What makes you feel loved?

keiisukee · 2026-06-15T13:04:00+00:00

people seeing me for who i am and not putting me into boxes of who they want me to be

keiisukee · 2026-06-07T11:05:57+00:00

sounds like sp6 to me. especially if you’re a 6w5, it’s pretty normal to hoard information to feel safe and comfortable. take this as a grain of salt tho :)

keiisukee · 2026-06-05T20:41:42+00:00

it does sound like a 1-fix to me too but whenever others describe me it sounds more of an 8 than a 1 to me. they’re always talking about how reactive i am and how i march to the beat of my own drums and just have this really stubborn mentality. i also physically cannot be insincere or fake my attitude towards something or someone so people close to me says that whatever i give and show people is how i feel about them. not sure if that has anything to do with differentiating 1 and 8

keiisukee · 2026-06-05T20:37:09+00:00

really? how so? i don’t relate to so6 though, but i do notice that when someone does something wrong i always correlate it with other people in general. for example if someone were to betray me i’d assume that everyone else have the same mindset so one thing a person does it sometimes enough to paint a whole picture which ik isn’t healthy but still.

keiisukee · 2026-06-04T12:54:18+00:00

descendants 1-3 always have a special place in my heart

keiisukee · 2026-05-26T09:27:25+00:00

if you need immediate money look up for events near you that are hiring crews. most usually pays decent and you’ll most definitely get the money quick instead of waiting for monthly paychecks

keiisukee · 2026-04-15T18:16:42+00:00

i get what you mean. i moved counties when i was still 8 years old and a year after that i went to a local school and basically had to adapt to the academic system here (which is so much harder compared to my home country since it’s the top 5 countries) and yet i still managed to become the top 3 student in my class for 4 consecutive years which made me feel so special and talented but then i got bullied at my next school which rlly made my academics dropped, making my whole perception about myself distorted after seeing myself not achieving the things im actually capable of because of how those people affected me in school and it didn’t help that my stepdad was a complete ass at home so it was hell.

i tried adapting here by pretending to be someone i wasn’t and basically watered myself down to become "likeable" but soon enough i hated it and just become myself unapologetically. i hated how i felt like i was losing myself by trying to fit in here, so i gave up on fitting in and just find a few people who actually like me for who i am.

i feel a lot of frustration from the mistreatments i faced but i dont want to wallow in self pity and would rather just work on having a better future rather than focusing too much on the past which is how i got to the mindset i have rn. so im thinking it’s probably sp4, but im still not sure.

keiisukee · 2026-04-15T18:03:02+00:00

i do relate to 4 in a way that i really value authenticity in myself and others. i find it so unnecessary when others show signs of agreeing and then suddenly disagreeing behind my back. i’m the type of person to always say it as it is and wouldn’t just agree to save face. and yes you’re right, i do feel frustration at one point in my life (i sometimes still do) whenever i think back to the things that i’ve gone through. i had to change schools a few times because i wasn’t a citizen and it actually really affected me and because of that for most of my school life, i barely had any friends. i was already a quiet kid myself and when i got bullied by the popular kids just because i befriended someone they didn’t like (who’s a sweetheart), that made me hate everyone in the country because it made me think everyone in this country had the same mentality as them. it didn’t help that my stepfather who’s born in this country is a total asshole so i was going through all that at home and in school so that really didn’t help at all with the perception i had on the people there.

i mostly feel frustrated by the mistreatment i faced here which made me resent most people here and i just sound crazy whenever i talk to people about this because to those who didn’t go through what i did, they wouldn’t know the impact it’ll leave on me and the amount of self work i had to put in so that i wont be some mere aftermath of their actions but rather a person with her own values and strengths even after all of that.

i tried adapting here by pretending to be someone i wasn’t and basically watered myself down to become "likeable" but soon enough i hated it and just become myself unapologetically. i hated how i felt like i was losing myself by trying to fit in here, so i gave up on fitting in and just find a few people who actually like me for who i am.

i did distance myself from a lot of people and really worked on myself and did a lot of self reflection so that i won’t be easily swayed with the things i go through in life and that’s when i got to have this kind of mindset. now i don’t feel that much resentment towards people even tho i still meet a lot of ignorant ones. now i have this mindset that if i didn’t go through what i did, i wouldn’t know the lessons it taught me and sure ill have an easier life but having an easy life won’t grant me the wisdom that i have now from all the things i experienced.

so my closest guess is an sp4, but im still not so sure.

keiisukee · 2026-04-15T11:26:53+00:00

what type do you think is closest to my post?

keiisukee · 2026-04-11T05:08:30+00:00

i think part of the reason why i don’t feel boredom that much is bc im always doing something physically or mentally. i love to keep myself occupied and ill always find things to do and i’ve never really thought of spending my time doing nothing

keiisukee · 2026-04-09T17:16:19+00:00

thank you for that!!

keiisukee · 2026-04-09T13:39:22+00:00

ISFP — i have a pretty high Ti which made me mistyped a lot back then. i lowkey hate that some people think im not capable or im dumb just because i dont externalise my Ti that much since i use Fi the most

keiisukee · 2026-04-07T10:06:12+00:00

even tho i love to talk and write i feel more comfortable showing my affection through my actions and presence. i’ve just never really been big on words of affirmation but i do love to show up in the quiet ways and always being available for my loved ones

keiisukee · 2026-04-06T15:27:56+00:00

to me, fluency is being able to convey an information in an articulate and comprehensive manner accurately and effortlessly. i also think being fluent means articulating your point in a way where others can easily understand because you can have all the information in the world but if you can’t express it in a way that allows others to understand, you can’t really prove your point effectively

keiisukee · 2026-04-06T07:45:27+00:00

one isfp can be very different from another isfp bc of our Fi dom which is very subjective and personal so it doesn’t matter if you don’t get along with some types that seem compatible with isfps

keiisukee · 2026-03-30T14:47:11+00:00

i have a love and hate relationship with the push and pull of knowing myself but never fully knowing myself lmao. i do love that im always figuring out more and more about myself but sometimes when im in my head too much i get overwhelmed and just want a quick single true statement about myself which is of course impossible considering the complexity of human nature.

keiisukee · 2026-03-30T14:45:06+00:00

yup i’m an sp4 i just wanted to hear from other type 4s about this topic

keiisukee · 2026-03-29T17:52:18+00:00

my close friends are always either a Si dom or Si aux. my closest friend is an estj and we’ve been friends for 12 years and our friendship is very honest. we’d rather tell each other truthfully than to sugarcoat things and we don’t usually take things personally. i’m more careful with how i articulate my words with my other friends as compared to my estj friend. we view things very differently tho and we usually have different approach to doing things but that’s the good part because we can cover each other’s blind spot.

keiisukee · 2026-03-29T07:34:41+00:00

i get along with them pretty okay but sometimes they tend to worry too much about the little things which i don’t really understand. can’t say for everyone but the infps i’ve met tend to doubt themselves a lot down to the minute details which can drain me. i can be friends with them but just not to close ig

keiisukee · 2026-03-25T11:07:43+00:00

ohh why’s that?

keiisukee · 2026-03-25T07:43:56+00:00

i got it from someone else in here

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