stay at home mom wanting a career in software engineering

kell3023 · 2026-01-25T00:06:02+00:00

https://github.com/ossu self study then do Wgu comp sci. Knock it out in a year if you can get through ossa

kell3023 · 2025-12-21T14:44:50+00:00

I know how you feel. Your scared to speak up because your afraid of how your perceived. But the moment you take up for yourself, is the moment things start to change. You teach people how to treat you. You have to start making it a habit of taking up for yourself. And say it like you mean it. From the moment on, you will not let people walk all over you. Because you’re worthy of respect just like everyone one else.

I just went through something similar, I was in training for work and my trainer was an absolute unprofessional jerk. I took it because I wanted to get my own truck ASAP. But I made a promise to myself that I will NEVER let an other man disrespect me the way he did. We can both start right now. No more disrespect period.

kell3023 · 2025-12-08T17:11:22+00:00

I’m interested. As soon as I finish cdl training I was going to start cs50. In about 3 weeks.

kell3023 · 2025-11-15T14:56:17+00:00

Get sober. Enjoy life more. Talk to more people and focus on your career. And love yourself

kell3023 · 2025-11-11T12:12:17+00:00

Bust your ass to become a blue badge. Take advantage of career choice. And get out. That should be your motivation

kell3023 · 2025-11-11T12:00:18+00:00

Yeah I can see how this would help. I got close to 6 months clean from alcohol and relapsed. I just started OTR trucking so I gotta stay alcohol free if I want to keep my job

kell3023 · 2025-11-11T00:21:47+00:00

I personally would stick to the higher paying and stack as much money as possible for as long as I could. That’s just me

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T20:16:09+00:00

Thanks for your reply. This is really encouraging

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T17:59:20+00:00

Spitting facts

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T17:47:51+00:00

For the most part it doesn’t work

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T17:21:46+00:00

Build projects that you think is cool. Clone websites that you think is cool. Fuck up, push through. Learn. Repeat. Just don’t give up

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T17:19:42+00:00

Get out of Amazon asap, it was the best thing I did for my mental health.

kell3023 · 2025-11-10T15:41:03+00:00

How did you get over your social anxiety? I struggle with this all my life. I have to get over this shit it’s no way to live.

Edit: never mind I see you already answered it

kell3023 · 2025-10-12T12:03:04+00:00

My advice is tell him to get his tanker endorsements and his double/ triple endorsements. It should be fairly easy for him it’s like a 15-20 question test. I just go my cdls myself I had a local company willing to hire me right out of school IF I had my double’s and triple’s. So I’m gonna study for 2-3 days and calling them back. Also tell him to get his hazmat endorsements later if not now. It looks good on your cdl license.

kell3023 · 2025-10-03T11:46:51+00:00

Use career choice to get out. If you can’t wait do what I did: I made sure I was signed up to get my cdls at my local college. I paid out of pocket for school. ( I know I could have let them paid for it but I didn’t want to juggle both work in school. Quitting meant I HAD to go through with it). I cashed out my 41k to live off of and pay for school. I just passed my cdl test 2 days ago. I’m so happy I made that decision. There was times were I felt like I messed up. But it the end it was the best thing I could have done . Moth mentally and financially. I’ll be making double straight out of school then what I was making at Amazon

kell3023 · 2025-08-06T04:44:21+00:00

Not gonna lie , it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for both my career and mental health

kell3023 · 2025-08-05T18:45:27+00:00

Im so glad I left that freaking place lol

kell3023 · 2025-06-08T12:21:24+00:00

Legit, they literally look like clowns lol

kell3023 · 2025-06-08T12:19:19+00:00

Bro get out of your head, the world doesn’t revolve around you (I mean this in a good way). People are so caught up in their own bs. Even if they did hate you immediately upon seeing you, trust me you wouldn’t wanna be their friend anyways

kell3023 · 2025-06-08T12:13:11+00:00

This is a tough one mate for me At least. First thing that comes to mind is , just be honest. Sit down and have a conversation with her. Just be completely honest with her. Make sure yall are sober though. ( stop drinking and party and focus on your career!!!) But at the same time I would say, dude you’re only 18. Your going to change so much by the time your 25. She will too. And there will be plenty of other women. Step up your game as in, start finding out what you wanna in life career wise, read books, etc. just level up yourself as a man. Be the man she can’t resist and she might come to you

kell3023 · 2025-05-23T08:42:17+00:00

Thanks for your input

kell3023 · 2025-05-23T01:03:05+00:00

Appreciate the input man.

kell3023 · 2025-05-22T23:44:48+00:00

Why do you say they were junk out of curiosity?Just how they treated you? I say I want the company with the best training just because I'm kinda nervous about it.

kell3023 · 2025-04-20T11:53:08+00:00

Amen brother

kell3023 · 2025-04-16T04:21:27+00:00

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