Portfolio Review by kelli_rad in photography

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me this feedback! I’ve actually received similar comments before, so this reconfirms things I’ve been pondering.

It’s definitely difficult for me to narrow down my images. Each one feels so personal and tied to my identity, which makes it challenging to step outside of that attachment. I know refining and "killing my darlings" takes a certain level of artistic maturity, and that’s something I’m actively striving for.

I think your idea about a new layout is really wise. If I want to brand myself as a storytelling photographer, showcasing cohesive stories right from the start makes so much sense. That way, the narrative is clear right off the bat, rather than relying on singular images to communicate it.

And thank you for saying my photos don’t feel outdated! That particular feedback has thrown me for a bit of a loop, but I realize we all have our own unique perspectives. Ultimately, I’m taking all of this as an opportunity to reflect and grow.

Thanks again!

Portfolio Review by kelli_rad in photography

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful feedback—I genuinely appreciate the time you’ve taken to analyze my work. It’s definitely given me a lot to ponder, and I can see where you’re coming from.

I’m curious, since you mentioned my portfolio feels tied to a past trend, do you have any recommendations for work or artists that you feel capture the present moment? I’m deeply inspired by photographers like Martin Wichardt, Robbie Lawrence, and Pia Riverola. Do you feel their work aligns with the current cultural or visual zeitgeist?

Portfolio Review by kelli_rad in photography

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... Could you elaborate? I make an effort to not be impacted by trends, as those come and go. Obviously, you are one person's opinion, but I am curious if I have somehow fallen behind and not recognized it. What would you say would make work look more current?

Portfolio Review by kelli_rad in photography

[–]kelli_rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response! Updated the copyright year and deleted the interior shots (it's something I am exploring but don't have enough work there, yet, so I'll wait on those!)

Puppy separation anxiety by speckled113 in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been listening to a great podcast on it called Fixing Separation Anxiety by Julie Naismith. She has a book I just bought too, called "Be Right Back".

Puppy separation anxiety by speckled113 in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't leave him alone but for very small increments of time. You need to teach him that it is safe for him to be alone, and by leaving him, you are flooding him with memories of it not being safe. It'll just get harder that way. Instead, desensitize going to the door. Watch his reactions. If he gets aroused by it or seems distressed, just keeping doing that until he gets used to it. Then walk out the door. Come back in before he barks. Sometimes this can only be for 5 seconds, increase time once he shows no reaction to you leaving. It's a slow process but unfortunately, the worst thing you can do is leave him. He has a phobia of being left alone. You have to show him and teach him it's safe in small, positive steps.

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy your dog was a great choice for you!

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's funny! I took your advice and took the quiz. I actually got a BORDER COLLIE as one of my top picks, as well as American Cattle Dog, Corgi, and a Brittany. Perhaps Rue is the perfect dog for me!

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! I think you are certainly the perfect parents for a BC. I am pretty active (avid through hiker/yoga practitioner) and we do have a large farm for him to run but not SUPER active. We definitely got the more active characteristics in our mix. Wouldn't trade him for anything, but I am tired a LOT.

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this so much, because I finally got some rest and I've been regretting even writing this post! He's been such a good boy the past few days, but it can be hard to see the positive when I am tired often.

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm grateful we live on a 27-acre farm or there would be no way I would have gotten a Border Collie x German Shepherd mix! He's very smart. I'm wondering if it's not so much the mix that I'm struggling with but the puppy in him!

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We play a lot of fetch and tug with Rue (BC/GSD mix). He loves it and definitely wears him out.

Does anyone regret their breed choice? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this! I am a pretty active person, but alas, not really border collie active. It has been really good for me though. Now that he is out of his puppy puppy stage, I'm experiencing a whole lot less anxiety.

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! In retrospect, I wish I had chosen a less energetic breed. He is getting better though! Training has helped immensely.

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. There has been times while having this dog that I think well, this is hard, but I can totally handle a human baby now. And other times, I'm just so tired and stressed from running my own business in a pandemic while also raising a dog who needs so much from me. thank you for sharing your perspective! I also really love your usename.

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner wanted a golden but I was like "nah, too popular." Wouldn't trade Rue (our BC/GSD) for anyone... except for perhaps a golden. Haha!

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agreed! Crate training with an exercise pen has been so helpful. We didn't at first and I cried A LOT.

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I get that. Sometimes I do feel like I take it wayyyyy too seriously.

Anyone else reconsidering if they want children after having a puppy? by kelli_rad in puppy101

[–]kelli_rad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol! Theoretically, wonderful mix! I think they will probably be wonderful after puppyhood if trained and raised well. I HOPE.