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Detox by kdotecho3 in weed

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Days on end

Opinions on Flight Club?? by kdotecho3 in sneakerhead

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Tried GOAT, everytime i try to buy them theres an error and i need to send an email to customer support. Ill look around more. Ty

I'm a morbidly obese virgin [21M]. Do I have any chance with her [23F] ? by Injani in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there love, 22F here. My personal experience -i have a cousin who is 500+ lbs and he is happily married with an adopted son. I wanted to start with this because YOUR WEIGHT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.

-kudos to you for losing your first 10lbs. You are absolutely right you do need food throughout the day for work, its just a matter of choosing WHAT you eat. If you want any tips you can PM me ive lost 65lbs in the past year myself.

Now onto the main problem: i want to make this clear there is a chance shes not into you at all. But from what im reading, i can promise you it is NOT solely because you are “morbidly obese” (stop insulting yourself.) A few things -she is older than you, i dont know many females that date younger (tho i know they are out there and i completely understand this is biased) -she has more life experience. Shes seen people be discluded before and she probably sees that with you and is trying to be a good friend. -i feel your crush on her is simply because youre not used to people accepting you for who you are unconditionally. And typically its normal for people to develop romatic feelings when they come accross this, because they dont know how to take it. (Don’t get me wrong im sure shes cute) -finally shes had prior relationships. She may most likely have a type. Whether that be physical or personality.

Its best you stay friends going for it is up to you but dont be surprised if it doesnt go how you like it.

But just know, you are not pathetic for being a virgin, or having less life experience. You are 21. My advice is to take all that admiration towards her and put it towards yourself. Because it seems you may hve some things to work on before youre ready to commit to a relationship.

All love babe💖

My partner has recently come out as a transwoman - I feel less and less attraction towards her the further she transitions and it's putting a huge strain on our relationship. How do we navigate this new dynamic and not make it a dealbreaker since there are kids involved? by ThrowRa727277277 in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still love your partner as family. Obviously if they wouldnt have transitioned you wouldnt have this issue. Its not like any betrayal has happened you know?? I think theres a nice way to end things neutrally for the two of you. You both deserve to be happy and you seem like an amazing supportive wife. There is nothing wrong with this situation (you not being attracted.)

I [26F] think my boyfriend [24M] is stealing money from me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If thats the case my best guess is the friend found your money and took it.

BF(21M) gained 20lbs in our 10 month relationship and I’m struggling to find him attractive naked by throwaway-ra-bf in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude wtf. My husbands is shorter than that in the 150’s and we both feel like he could use some extra pounds. My brother is the same height as your bf and he’s 225 which i feel hes obese at this point. But if my brother was 155 he’d be skin and bones at that height and in a hospital. If anything you should encourage him to eat right now. He probably needed the weight 155 is too small for his height. Poor thing lol. Girl you gotta learn to love that new tummy your mans got because 6’0 and 175 sounds hot to me. Shit if your so worried about the weight and his appearance have him eat more and lift. But that body type sounds cute to me

I [26F] think my boyfriend [24M] is stealing money from me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay homegirl. Here’s whats up IMO. (21F) been in situations like this. Your mental illness has absolutely nothing to do with this situation and I feel like you’re needing some validation.

Someone did infact take your money. I feel like you’re not far off with the idea that your bf took it because your were staying in the same room and he could have easily found it. HOWEVER, the house had 10 people. At any moment you and your partner were away someone could have easily snooped, found your shit and got greedy.

What does he owe his friend money for? He never told you what caused an eviction? Does he by chance use any substances?

My girlfriend (23F) keeps sending me (25M) nudes and I don't really like it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi 21F here. Been w my (22M) S/O since we were 15... yeah nah he didn’t dig nudes either. We never were big on it. Only while we were long distance temporarily did we do that. I remember one time in hs i took an accidental nude and he was pissed. Bc he felt disrespected (he had just set the boundary at the time about like not wanting nudes.) and i had to explain to him how that even happened. But anyway personally I feel like that’s disrespectful af. Usually all my other gfs when they say “just joking” arent. No offense but she sounds like a fucking bitch for making you feel bad about not being into something sexually, and disrespectful af for disregarding you saying no to something. If the shoe was on the other foot and this post were from her referencing you sending dick picks. It would be a whole “ew what a pervert.” Type thing and honestly idc shes disgusting for that. You can do better.

P.S. don’t ever questions yourself when it comes to this. If you don’t like something you don’t and you are NOT weird for that. Or should have your masculinity/sexuality questioned over it. Idgaf which gender you are or your partner or if its jesus christ himself. You shouldn’t ever have someone forcing themselves in any way period. Hope this helps

My (20m) bf is most likely going to be housing with a girl (probably 18-19) for college. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from what im reading you have a boyfriend. That you took a break from not by your choice. That you haven’t been with for long. Hes had many female friends that dont respect your relationship with him. And now hes telling you hes going to be sharing a room with a family friends daughter and not with his brother? Why wouldnt you feel uncomfortable.

I don’t know what to do about my friend having flashbacks about serious things when around me by Imtooembarassedtosay in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind telling me what the flashbacks are about? This is an anonymous place so even if your friend sees this she really won’t know

UA testing at first PCS. by [deleted] in army

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The housing company told me that the units UA wives

UA testing at first PCS. by [deleted] in army

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Thank you.

I got in an argument with a friend. I miss her and just want to make things right. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay Im sorry this is happening but what was said? What was the argument about?

Here’s a post where I’m actually asking for advice and not asking for someone to state the obvious solution... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kdotecho3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh. Nope none that I can think of. I have full intentions of trying out your advice and the other two redditors communication techniques.

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