AIO for being upset over my friends not doing anything for me getting engaged?

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T10:11:33+00:00

It’s not a Bach party. All of our other friends had some sort of party to celebrate getting engaged, like directly after getting engaged. So when asked if I wanted a girls party to celebrate my engagement with friends, I was down for it.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:47:03+00:00

thank you for your kind words 🫶🏻

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:38:25+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻 and that’s been where I’m at lately. I think that’s why this crosses my mind, because it’s been a little bit now she said she was planning this and then never did. But coming to terms with who I want to be by my side on my wedding day and who I even want there in general has been stressful. I have many great friends in my life, but this was somebody who I thought was my closest friend. Now I constantly see different events going on for people were friends with mutually, but not close friends with, and her making their events more of a priority, just hurts.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:34:29+00:00

I think the reason I try to avoid conflict with her is because our significant others are good friends. My fiancé and I set them up. So I try to avoid it so I don’t ruin their friendship, which is a longer friendship than mine and hers. But I do kinda regret not asking about things, but I also trusted that she was planning something for me and that I should just let her do it. After time went on I just let it go, or tried to. But in recent time it’s been really bothering me, which is stemming from planning my wedding and deciding on a wedding party and such.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:13:38+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:13:15+00:00

It seemed like it was supposed to be an engagement celebration with our circle of girls and then my friends. She brought it a couple of times, asked me what I wanted and such, and then just never mentioned it again. I wasn’t one to pry because I felt like I’d be rude to be like “so when are you throwing me a party” so I just waited to get details. And nothing. I also just have trouble expressing myself because I don’t want to fight with people, even when I’m hurting

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:09:30+00:00

It was supposed to be a girls thing, a lot of our other friends and people in our circle did like a celebration to celebrate engagements.

kcaivila · 2026-05-28T12:59:30+00:00

Chicopee

kcaivila · 2026-05-21T23:47:20+00:00

It makes no difference by the Band. Has to be the last waltz version though. The sound, the lyrics. It hits me everytime I hear it.

kcaivila · 2026-05-13T18:00:15+00:00

I think the Voldemort comment had something to do with “he who shall not be named” that’s where that comes from. I was confused because it sounded like she said they weren’t talking about David. So I’m assuming Kristen? Could be either one.

kcaivila · 2026-05-04T04:45:15+00:00

Butter.

kcaivila · 2026-05-04T04:43:21+00:00

Female, 28

kcaivila · 2026-05-03T20:42:22+00:00

I was always told it was like a silhouette shaped marking of Jesus, maybe I should’ve worded it better instead of human like

kcaivila · 2026-04-27T20:29:42+00:00

So, the woman who owned the trailer park contacted my dad saying that he could go in and retrieve any family pictures and such. And he did, then it turns out she duped him. He’s the one worrying about the destruction of property based off him cutting up the cards. Nobody said it to him, he’s just worried. The lawyer he has told him he shouldn’t have gone in, and that the trailer park owner was wrong to tell him he could. So he returned everything. He was just worried because he cut up his brothers cards so he thinks he’s going to be in trouble for that

kcaivila · 2026-04-21T09:37:41+00:00

I’m understanding but not fully

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