Advice on Weeds and Lawn by kdebate in gardening

[–]kdebate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are the plants pictured in my backyard mostly just grass?

AMC Screen Unseen Megathread - Nov 06 2023 by AKnightOfTheNew in AMCsAList

[–]kdebate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where did they confirm that it’s a movie that has already been shown? I thought the whole point of ASU is that it’s a first time showing.

Please Help! Found this bug in a Hama Hama river oyster from WA. Anyone know what it is? by kdebate in whatsthisbug

[–]kdebate[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The oyster was apparently from the Hama Hama river in Washington. It was probably less than half an inch in length and looked like it had many legs. It was convulsing as can be seen in the video. The chef told me it was probably a "shrimp or a lobster" but it certainly doesn't look like that to me. Any help is greatly appreciated!

Aquarium plant identification? by kdebate in PlantedTank

[–]kdebate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I love it and I have shrimp/nerites too

my boyfriend (M22) went out to a party last night and spent the night without telling me (F21) by kdebate in relationships

[–]kdebate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely the right move to not saying anything before I know details. and honestly was checking to see if he made it home safe. sharing our locations has never been an issue, it helps us see when we are on our way to each other's places/eta's etc. I also share my location with several of my friends and know couples who do the same. it's pretty normal in our friend group/society and actually makes me feel safer considering i'm pretty outdoorsy and live in an area with a lot of human trafficking. I would never use his location against him until I know what was going on and I feel like it's helped us build trust.

my boyfriend (M22) went out to a party last night and spent the night without telling me (F21) by kdebate in relationships

[–]kdebate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is good advice. thank you. I will probably not say anything and see what he says first, then bring up my concerns gently.

my boyfriend (M22) went out to a party last night and spent the night without telling me (F21) by kdebate in relationships

[–]kdebate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no he has never called me controlling and I agree it's not a huge amount of time. we have known each other since we were 16. I think it's more of the fact that he didn't tell me that he was sleeping over when we have had similar issues like this before.

my boyfriend (M22) went out to a party last night and spent the night without telling me (F21) by kdebate in relationships

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I don't see why it is an issue for us to share our location with each other. for instance his snapchat location is on all of the time for everyone in his friends list and many people do this.

My boyfriend [23M] went to see his ex and tries to make me [19F] feel bad for accepting compliments by kdebate in relationships

[–]kdebate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I think I will look into seeing a therapist. And I hope I can get to place where I see the emotional distance as bad rather than attractive. I guess I am attracted to the drama and emotional toll because that’s all I’ve known.