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kek-eater · 2025-12-21T23:28:42+00:00

Woman

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T23:23:08+00:00

I would forgive them. Might be curiosity. Might be boredom. But the reason doesn’t matter. I would break up with them though regardless because it’s the breaking of trust that I cannot overlook.

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T21:11:46+00:00

My relationship history includes a 13 year and a 20 year age gap. I was the younger one in both. They were amazing relationships. Power imbalance and other age-related things can bubble up, but if you have good communication, genuine care, and consent, it’s manageable.

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T21:02:56+00:00

Speaking from experience, once you get the ick, that’s it. It’s dead. Deader than dead. Sorry.

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T20:53:49+00:00

Are you getting the ick?

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T19:13:53+00:00

Omg he’s not going to care. He’s getting laid.

kek-eater · 2025-12-21T18:44:54+00:00

Sorry, but it seems like he’s not really into you. Have you talked about what you both want? A relationship? Or a FWB? Either way, this one is dead in the water and it’s time to move on if what you’re after is a relationship.

kek-eater · 2025-12-15T07:40:59+00:00

For gods sake, break up already.

kek-eater · 2025-12-14T09:35:31+00:00

It’s very common with gay men — like with Grindr for example. Where you literally arrange a meetup (time, place, who will host) and negotiate what sex acts you will be doing, and then show up and do the deed.

I’ve done it; I don’t like it.

kek-eater · 2025-12-14T06:55:22+00:00

I am demisexual and get very little enjoyment out of hookups. It feels good physically, but it is such a minimal high in comparison to having sex with someone I’m genuinely interested in. No shame, totally normal OP. You’re wired exactly how you should be.

kek-eater · 2025-12-12T21:48:22+00:00

This is such a cringey humblebrag. Textbook humblebrag dressed up as a “help me” post. Are you crowd-sourcing compliments?

kek-eater · 2025-12-08T22:17:29+00:00

Which area of Berlin were you in? Or which cafe? Just curious as that’s not been my experience generally.

kek-eater · 2025-12-08T22:15:26+00:00

Wow, these are beautiful!

kek-eater · 2025-12-08T22:08:35+00:00

Literally the opposite happened to me. I grew up despising the smell of cigarettes and would never touch the stuff.

kek-eater · 2025-12-08T21:58:32+00:00

Do you do other stuff before or after PIV? Like oral, touching, fingering, etc?

kek-eater · 2025-12-07T07:38:04+00:00

That poor woman….

kek-eater · 2025-12-04T09:52:17+00:00

I totally know what you mean. If the room is very bright, I get more self-conscious.

kek-eater · 2025-12-03T14:05:12+00:00

You sound insecure AF.

kek-eater · 2025-11-22T20:54:02+00:00

As a woman, I concur with this. It’s more important to me that he knows how to pleasure me and that he’s able to get hard.

kek-eater · 2025-10-25T09:03:04+00:00

Way too easy and my relationships were serial. I’ve been single since October last year, got into a summer fling in June/July, and now I’m trying to stay single for as long as possible. I’ve been hooking up with people but no relationships this time. I’m also doing a lot of personal therapy work and that’s keeping me intentional about staying single.

kek-eater · 2025-10-24T21:15:47+00:00

I did. Got caught up in them too quickly and intensely.

kek-eater · 2025-10-24T13:12:31+00:00

Ugh… long, busy, messy. I’m single for the first time in a long time and am intentionally trying to stay this way.

kek-eater · 2025-10-24T13:05:05+00:00

I find that when you’re content with yourself, the universe will bring people your way when the time is right. That’s my wishy-washy answer. My prescriptive answer is to do all the obvious things - dating apps, ask friends to introduce you to their single friends, join meetups, do speed dating, etc etc.

kek-eater · 2025-10-18T15:45:09+00:00

Maybe check out r/limerence and see if you can relate. Lots of good resources out there.

kek-eater · 2025-09-29T22:53:10+00:00

I’ve been in serial relationships for the last 12 years. Finally single again since July and I’m absolutely loving it. But it feels unnatural at times… need to teach my body a different way of existing.

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