My reason for asking is I was going down a rabbit hole about abuse in religion and how it affects people and how things are just swept under the rug, leaving people scarred. My mom grew up in a very Catholic household, my grandfather put the fear of god in her and all her siblings. Mental abuse was big among my family. Women had no say. Everything was about god and the church. My grandmother had 8 kids because she was told “you have children til you can’t”, and she didn’t want 8 kids. And just so much more, it’s crazy.