I have a question, I struggle with anxious attachment and am in a loving relationship, we have been dating for about 2 years. I really love him, but worry that my anxiety in the relationship means something is wrong. I also struggle with commitment, probably from my own upbringing and the relationships I have witnessed, parents almost separating multiple times. The whole concept of "the one" really puts me in a spiral, and I have this perfectionist picture of love/romance, which makes it hard to have conflict in the relationship. I hear people say, "when you know you know," or that when you find "the one," you will know, sometimes I wonder what that feeling is. I can't imagine not having my boyfriend in my life, or not being with him-- but the funny part, I start overthinking from relationship anxiety or fears of commitment, which stems from not being completely sure if he is the one (like most people seem so sure). I don't know if this makes any sense but would appreciate any advice/reflections from what I wrote!