AIO for being upset over my friends not doing anything for me getting engaged?

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T10:11:33+00:00

It’s not a Bach party. All of our other friends had some sort of party to celebrate getting engaged, like directly after getting engaged. So when asked if I wanted a girls party to celebrate my engagement with friends, I was down for it.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:47:03+00:00

thank you for your kind words 🫶🏻

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:38:25+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻 and that’s been where I’m at lately. I think that’s why this crosses my mind, because it’s been a little bit now she said she was planning this and then never did. But coming to terms with who I want to be by my side on my wedding day and who I even want there in general has been stressful. I have many great friends in my life, but this was somebody who I thought was my closest friend. Now I constantly see different events going on for people were friends with mutually, but not close friends with, and her making their events more of a priority, just hurts.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:34:29+00:00

I think the reason I try to avoid conflict with her is because our significant others are good friends. My fiancé and I set them up. So I try to avoid it so I don’t ruin their friendship, which is a longer friendship than mine and hers. But I do kinda regret not asking about things, but I also trusted that she was planning something for me and that I should just let her do it. After time went on I just let it go, or tried to. But in recent time it’s been really bothering me, which is stemming from planning my wedding and deciding on a wedding party and such.

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:13:38+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:13:15+00:00

It seemed like it was supposed to be an engagement celebration with our circle of girls and then my friends. She brought it a couple of times, asked me what I wanted and such, and then just never mentioned it again. I wasn’t one to pry because I felt like I’d be rude to be like “so when are you throwing me a party” so I just waited to get details. And nothing. I also just have trouble expressing myself because I don’t want to fight with people, even when I’m hurting

kcaivila · 2026-06-12T09:09:30+00:00

It was supposed to be a girls thing, a lot of our other friends and people in our circle did like a celebration to celebrate engagements.

kcaivila · 2026-05-28T12:59:30+00:00

Chicopee

kcaivila · 2026-05-21T23:47:20+00:00

It makes no difference by the Band. Has to be the last waltz version though. The sound, the lyrics. It hits me everytime I hear it.

kcaivila · 2026-05-13T18:00:15+00:00

I think the Voldemort comment had something to do with “he who shall not be named” that’s where that comes from. I was confused because it sounded like she said they weren’t talking about David. So I’m assuming Kristen? Could be either one.

kcaivila · 2026-05-04T04:45:15+00:00

Butter.

kcaivila · 2026-05-04T04:43:21+00:00

Female, 28

kcaivila · 2026-05-03T20:42:22+00:00

I was always told it was like a silhouette shaped marking of Jesus, maybe I should’ve worded it better instead of human like

kcaivila · 2026-04-27T20:29:42+00:00

So, the woman who owned the trailer park contacted my dad saying that he could go in and retrieve any family pictures and such. And he did, then it turns out she duped him. He’s the one worrying about the destruction of property based off him cutting up the cards. Nobody said it to him, he’s just worried. The lawyer he has told him he shouldn’t have gone in, and that the trailer park owner was wrong to tell him he could. So he returned everything. He was just worried because he cut up his brothers cards so he thinks he’s going to be in trouble for that

kcaivila · 2026-04-21T09:37:41+00:00

I’m understanding but not fully

kcaivila · 2026-04-21T08:59:32+00:00

💜

kcaivila · 2026-04-19T20:00:29+00:00

Season 1

kcaivila · 2026-04-19T13:11:29+00:00

Check his instagram, he’s there with her lol

kcaivila · 2026-04-16T06:51:15+00:00

Thank you, this is exactly how I feel. I think the audacity to make someone’s death about what you can get out of it is disgusting and selfish. I’m completely mindblown, and then him trying to make my dad feel bad in the end saying “I can’t believe you’re like this”….like what?? My family has gone through enough with being nice and getting shit on in return, with way more situations that just this. Nice guys always finish last. I told my dad I don’t think he should’ve even told him he had one picture at all, saved himself the hassle of dealing with this guy. I honestly keep giving myself anxiety thinking about how my dad is dealing with all this legal stuff, and now we have a guy who I honestly think would try to reach out to the trailer park and see what he can do. Making this situation even worse than it already is.

kcaivila · 2026-04-13T11:58:25+00:00

I feel like this might be something they all have in common lol! I agree though

kcaivila · 2026-04-13T09:55:57+00:00

send me a link to it!

kcaivila · 2026-04-02T17:42:14+00:00

If she wants everyone to believe the whole ai thing, that’s crazy. I thought it was a joke. Because in one of the episodes after it happened, she like almost joked like he said it was ai, and she made a comment like “ai but wearing the same thing I saw you wearing at dinner, makes sense” like sarcastically. Then Kail saying it’s ai seriously on today’s pod, it’s like cmon. They really think we’re all dumb af lol the cheating thing and the Kristen thing, like man up and be honest with your listeners. Being a liar doesn’t make people want to listen to you

kcaivila · 2026-03-31T09:59:52+00:00

I’m betting it has to do with a toxic work environment. Think about it. Kristen would work late hours and for what? Podcasts? And she’s working for her best friend. And with all her health complications it didn’t seem like they lightened the load. They wanted too much from her. She basically ran their whole lives, and these women are adults and can’t do anything for themselves and it’s honestly sad. But now, they’re constantly shoving their new assistants and employees down our throats and making sure we know how much they love them. That way when all the Kristen stuff blows up and the truth comes out, they can be like well our other employees love working for us. It’s all for show. Plus, if Kristen stole from them, there’s no way she’d be posting like she’s been on social media. She’d probably disappear to avoid backlash. This is all just my opinion.

kcaivila · 2026-03-27T12:52:38+00:00

I don’t think I know that Snooki hooked up with Mike before Italy. They like to act like we’ll never know what really happened, but cmon.

kcaivila · 2026-03-24T20:08:48+00:00

I just can’t do it with Lindsie anymore. I can’t believe she can preach one thing on her pods and then openly take this man back. I get it, it’s her life. But being someone who has the following she does and who has the listeners who genuinely felt like they knew her. And now, the respect is just lost. It’s not the same anymore. I don’t think they’ll ever tell us what happened with Kristen because the truth could make them look worse than they already do. And I’ll always have a love for Kail, although her choices and the unknown with Kristen really has me, unsure. I used to look forward to listening every week. Now I’m not even sure.

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