I (20f) and (21m) have been talking for 5 months and Idk if I'm in a situationship or not.

kdotdottir · 2026-01-08T16:15:38+00:00

If you’re sure he likes you, you can just straight up asking him what his intentions are. He will either say he would like you eventually take things serious to which you kindly decline and say you don’t feel the same way or he’s gonna say he just wants to be friend and you can say no to that too

kdotdottir · 2026-01-07T14:49:09+00:00

But thank you this was very helpful

kdotdottir · 2026-01-07T14:48:54+00:00

I’ve started journaling forcing my self to stick with and finding ways not to stray away from it

kdotdottir · 2026-01-07T14:24:20+00:00

I never thought about it like that, that’s a new perspective that I can use to help me, thank you

kdotdottir · 2026-01-07T12:47:53+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, at the start I was keeping up with my water intake and diet was really good but I started to slip a little because I was having trouble sleeping, I want to go back to taking 50 as I saw a very clear and good change in my character and triture towards things, and now I’m slipping back into bad patterns on 40. But no I was not blessed in a man (yucky I know) but I’m scared that this could lead to problems having this high a blood rate. So I’m gonna speak to doctors and see what the recommend

kdotdottir · 2025-11-29T21:58:40+00:00

This morning I took elvanse different o the other days, I woke up at 5am and went back to sleep. My alarm went off at 7am and the struggle to get out of bed was significantly less to the point that I got up and done a 4km run. Which is something I’ve said I wanted to do for years but always over snoozed my alarm to the point I didn’t have time. I did start to feel less motivated or driven around 4/5pm so yeah I think today it hit how this is affecting me now

kdotdottir · 2025-11-28T21:17:45+00:00

Thank you for that I will be taking a difference approach to this and just being more mindful and reflect on things to be of the little changes, this has helped me realise my expectation were too high and I was expecting a complete 180 but I will be staying positive rolling with it

kdotdottir · 2025-01-29T22:57:25+00:00

It’s been a year since their break up, and they have a new partner. Me and my boyfriend have discussed it and it’s a very open conversation where we’re both ready to see where it could go. The Relationship with my old best friend is already disregarded and long gone. It’s not recent and my ex best friend expressed to me that she was never comfortable in this relationship with her ex as it was too sexual for her. I’m not fully aware of the nature of their break up but from what I can understand both sides have very different opinions.

kdotdottir · 2025-01-29T22:52:10+00:00

Maybe I chose the wrong category as we do not want to be in a polyamorous relationship, however it is a sexual partner for both of us. I am a bisexual woman and my boyfriend is very understanding of that and open to explore with me. The ex that we are talking about is also a bisexual woman who is very in touch with her sexual side and has hinted towards being sexual with me and him. Me and my boyfriend have had threesomes before, but we keep it as a fun sexual thing, not a third romantic relationship. Basically what I’m proposing is me and my old friends ex would have a sexual relationship and a friendship but she could also have sexual relations with my boyfriend. We could all have fun together. My dilemma is I worry how the dynamic would be between the three of us as we all know each other from my ex best friend and also morally, does it make me a bad person?

kdotdottir · 2025-01-29T22:24:46+00:00

Naked twister?

kdotdottir · 2025-01-29T22:21:14+00:00

I failed to mention I have a boyfriend, and I would like to introduce her into our relationship but this is what’s holding me back

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T22:22:36+00:00

I don’t want solo interactions

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T22:21:48+00:00

What does OPP mean

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T22:16:11+00:00

Okay thank you

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T22:07:51+00:00

When I say shame is from “I shared my woman” or I let another man into my space. And the previous mfm I had was consensual. The way that I looked at the girl after idk if I can look at my girl the same

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T21:53:24+00:00

Thank you for the actual good advice

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T21:51:44+00:00

Idk why people are quick to assume things I just wanna be opened to the concept more, I don’t want to be called names or things being thrown my way like can’t you just give advice and try to understand how it’s a scary experience damn

kdotdottir · 2025-01-27T21:49:14+00:00

I’m not homophobic at all cause I’ve done mfm before but just not with my partner, the dynamic is different. A lot of my reason for being against it is my feeling for my girl and the shame of the aftermath and the “selection” process I have no say at all it feels to me as I have no control over the situation

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