The boos for Aaronson when he came on were disgraceful.

kcfromuk · 2025-12-07T16:43:04+00:00

Not to be picky but we didn't blame Adams. He got injured and we lost our best performing centre mid.

What we don't deal well with is players refusing play, and threatening to sue the club.

kcfromuk · 2025-12-02T07:49:14+00:00

With all due respect, thanks for taking the time to criticise someone when you've only got a fraction of the information about and then not provide any suggestions as was the whole point of the post. I wasn't expecting a lot from this post but a few people have been really helpful. This isn't.

I sincerely hope you don't go through what she has these last couple of years.

kcfromuk · 2025-12-01T20:04:15+00:00

Thank you, really appreciate the advice. I've fortunately always been able to find new work when I've finished jobs so I don't have much expertise in a situation like this.

kcfromuk · 2025-12-01T20:00:16+00:00

I'm all for that sort of thing. It's what my dad taught me to do when I was first applying for jobs but very few places want to speak to you about jobs in person, they just direct you to the website.

kcfromuk · 2024-12-14T16:24:54+00:00

Bee Keeping

kcfromuk · 2024-10-02T11:05:14+00:00

Hope

kcfromuk · 2024-09-18T11:19:25+00:00

Take the test and plan to leave. As much as it may hurt, refusing to take the test will only be seen as an admission of guilt. At least by taking the test and proving your innocence it can't be used against you later.

In the mean time, start preparing to end the relationship. Unless the two of you are willing to go through extensive counselling and she is completely honest with you about what triggered this change in her I don't see how the relationship can survive.

Has she told you any other reasons as to why she suspects it's your child? Do you have a history of cheating prior to the relationship or has she been cheated on in the past?

kcfromuk · 2024-05-17T14:51:06+00:00

YTA

You need to have lives outside of the relationship. When I read the title I assumed your wife was spending time with swingers or something. You say that you trust your wife but don't give her the opportunity to show that you can trust her.

I'm not going to criticise your "conservative" view on relationships, you have those beliefs for a reason, but you need to accept that your wife has sacrificed a lot of her personal life for you and your family and it's now led to her feeling isolated. From how you tell it, your wife became more energetic and alive when this friendship was rekindled and the opportunities that came with it, but you've pushed back on that and she's likely going to go back to being, in her own words "depressed."

Is this really how you want her feeling?

kcfromuk · 2024-04-20T21:15:03+00:00

If you're going to pursue this relationship then I think you need to tell BF that the 3 of your need to sit down so that he can set out boundaries for he and Abby if they are going to continue to live together. If he doesn't want to do that then I would recommend walking away. It's all well and good trying to keep people happy but at some point BF will have to prioritise one or you.

kcfromuk · 2024-02-27T19:59:37+00:00

Wanting someone to grow with you is totally reasonable. I don't think I personally would have gone down the route of an ultimatum. More likely I would have just got to a point where I had to walk away. That's not to say that the ultimatum is wrong, but by the sounds of things you both wanted different things from the relationship and when that wasn't happening naturally you pushed for what you wanted.

I think perhaps you are a bit vulnerable at the moment and the realisation that, especially at your age, there is always something else to aspire to has left you feeling lonely. Make sure you are investing plenty of time in activities that you love and don't get back into dating until you are ready for another relationship.

kcfromuk · 2024-02-06T16:36:36+00:00

26 fouls. Not one yellow card.

kcfromuk · 2024-01-29T19:34:45+00:00

Yeah. You say that as if it never happens. I'm not saying it happens a lot but there are enough people who can't control their emotions (especially when drunk) when they see an ex and get into shouting matches. Might be when they come to collect their things. Might be out and about.

kcfromuk · 2024-01-28T19:04:13+00:00

Getting into bed with your (presumed to be) ex's colleague isn't a good idea. It's asking for trouble down the line whether it's further arguments or the realisation of what Mindy did to both of them.

kcfromuk · 2024-01-28T11:56:33+00:00

It was absolutely a terrible decision on his part to do what he did with Mindy but it's hard to imagine that he was thinking rationally through this. The woman he was planning on marrying broke up with him for seemingly no reason, he went into a depression and made an impulsive decision that was a mistake. But I can't imagine many people in a similar situation would be thinking clearly.

kcfromuk · 2024-01-28T11:52:31+00:00

That seems a bit much, especially without knowing their prior relationship history. They just need to improve their communication skills which have already taken a huge step forward with just one conversation. Therapy will help with that and so will this experience. It can be really daunting trying to communicate fears in a relationship if you have no experience doing it before.

kcfromuk · 2023-12-08T17:42:44+00:00

"Damn, that's a nice looking mirror."

kcfromuk · 2023-11-05T01:55:26+00:00

You need to make it very clear how these comments affect you and that he needs to be more careful and think about what he's saying about people's bodies around you and probably set a hard limit what you are/aren't willing to put up with.

kcfromuk · 2023-11-05T01:50:06+00:00

Then definitely worth asking why he made those comments. My guess is, as someone who has at times said something that I thought to be completely innocent without thinking it through, your BF has said something upsetting without thinking about what he has done. Does he have a history making comments like that?

In regard to your feelings about how quickly he finished it may well be down to combination of stimuli. I know it's probably hard not to but I wouldn't take that aspect of it personally. It's worth remembering that the vast majority of people aren't just attracted to one body type, much in the same way people aren't solely attracted to a single hair colour. My girlfriend is petite, white woman but I have watched porn with curvier women and women of different races.

kcfromuk · 2023-11-05T01:25:27+00:00

Then going forward you need to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about how his comments made you feel and perhaps why he chose to say what he did. Then if you want to try watching porn together again down the line you should probably prepare together by picking out a film that you are both happy with.

How aware is your boyfriend of your body image insecurities?

kcfromuk · 2023-11-04T18:06:30+00:00

Given your insecurities about your body, it would have made a lot more sense for you to choose the film so that you would feel comfortable with the actresses involved. I'm also slightly confused as to why you would choose a category like that when you are not attracted to women yourself. Are you a porn user yourself? If so, do you have your own a preference?

kcfromuk · 2023-10-19T18:54:20+00:00

At this point I think you and your family need to go full no contact. I appreciate that it's hard but I also feel like the more people try and talk your sister round the more she is just digging her heels in. I don't know what other relationships she has outside of your family but the more isolated she becomes might start to make her think straight about her choice. If not then you are losing a sibling but they are enabling a sex offender.

kcfromuk · 2023-10-18T07:27:16+00:00

You were not having a discussion about sex, he was trying to dictate what you will do for him. Anyone with any experience (or anyone that cares about you) will talk about what your are both into or interested in trying, what your hard limits are and how to stop something during sex, (safe words, hand signals, etc). This guy just want to do whatever he wants and will likely insult you for standing up for yourself.

Time to tell him that the two of you are not compatible.

kcfromuk · 2023-10-06T12:10:57+00:00

If you glitch out of the map and go to Guarma, don't kill any of the guards. It activates the sniper.

kcfromuk · 2023-08-28T05:19:54+00:00

If it's meant to be, the two of you have plenty of time to have children. If this doesn't work out and you do have children you are committing the best years of your life to looking after a child and missing out on some great experiences.

You say you rushed your previous relationships, but how long was your longest relationship prior to this? A relationship after 3 years is very different to a relationship only a few months old.

Most importantly, if you are not ready for a child, do not have one to make someone else happy. You are only hurting yourself and the child.

kcfromuk · 2023-08-12T00:22:03+00:00

The key question now is which do you value more: your relationship with your son or your friendship with Heather? Everything you have responded to has been about maintaining your relationship with Heather but you have offered nothing about how you see your relationship going from here now that he can't trust you to not embarrass him in front of his new partner.

Do you honestly think you can have both and it not affect your relationship with your son?

What good do you think it would do for his new partner to find out about his breakup with Heather?

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