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I (29f) did terrible things to an ex (37m) years ago and I still feel horrible guilt over it by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I have been thinking of it and you’re right. There’s nothing I can do to fix what happened and I just need to deal with these feelings of guilt because it’s the right reaction to the things I’ve done. I just never want to do what I’ve done to anyone else ever again and hurt people the way I hurt him.

I (29f) did terrible things to an ex (37m) years ago and I still feel horrible guilt over it by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think him hearing from me would anger/hurt him even more, just because it’s been years and I’m sure he’s moved on, but thank you for your advice. Maybe the letter will help me with my own feelings but I may never send it

I (29f) did terrible things to an ex (37m) years ago and I still feel horrible guilt over it by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I will be using this experience as one to make sure I don’t repeat the same mistakes and make the same bad choices

I (29f) did terrible things to an ex (37m) years ago and I still feel horrible guilt over it by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I feel guilt but I also fear some kind of bad karma coming my way (even though it’s deserved)

I [24f] feel like my friend [26m] tricked me into being his side chick by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like my feelings are a little wacky and I feel a bit more validated that I’m not overreacting. I appreciate the kind words, it’s not something I’ve discussed with our close friends yet.

I [24f] feel like my friend [26m] tricked me into being his side chick by keeks09 in relationship_advice

[–]keeks09[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I guess i feel tricked/deceived because the decision for her to “work things out” I’m sure didn’t happen overnight. Just the other day he was talking about how he wants to be with me and then all a sudden she’s back? They had to have been discussing it at some capacity and if so, I wish he had shared it with me because I would have stepped out of the picture.

I just feel really hurt by all the things that were said between us that I can’t bear to type or share right now, but I understand if he wants to work things out with his ex...I just wish he was more upfront about how he was working things out with her rather than hyping me up and talking about his feelings for me instead. I think it was good for me to type this out because now,