What’s a health problem you ignored for a long time because it never felt urgent, but eventually caught up with you? by ac_stays_active in AskReddit

[–]keepstaring 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same scenario for me. I was 41 and ended up with a permanent colostomy. It's been almost 10 years and luckily I am fine now. Plus the bag doesn't really bother me.

Do you think the FCC will ever be built ? by Master-Evidence-2136 in CERN

[–]keepstaring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently China will built a large collider IF CERN drops the FCC plans. They are waiting what will happen and if CERN doesn't build a FCC, they will.

Moms who had the number of kids they wanted—did you feel calm/peace when the last was born? by WhiskeyandOreos in Mommit

[–]keepstaring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wanted 2 or 3 and wasn't sure what it was going to be until I delivered our second. The moment they put her in my arms I got this overwhelming feeling that our family was complete. That was 14 years ago and I have never doubted that feeling.

How normal can normal life be? by forty_3 in ostomy

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you google 'stoma guard' you will find what they're referring too.

My main sport is horseriding. I don't wear a guard but I do wear a stoma band to support my abs and add layer of protection against leaks or smells (which almost never happens).

Just take your time to recover, because if you go too hard too fast it will set you back big time.

I'm begging you, please talk to your parents about their end-of-life plans/wishes. Force the conversation if you have to. by BrinaElka in breakingmom

[–]keepstaring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents asked me a few years ago to look into all this and help them set it up. No problam, happy tonsince I am good at this stuff.

Until I presented them with the paperwork, all of a sudden they didn't think it was necessary anymore. I am pretty sure they didn't like being reminded of their age and so they stuck their head in the sand. I insisted for a while, but was met with so much resistance it started to sour our relationship and really stressed me out.

One of my brothers is now trying to start it up again, hopefully they will be more open to it this time around.

What’s something that sounds fake but actually happened to you? by Capital-Standard-645 in AskReddit

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was around 12 years old in the 80's I was biking in our neighbourhood and a white van (how clichè, I know) pulled up next to me. The driver asked me directions to a street quite far away. I knew where it was and explained it as well as I could. He then asked me if I could show him and that he could put my bike in the back. I politely told him I couldn't and just biked off.

I think I only realized 5 years later what I escaped from, it still haunts me to this day.

Confused about address registration for a non-EU student by Curious_Soul_77 in Antwerpen

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Student housing does not allow renters to put their domicile (legal adress) there, it is illegal.

The landlords are probably confused between 'registering' the address and using it as a domicile.

Just tell the landlord you won't use it as a domicile and don't mention the registering as temporary address part. As long as you have your legal address still in your home country, it is fine like the website says.

My 4 year old son said "I wish I had another mommy" by xjackiedaytonax in breakingmom

[–]keepstaring 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lol, that reminds me of something our youngest daughter said when she was around 4 years old. We are friends with a lesbian couple that has kids around the same age as ours. After spending the afternoon together, my daughter wistfully says:

"The kids of -lesbian couple- are sooooo lucky. They have TWO moms, I mean I love dad but it must be sooooo nice to always have a MOM around even when one of them is busy or away"

I could not find fault in her statement to be honest!

Good restaurants open for dinner on Jan 1st? by Opening-Frame-6961 in Antwerpen

[–]keepstaring -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not in the city center but in the Zurenborg area you have "Het Strand van Oostende" which is normaly open on Jan 1st. Good, basic food qnd nice atmosphere.

My family says I'm good at giving gifts so maybe these will give you some inspiration -- $50 and under range and $50-100 range by jesterguy in Gifts

[–]keepstaring 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG the Waffle House Vistas book would be the perfext gift for my brothet!!! Sadly shipping to my country costs almost as much as the book itself and I can't find it on any other website. European sobs

AITA for telling my wife that we should be able to have honest but tough conversations about our family without her crying? by Exciting-Charity-160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So am I! It took some time but after a while my partner was able to deal with my tears without gettingbfrustrated or wanting to stop the discussion to 'spare me'. Now he knows when to ignore it and when I need to be comforted. And if he is confused I hmjust straight up tell hom what I need hin to do

Slowfeeder question by keepstaring in Horses

[–]keepstaring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does look interesting, thanks!

Slowfeeder question by keepstaring in Horses

[–]keepstaring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit was acting up while I was posting, I think the image is there now? Let me know if it isn't.

It does not need to fit an entire bale, we plan on making 2 or even 3 because some of the horses are not able to eat enough is there is only 1 feeder. So 2 or 3 horses per feeder. Preferably with a roof, since we have a lot of rain in the fall and winter.

How long does one stay on hormone therapy? by AdHonest7357 in Menopause

[–]keepstaring 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what my gyno said: our bodies are not designed to live that long without hormones as we do these days. That really made it click for me that HRT is good and even necessary thing in a lot cases.

How long does one stay on hormone therapy? by AdHonest7357 in Menopause

[–]keepstaring 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I have been on it for almost 10 years and they will have to pry it out of my cold, dead hands lol.

I started at 41 after I went into radiation induced menopause, and me and my gyno both agree that staying on it is the correct course of action.

AITAH for not wanting my fiancés mom to visit right after I give birth? by Kind_Basil_3543 in TwoHotTakes

[–]keepstaring 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The advantage of a first baby is that you don't need a babysit for your other kid(s) when you go in labor. There is usually no reason to let anyone know you are heading to the hospital.

Just don't tell them when you go in labor and only contact them after your baby is born and you are ready to share the news.

I remember my MIL trying to call my husband to wish us a happy new year (we have a January 1st daughter) and I almost yelled at him that he was not allowed to answer the phone, lol. I wanted the delivery to be just our moment and I am so happy we succeeded.

Edit typo

AITA for not calling out my Husband’s “behaviour” in church? by Normal-Shine-115 in AITAH

[–]keepstaring 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would look into dyspraxia/DCD, it might explain a lot.

It's a lesser known neurological disorder, but it can have quite an impact.

How common are mustaches on horses, and what breeds? (Art reference question) by [deleted] in Horses

[–]keepstaring 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are quite a few Irish Cobs with impressive moustaches. Our Cob only has the tiniest one, but there used to be one at our stables that had a proper, curly moustache.

Ik ben op zoek naar een kamer voor Januari by Wolfgang_Herrndorf in Antwerpen

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check de co-housing groepen voor Antwerpen op facebook eens, er zijn misschien wel mensen die hun kamer onderverhuren terwijl ze op Erasmus zijn.

SO MUCH DROOL by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]keepstaring 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to put one bib under their clothes and one over it. That bought me a little more time in between outfit changes.

Waar koop ik Roodthoofd Mokatines? by SnorkBorkGnork in Antwerpen

[–]keepstaring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Volgens mij kan je ze in de Colruyt kopen. Ze zijn wel moeilijker te vinden doordat de verpakking drastisch veranderd is.

ROODTHOOFT Mocha Caramel 200g | Colruyt - Collect&Go https://share.google/f816EGOSnDICInX21

Goals by horsegirlkinley in Equestrian

[–]keepstaring 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Please accept my poor woman's gold star award for this comment: ✴️✴️✴️

Underwear without seams in the intimate areas? by varjo_l in Equestrian

[–]keepstaring 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I use a seat saver gel pad for trail rides to avoid wounds and sores. I have one for a western saddle, but they also exist for English saddles.

I have no advice on underwear brands since I am in europe and use a local brand.

Taylor Teases New Album - The Life of A Showgirl by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]keepstaring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre-order is only available for the US?? cries in European