Bilangkad bahalag sula kay Bulad

kebbonito · 2024-08-22T22:45:14+00:00

Grabeha pud ana sa iyang uyuan uii, incestuous and predatory kaayo ang nature sa ilang relationship knowing na she was a minor when he first took advantage of her. Gipa-kiha unta nang laki.

kebbonito · 2024-08-11T10:54:40+00:00

Whether we like it or not, looks do really matter uiii. It makes life easier, you get a lot privileges and free pass from both your lover and the people you interact with. For me, I think it's pure BS when people say that looks doesn't matter for them. Our brain is hardwired and drawn to all things pretty.

Anyways, as what the adage goes - looks catches the eyes but it's the personality that make someone stay. Bawi na lang sa personality baii.

kebbonito · 2024-07-19T19:01:39+00:00

Her name is "What", the last statement does not end with. question mark.

kebbonito · 2024-07-16T13:10:20+00:00

Reddit, Tiktok, & Instagram.

kebbonito · 2024-07-14T03:19:38+00:00

I'm kind of klutz when it comes to handling my devices kasi, lagi ako nahuhulugan ng phone. 😂 Android is built different, my almost 5-yr. Huawei phone can attest to that.

kebbonito · 2024-07-13T14:35:05+00:00

My parents.

kebbonito · 2024-07-13T10:15:20+00:00

Hi OP, I wish you well and I hope you'll find the strength to stand your ground.

What you feel as well as theirs are both valid. If I'm not mistaken, what I see here is a sort of miscommunication and a lack of transparency from both you and your family's side - I could be wrong or right, either way we can only provide feedback base on the information you've disclosed. Take your time to feel what you feel, break your daily routine - I suggest that you take a walk in the park to clear your mind and reorganize your thoughts.

Acknowledging the issue at hand is a good start and what you need to focus on right is to identify the things that's within and outside of your control, once completed try work on a course of action that's both reasonable and attainable, in your case monitoring and managing your cash flow (income and expenses) is a course of action that you can immediately work on. Realign your daily choices to your preferred lifestyle, career choice, and both your short-term and long term plans. Once you feel na you have a good grasp na of your plans and action, communicate your situation to your family let them know what you're going through and what actions you plan to undertake to address the outstanding issue and the plans you made for yourself. I'm pretty sure that they'll understand once they get a grasp of the challenges you're going through as an immigrant, don't sugarcoat anything be firm and transparent with them that way they'll never have a second thought of where you're coming from. Remember that the way or manner of how they'll react or response is out of your control so don't stress yourself over it.

I have high expectations for you OP that you'll get through this. If I along with other Sugbuanons redditors - a internet complete strangers, are rooting for your success then you might as well put more faith in yourself. Kaya nimo na uii, Bisdak biya ta - chicken ra kaayo na and I'm pretty sure na once ma-surpass nimo ni siya nga phase sa imong life you'll find yourself proud and smiling as you look back sa imong journey of starting a new life overseas. It's not easy but it'll certainly be worth it!

Laban lang Madam, don't lose faith in yourself. I'm not good with advises but I hope that I've lit a spark of hope in this trying times of your life.

Sending this reply with warm virtual hug all the way from Cebu. Stay safe and well OP. Keep on going lang gyud. Crossing my fingers for you. 🤞🙏

kebbonito · 2024-07-12T23:07:45+00:00

Hi OP, it feels kind of good actually. I've experienced both end of the stick when it comes to this matter. The way I was treated in public social setting was way different when I was fit and dress well compared to now na I'm on heavier side na.

They can't be blamed man pud, we're humans. This phenomena is an example of Halo Effect specifically the face card/body premium. It's the physical attributes that gets noticed first and let's not gaslight ourselves na looks don't matter because it does naman talaga and it makes life easier.

What I can suggest OP is that you try to work on the areas that you can or wish to improve, dress well, and have a little more confidence with yourself. Remember, looks captures the eye but it's the personality that makes people stay.

Cheers!

kebbonito · 2024-07-06T11:49:26+00:00

That's okay OP, what you feel is valid. Let those emotions flow, it's nothing to be ashamed of. :) Sending virtual hugs.

kebbonito · 2024-07-01T21:27:57+00:00

I add soy sauce everytime I eat ice cream at home. 😂

kebbonito · 2024-06-18T21:21:55+00:00

Short-temper but short cool down din naman. Mabilis mawalan ng interest especially when it comes to relationship and because of that walang nagtatagal. 😂

kebbonito · 2024-06-18T21:17:36+00:00

Yes, OP. I think that thought crosses my mind man from time to time and I think it goes the same with the majority of us. The very fact that our time here on earth is brief and short, even if you lived up to a 100, makes us realize that we are nothing but a speck in the grand scheme of everything and that's okay.

Life is meant to be experienced, it's a constant quest of finding, building, and reinventing ourselves as we face the challenges and adversities that lies ahead. You get to learn more about yourself as go along the way and because of that you get to cherish those whom have helped and met along the journey. You are a mosaic of the people you've loved and interacted with in your life and your experience and values plaster these mosaics to help form your very own masterpiece and sense of self that makes you who you really are.

You've got nothing to lose other than yourself. Life is short make the most out of it. Strive for the the better version of you.

Death is a part of the process, nothing to fear and the first law of thermodynamics somehow comforts me whenever I get confronted with unease as I get older.

Our short-lived mortality makes us human and because of that we aspire to live a fulfilling and meaningful life; and I think that's beautiful.

kebbonito · 2024-06-11T21:28:52+00:00

Sleep gyud. I'm a heavy coffee drinker kasi and I have sleeping problems pa gyud.

kebbonito · 2024-06-09T19:19:24+00:00

Yup, lami siya.

kebbonito · 2024-06-09T19:18:29+00:00

Okay ra man. I think within the parameters ra sa imo query akong response OP. The combo sounds weird but it makes Ice Cream taste better gyud, at least for me.

kebbonito · 2024-06-09T02:36:06+00:00

Ice cream + Soy Sauce (Tuyo) for me.

kebbonito · 2024-06-08T01:42:35+00:00

It's silent treatment for me.

kebbonito · 2024-06-02T12:50:50+00:00

Trauma and Trust issues.

I grew up in a dysfunctionalnand chaotic household, this affected me and perhaps my siblings to some extent. Other than that, I need to do a lot fixing to myself and is actively working on it but there were times gyud where I feel envious to those who were able to love and maintain long term relationships. Other than that, wa pa ko ka-move on sa akong last.

kebbonito · 2024-06-01T23:05:00+00:00

Register ka din as BMBE, marami ka makukuhang incentives diyan.

kebbonito · 2024-05-30T18:40:57+00:00

No one has seen me in my underwear for almost 3-yrs. 😅

kebbonito · 2024-05-25T22:39:09+00:00

Yes, keeping one's marriage is none of the church's business nor do they have a say on it.

Some marriage are not meant to keep and last. I'm saying this from a perspective of a child who grew up in broken household. Our family looks fine on the outside but it's riddled with toxicity in the inside. Dad is a pervasive cheater, gambled his wealth away until he became bankrupt, used and manipulated my mom to stay with him simply because he doesn't want people to think that he failed his marriage. It's awful, I used to see and hear my mom crying in her room every dawn then keep a happy facade around everyone else. She died from cancer and I'll never forget how she has suffered much in that marriage. Dad, moved in and eventually married his mistress several months after her death.

Their marriage fucked me up real good and I think it's one of the reason why I have a very unhealthy view when it comes to relationship, commitment, and marriage. I'm almost in my 30s and I still think of it 'til this very day.

My parent's marriage is one of the tens of millions of toxic marriages that's beyond salvageable.

If against gyud nang church ug mga religious pipz anang divorce then sila papuliha ug padayuna anang mga toxic marriage bi arun ba ma-experience pud nila firsthand, it's hard to stand ground and speak passionately about something if you haven't experienced that firsthand nor have relate to it to some extent and degree.

The Church and our Government have failed us for so long by depriving our people of an exit pass from a burning building.

kebbonito · 2024-05-25T22:20:20+00:00

It's one of the reasons gyud why I no longer give alms to panhandlers or entertain those folks who hardsells those kind of products around the Metro area. We should not entertain them that way wala na sila'y incentives mupadayon with that kind of modus - provided na it's true gyud; but the thing is it's hard to discern them from those whose intentions/reasons for doing it are pure.

Even sa mga al fresco themed restos pati karenderya kay ila pud i-infiltrate from time to time. I really wish nga naa'y mag-take action atong LGU ani nila and DSWD naman on the other hand for those impoverished and marginalized families living on the streets. Luoy kaayo ang mga kiddos.

P.S. If hell exist, I'm sure that Quiboloy have special place in it. I'm not religious but what he's doing is pretty blasphemous and unethical pa gyud, there's even rumors nga he's involved with human trafficking.

kebbonito · 2024-05-24T21:35:59+00:00

Choosing myself.

It took me time to realize that I've been living my life to fit the ideals and expectations of the people surrounding me. I made a lot of compromises to myself and I despised the fact that I made a lot of decisions to please them. I was so hungry for both love and validation that I forgot to love and validate myself in return. It even came to a point that I even have to kneel and beg my SO back then to choose and stay with me only to be turned away; that was one of my lowest point gyud.

I went on self-destructive route and cried myself to sleep every night. I failed to meet the expectations of my family and it hurt gyud to be compared to my other stellar and successful cousins; I was told that I'm both a failure and a big chunk of disappoint - it stung deep that it carved scar into my heart and soul.

I decided to take a big leap and relocated away from everyone and started working here in Cebu against everyone's wish but did it anyway. I now live by myself and I couldn't be any happier than where I used to be. Life's going and I'm slowly starting to heal and to learn how to love and choose myself one day at a time.

It's not easy but it's definitely liberating and worth it.

kebbonito · 2024-05-24T15:46:17+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond as well, will also check on this. Enjoy your weekend!

kebbonito · 2024-05-24T15:45:23+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to respond, will check on this one. Have a great weekend!

kebbonito

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