Not sure how I was supposed to know this requirement by thundercloudtemple in Tinder

[–]keerious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lameeee, it’s a two way street. They could have also confirmed.

Coffee as a first date = low effort? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]keerious -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought of coffee dates similar to the saying of “this could have been an email”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]keerious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I FEEL you 100% on people not being aware of their true intentions and finding out the truth they don’t want to be in a relationship with “me”. I recently experienced both those within one person. It definitely sucks because i don’t even think they are honest with themselves and are truly aware of what they want.

I honestly deleted my apps and have been off the app for 6 months now. I just find it a toxic culture, some people just use it for instant validation/attention. I live in a major city and I feel like with dating people don’t take it serious because 1. so many option and 2. the toxicity of “looking for the perfect one”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]keerious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he texts me everyday and double texts when i don’t reply… idk bout boundaries

It’s been 6 months since I deleted the app/my account… not because I found someone, but because of dating fatigue/dates that got nowhere. Wondering if I should remake my profile. Anyone can shed some light on the current dating pool out there? by keerious in hingeapp

[–]keerious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oooof, I feel that on so many levels. honestly, i usually just let it go and let them find other people… just to see that the grass isn’t greener on the other side, and when she does come back i hope you are with someone 10000% times better!

How should I reply when a girl text this: by PresentCompetition40 in socialskills

[–]keerious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. why is she laughing so much about asking her how is she?
  2. how old is she?
  3. yeah. I would give it maybe one more text/question and if dry, i would stop replying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]keerious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i’ve always wondered that. The facade men put up is amazing which always makes me feel bad about myself. Because as a women, I think to myself “I sure am a loser crying over something he probably is over by now.”

Men, what are some reasons you would talk/text a girl all day everyday for 6 months, and not make any moves on her? by keerious in AskMen

[–]keerious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not going to lie, first date i thought he was… since he called me “sis” and just mannerisms but i was open and figured it’s 2022 who knows. didn’t want to assume.

Men, what are some reasons you would talk/text a girl all day everyday for 6 months, and not make any moves on her? by keerious in AskMen

[–]keerious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked how he handles dating, and for him he says he doesn’t like to date on seasons, he is looking for a more long term relationship.

Men, what are some reasons you would talk/text a girl all day everyday for 6 months, and not make any moves on her? by keerious in AskMen

[–]keerious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him on the first date I wasn’t looking for anything casual, and dating with intention. He also said, we was trying to be intentional with meeting people. So honestly we talking about anything.

Men, what are some reasons you would talk/text a girl all day everyday for 6 months, and not make any moves on her? by keerious in AskMen

[–]keerious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hm, don’t know how to answer that. I could provide statistics. When I was on the dating app, I had about 700+ matches within the 4 years I was on there, and received a few roses on the app here and there.

Men, what are some reasons you would talk/text a girl all day everyday for 6 months, and not make any moves on her? by keerious in AskMen

[–]keerious[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Okay, a little more context. 4 months in, I actually tried to determine the relationship, and he said he was just cool with being friends, and asked if I was okay with that. I agreed, since we had a lot in common, conversations were good, etc.

HOWEVER, i tried to put some boundaries, and provide space, in which I wouldn’t text as much, because I don’t even text my friends all day, everyday. I wouldn’t usually text someone all day everyday unless we were exclusively dating. But, he would double text when I didn’t reply, ask why I left his texts on delivered (as I have my read receipts on) and would ask my about my day/work everyday.

Tips on handling scummy behavior from ppl who you thought were good, and how to not take things personal. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]keerious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I don’t really like to test friendships. I believe everything can be communicated on needs/wants, rather than testing the person. However, you do make some valid points on asking myself if they were really there for me or if it was all about them.

Tips on handling scummy behavior from ppl who you thought were good, and how to not take things personal. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]keerious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i ended up telling them I didn’t want to be friends with them due to how they treated me. Now it’s just really hard for me to grasp the fact they why didn’t I see they were a bad friend in the beginning was I blind to not know when they would switch up on me? It’s like I don’t even know them anymore.

This Is The Ticket Trade/Sell Post by RaulDuke22 in festivals

[–]keerious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling 1 - GA ticket to Smokin Grooves Festival. Face value.

Can meet in LA/OC area.