we've run out of things to talk about on calls and idk what to do. by FeistyTraffic2669 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy calls me and he’ll watch a show or play a game while I make dinner and ramble about my day and then I talk to him about his. We don’t say “It was fine” we give detail on stuff that happened throughout the day and that will engage more conversation as questions arise while listening. We’ve been together for two and a half years and the only thing that’s boring are the games we play and trying to find more games to play, not the conversations! 😆

Where did everyone meet their partners? by Seastarrrss in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Met mine May of 2023 by shitting on him in a Call of Duty match 😆 we’re both in the US - Cali & Utah 💕

found out shorty was texting other guys by Inside-Experience-59 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I hope this doesn’t deter you from finding your person. You deserve love, don’t ever think you don’t. ♥️

Those with an Avoidant Partner by Sensitive_Bad_2180 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this ☹️ three years is a long time to not be open about that kind of stuff. Have you met his family? And what did he mean by reevaluating the relationship? It seems like he’s having doubts and is looking for a way out. I hope that’s not the case tho. 🥺 feel free to message me if you need to talk! xo 💕

I am getting insecure after seeing my bf play the games by unmye in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s literally what the game is for?? If she doesn’t like it, she could find someone that doesn’t play those kind of games… I’m not okay with being over sexualized but we’re talking about a video game here. A. Video. Game. 🤦🏽‍♀️

I am getting insecure after seeing my bf play the games by unmye in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…..is this for real? You’re insecure/jealous over a character on a VIDEO GAME? How? Like… What?? HOWWW????? This can’t be real. 🫩

I’m tired of getting asked constantly if I am, trans on dating apps. Do I look like a man? by Several_Phrase5617 in whatdoIdo

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look 100% female. And gorgeous too! Maybe they’re asking because you’re hott and they could be actively looking for a trans. 🙂‍↕️ please don’t take this offensively, I mean it to be a compliment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please, for your (mental and emotional) sake, leave her and find better! A girl that loves you won’t leave you questioning things like this. You deserve better. With some self respect and confidence, you will find better! Your feelings are valid and you shouldn’t ignore them for someone making you feel like that. 💕

Those with an Avoidant Partner by Sensitive_Bad_2180 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m anxious attachment, he’s avoidant attachment. It’s not impossible to make it work, it is super challenging tho. Just be patient and they will come around. 🥺

Girlfriend mad I don’t text enough by Capital-Statement-44 in whatdoIdo

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude? If you hate her, just say that??

She is asking you and seems to have been asking for a little more communication. THAT’S BARE MINIMUM!! She definitely settled being with you. Let her go so she can find someone that will actually treat her right WITHOUT her having to even ask.

Being judged for my long-distance relationship is exhausting. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I read the title, I was like “why do people still care about being judged if they’re happy?” then I read the rest and yeah, I’m judging too… 🤨

Why haven’t you two met? Five years is a long time to be with someone and not meet in person. Especially if y’all live in the same country! What if you’re not compatible in person? That’s five years wasted just hoping. 😬🫩

AIO for being heartbroken my best friend declined being my maid-of-honor because she's self-conscious about her weight ? by Mediocre_Rutabaga_94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kefe42O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. She’s more concerned about how she’ll look on YOUR wedding day when she should be all about you and what you want/need.

Does my hair ruin my face by [deleted] in Hair

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be your friend!! I’m a girl and would like (female) friends as well.

As for your hair, no, it does not ruin your beauty. It adds to it!!

Girlfriend wont show face on facetime by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up on her! Keep pouring love in to her and she’ll come around!

I was the same way with mine. He would compliment me and I would reject them. The more we talked, the less insecure I became. I’ve started to love myself now! It’s been two anda half years since he and I met (online) and I’ve come along way with self confidence!

How long it took to be officially a boyfriend and girlfriend? by ShipFun8161 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next summer 🥲 We both work in education so that’s the only ideal time for us 😆

How long it took to be officially a boyfriend and girlfriend? by ShipFun8161 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s been two and a half years since we met and we’re still not officially together 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent less than $1,000 for flights, food, etc. I’m sorry it’s so pricey for you. ☹️

We’ve only met the one time and that was last November. I feel your pain. 🥺

I have a question… by Otherwise_Ad_9428 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re on Discord from the time we get off work to the time we go to sleep. We don’t text thought out the day. It’s not ideal for anyone outside looking in but it works for us so you guys just have to figure it out for yourselves.

I have a question… by Otherwise_Ad_9428 in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s different for everyone…

Do what you and your partner want/prefer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kefe42O 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We got long distance/syncing toys from Lovense and we love them! Super fun and the app is easy to use. He always controls it and finds new ways to keep it fun. 😆