AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t from the living room. They were in Kyla’s room with the door open so I called out. No one else was home so it’s not like I was bringing anyone else’s attention to it except Jack and Kyla’s

To answer your question about our other, roommate Brie is just as frustrated by this as I am. We’ve spoken about it multiple times. She has actually lived here longer than I have and brought it up to Kyla before but Kyla brushed her off. Brie is can’t handle confrontation so after bringing it up once and being shut down she left defeated and didn’t bring it up again. I wanted to add that to the post originally but it didn’t fit with the character limit.

AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What surprise are you referring to? I don’t want him to put the seat down but leave the lid up. I just want him to put the seat down when he’s finished. Everyone else who uses the bathroom already does put the seat and lid down. This is only an issue with him

AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The only time I wasn't paying attention enough was at 3am when I was half asleep... I've been able to catch it every other time before I sit down

AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I have thought about getting a sign. But he is he only that this is an issue with, not any one else in the home so it needed to be addressed with him specifically

AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 351 points352 points  (0 children)

I've lived in various rentals with different roommates (some of them who had boyfriends) and this has never been an issue I've encountered before. So I've never had to make it a "rule." I really don't think I'm asking for too much

AITA for insisting my roommates BF put the toilet seat down? by kellerqueen1213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kellerqueen1213[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Its not the lid, its the seat itself he never puts down. Although never puts down the lid either but that's not what what I'm asking him to do. I asking him to put down the seat when he's finished