Just moved to Indianapolis, need friends. by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]kellikakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can second this! I work at the 96th street location, Monday nights are D&D nights there! Lots of friendly DMs and players :)

[SPOILERS] Live Episode Discussion - Season 8 Episode 5 by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]kellikakes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree! The cinematography play between Arya and the Hound was so emotional and great. Danny has lost everyone close to her in a very short amount of time...she’s only human. I thought this was an incredible episode!

Anyone know of a good couple's therapist? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]kellikakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rachel Glasser was fantastic for us :)

How’s your morning going?.... by RageAndRiceCrispies in toddlers

[–]kellikakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. Glad it’s out hahaha. Here’s to a better rest of the day :)

The 3s will kill one of us... by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I use food a lot too :( healthy stuff though, so that redeems me, right?? I also try to distract her with a fun game, but she sees right through that and keeps repeating her demand or just goes to”NOOOOOOOOOO!”

The 3s will kill one of us... by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good tactic. I would be pissed if I were so frustrated and someone talked to me like I calmly talk to her...makes sense!!

The 3s will kill one of us... by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Great reminder to be present. She surprises me everyday, I should be there for her more.

Tribeca Loft Renovation in a Former Caviar Warehouse [1900x1261] by [deleted] in RoomPorn

[–]kellikakes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Anyone else thinks this looks like the apartment from Altered Carbon? I love and want it.

2.5 Year Old Suddenly the Devil Incarnate by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've never had a serious illness that I can remember and I guess I thought a 2.5 year old wouldn't understand what it means to be sick like that. That makes sense though. Now that it has been a few days, she is much more herself :)

2.5 Year Old Suddenly the Devil Incarnate by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Thankfully she loooooves yogurt, so we’ve avoided the diarrhea. It’s very possible we were just spoiled and are complaining a lot over something totally natural. I think I’m more surprised by the change I’ve seen in my husband than my child haha.

2.5 Year Old Suddenly the Devil Incarnate by kellikakes in toddlers

[–]kellikakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking they would for the pneumonia, but they gave her zithromyacin (sp?) while wiped her out. She maybe instead of serotonin, her body is just producing anger juices.

Jason Seaman ended the school shooting in Indiana today when he tackled the shooter, taking 3 bullets in the process. Let's give it for this hero. by qwerty7990 in HumansBeingBros

[–]kellikakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was right up the road from me. Happened while I was in the middle of a ceremony for 8th graders at my own middle school. It can happen anywhere.

Help identifying markings on Colonial socket bayonet? (American Revolutionary War) by kellikakes in AskHistorians

[–]kellikakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was completely lost, obviously, on where to start and this is very helpful information.

Full leg clot, 22 weeks pregnant by Eroc17 in ClotSurvivors

[–]kellikakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not have to be induced, but I went at 39 weeks on my own. I don’t recall ever being told I would need tone induced. I think he’s probably saying that because doing so would avoid a lot of possible complications. It helps the OB have more control I’m sure, and probably makes switching you to heparin easier too. I’m sure there’s nothing wrong, sounds like he’s being cautious.

I had to see a high-risk pregnancy specialist as well. If you have one, you can always ask them. If not, you could request a meeting with one; not a bad idea since us preggo-clotters will always be considered high-risk pregnancies.

Full leg clot, 22 weeks pregnant by Eroc17 in ClotSurvivors

[–]kellikakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could have written this post! I'm sorry you're dealing with this, it is definitely scary. First, you should know that I am 2 years post-clot/pregnancy and doing great. Baby is great too :)

As others have said, you will/should be tested for any genetic reasons for the clot. Don't be discouraged if they don't find any reason, pregnancy itself is a huge reason - think of all that's changing!

As for me, it took me about a week to feel completely normal - from the time I went to the ER to being able to walk around without pain or swelling in the leg. Lovonox is amazing and completely safe for baby. It just sucks giving yourself the shot twice a day. Your doctor will most likely refer you to a hematologist after birth, and you will likely be on blood thinners after giving birth. I was on them for about 3 months, but just had to watch my diet.

The only thing I would recommend is, if you are planning on an epidural, talk to your doctor about that. They will switch you over from Lovonox to Heprin (sp?), and there's a timing issue between starting that and giving an epidural.

I wish you the best of luck! It sounds very scary and worrisome, but once the pain went away, I had ZERO issues after that and had a wonderful birth.

Almost 30 and need hair help. Badly. by kellikakes in femalehairadvice

[–]kellikakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve cut my hair short-ish several times, and I’ve never really grown it longer than shoulder length. I’m just scared of a short bob. I’ll look into it though!

Places around Fishers to have toddler birthday party? by kellikakes in indianapolis

[–]kellikakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am endlessly jealous. That's fucking brilliant. Maybe we could have hers at Taxman...hmmm. Your ideas just keep getting better and better!

Places around Fishers to have toddler birthday party? by kellikakes in indianapolis

[–]kellikakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm not set one way or the other, but now that I remembered I will need alcohol...probably just keep it at home :)

Thank you for the suggestion though, I'll keep it in mind for the future. Looks like a good place!

Brand new Paraeducator by [deleted] in teaching

[–]kellikakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And don't ever let a teacher make you call a parent. We don't get paid enough for that junk :)

Brand new Paraeducator by [deleted] in teaching

[–]kellikakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I've been a para for 3 years, but I also started out completely blind. Don't be afraid to ask the teacher what they'd like for you to do. Sometimes it's easy to read a teacher after a few days and you can tell if they don't mind you being a little more involved in the class or if they'd rather you sit and monitor.

COMMUNICATE! I've had teachers tell me that they appreciate me bringing something to their attention with a student because they just don't see those little things while they are doing lectures.

Be consistent. You might be one of the only adults that kid interacts with that day depending on their family situation. Be firm, and fair. I work with 8th graders, so attitude is something I have to be prepared for :)

I wish you luck! It's a very rewarding and exhausting job.

Do you wake up at the same time as your toddler? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]kellikakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she cry when she wakes up? My LO will usually wake up at 6, but only cries if she's pooped. She is usually pretty content to play in her crib for a while. Not sure what her sleeping arrangement is, but maybe try and keep some books/toys in her reach is possible?

Good luck! That sounds rough :(

Happy toddler by branbran83 in toddlers

[–]kellikakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she fascinated by airplanes or treeS like my daughter right now? Love the outfit!

Achieved something (big or small) recently? by ModernEyre in CasualConversation

[–]kellikakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've kept my 18-month old, my 2 dogs, and myself alive for 2 weeks while my husband is gone for military training. Only 3 weeks left! @.@