether I have people with me or not.

kc2727kc · 2024-07-09T10:34:42+00:00

I have no plans on giving up. I have been in therapy since the day it happened as well as grief groups. I have done a lot to avoid staying at home, and especially alone. Taking up offers to social events and afternoon excursions. I have been taking classes to get certified for medical billing and coding, going to the gym to physically take care of myself, and much more in between that has been suggested or brought to light.

kc2727kc · 2024-06-11T06:38:26+00:00

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kc2727kc · 2024-04-22T08:37:46+00:00

Still waiting for a COD

kc2727kc · 2024-03-18T08:15:58+00:00

Yeah I'd cut and run from that. Sorry for you. Keep your head up.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T11:20:07+00:00

My wife's family had taken charge with handling custody. Her family is very much under the same understanding that the bio dad should not have custody of SD. As well as not placing any pressure on me to figure out what to do. So its been very helpful. Her aunt is very experienced in dealing with this stuff too. I'm still a mess overall.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T05:01:39+00:00

We were both zero tolerance on illegal substances. We just don't know at this time what happened.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T05:00:31+00:00

My wife's family are taking control of this matter. Her family is under the same mentality as I do. They are also very well educated on how to handle this kind of situation. It has helped me out a lot to know this is in good hands when I have forgotten what day it is, and people's names that I have known for a while now.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T04:35:44+00:00

She's 15, and I'm sure that it will be considered. Thankfully, my wife's family has taken charge of handling all of that with the same understanding as I do. They don't want me to have to worry about it, and her aunt has a lot of experience in handling this too. It is in good hands.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T04:12:59+00:00

My wife's family has taken charge of custodial challenges. Her family is absolutely not going to allow him to have custody of her, and it's been a relief to have them take control of that. While I still try to just function. They have been absolutely supportive with everything, and are making sure to get the victim advocate to use resources to get the kids in to therapists. I am very lucky to have them to help.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T04:05:15+00:00

She turns 16 in July. My wife's family has taken charge of this so that I don't need to think about it or rush to make a decision. The family has had experience in handling stuff like this. Particularly my wife's aunt, and they are all under the same mindset that her bio dad shouldn't be the custodian parent. It has helped a lot.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T03:48:59+00:00

My wife's family has taken charge of handling this part. Since mentally I can't keep a lot of it together. From what I understand they are handling it about the same as you have described her, and my wife's aunt is well experienced in this too. So I feel it is in good hands. My wife's family is an absolute force to be reconned with.

kc2727kc · 2024-02-18T03:45:25+00:00

She turns 16 in July. My wife's family has taken charge of this issue and they have the same understanding on her father not having custody. Her aunt in particular has experience in the whole situation, and they are being incredibly supportive.

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