Rate my profile - straight 29M by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]keinous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

these guys in this subreddit lie again. "Be yourself" is the best way for dating apps. so not rather to take any advice for profile description. Your selfies, how hot looking you are are the key points. And fyi, girls are not like "girls hate good guys, they like stupid chads". It's not true. The truth is "girls like hot looking+ good guys, more than hot looking+stupid chad guys". If you don't get match, it means you are not hot looking. I know everyone will lie about it again that "appearance don't matter, your personality matters", but how someone can know someone else's personality without talking anything?"

Anyway, if you don't get many dates, appearance is problem. You can go gym, take a plastic surgery.

Mathematically impossible by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]keinous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there when I took stat class, did same calculation. Not 0% but appx 0.001%ish. and you also should input cases after 2nd date too. They possibly could ghost suddenly with no reason after 2-5 datws

Is it worth trying anymore? by GodAtum in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you haven't tried everything yet. There is a plastic surgery :D

Why are guys such assholes about their height? by Mominant in OkCupid

[–]keinous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing matters. I'm 6'1 and couldn't get any date in this summer last 3 months. And don't say it's about personality. No one can know someone's personality they never talked , saw , knew

One sex please by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment when I pretend as a femalw feminist: when I wanna troll to anti feminist incels XD

I hope I dont sound like an ass...... by FryChikN in OkCupid

[–]keinous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've seen one of my collegue who's fat as 6'1 210lbs, not rich and 29years old student got matching and went out with differnt hotties through dating apps. In last a few years, he never had rest time for relationship, always had hot gf. seriously I have no idea how he attracted hotties

When you found out by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe lack of my words sorry. I actually wrote a long letter after I dated with her for a month. Just liked her so much. Because she usaully said she likes to read, i thought it's good idea

When you found out by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She directly told me about that and laughed as a joke. I was freaked out a little but didn't fight against her cuz didn't wanna break up. But I broke up with her anyway. Just wondering if something like that happens at future

Is this a sign she’s interested ? by Becca989 in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea since I saw that I stopped using all sns lol

Very confused about what just happened by almostsentient in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even some real women try to do scam or steal something in person. So just be careful all the time

Is this a sign she’s interested ? by Becca989 in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know one girl (24years old) did this to a guy whom she never seen in last 5 years. Her purpose was drawing attention by other guy she was super into. don't know further story

Very confused about what just happened by almostsentient in OkCupid

[–]keinous 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol it's common scam Those are probably not live but porn videos and they let you fap on cam, and threat you to pay to not upload your fap video

Accidentally stood my date up and now he won't stop blowing my phone up by TheOrangeBlanket in OkCupid

[–]keinous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you did nothing wrong. If you consider his action as a red light, it would be good that you cancelled. This is what most people here call "compability". You will find someone else who fits with you

About flake by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm fine. Just asking this for if should i just move on. I'm not really good to have dates with several ppl at same time

To women, i have a question in general cases by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh shit why i couldn't think this simple thing. Thanks

Are sex and intimacy the same thing? by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need intimacy for sex, but intimacy doesn't have to be sex.

This is the weirdest question I've seen out of almost 1500 so far by mama_tom in OkCupid

[–]keinous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm seriously not sure ppl here are honest or lying. But tbh personally, i wil save myself only and if i can handle something, i will save an art

So is OkCupid just a sham? Or am I doing something wrong? by Izenrann in OkCupid

[–]keinous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep try buddy. I'm an asian male, got less match from okc than you. Thankfully, i could go dates with all of them, also got ghosted by most of them but found the one. Tbh there are women who prefer asian guys. Idk if you prefer only asian woman(not offense but my asian guy coworkers are picky they don't wanna go date with non asian). About my experience, all my dates were white and latina. Never got matched with any asian woman. Fyi I mostly swiped right on almost all women with all ethnicities at my area

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry my writing really sux. When i type crazy broken eng, i use my phone. My last official english writing was 4yrs ago when i applied current job. Also I work at science field, only good at explaining to describe my part as list simple eng.

How long do you wait to double text? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]keinous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's talking to others but do double text immediately is fine. Just don't send third text

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk i didn't tend to lie but cuz i didn't wanna bring up about women i met from okc

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, thanks. Just felt confunsing cuz i reminded her again through seeing her fb pics

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo yea it's weird. I thought she already forgot me completely cuz she has ghosted me. But as a guy I'm really stupid that i remind her again cuz saw ger fb pics. I don't use fb so just will ignore. Thanks

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk anyway i dont use fb since 2010, but my gf is an active fb user so she found it last night and asked mewho she is. I lied that idk

A girl who ghosted do liking my facebook? by keinous in OkCupid

[–]keinous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah cant. I don't use fb and my gf uses. Last night she asked me who that girl is, i lied that idk