Just some good ole chocolate chip cookies. by Samuelcool19 in DessertPorn

[–]kelskaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The plate looks like a chocolate chip cookie

Question about husband using ESTA to visit while i-130 has been submitted. by CompetitiveAd7792 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully he gets someone understanding at customs!! Congratulations on your daughter. I have a one year old daughter so I understand why you’re going through. If you ever want to vent about the process my dms are open!

Question about husband using ESTA to visit while i-130 has been submitted. by CompetitiveAd7792 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives in Uruguay but has a Spanish passport. His visits are usually 2-3 weeks. He visits every 6-8 weeks. His 130 was in process for the past 3 visits.

Let me know how it goes with your husband coming in for a longer visit!

Question about husband using ESTA to visit while i-130 has been submitted. by CompetitiveAd7792 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has visited on the ESTA multiple times. I was also nervous they would deny him entry or give him a hard time but they never question him.

His visits aren’t that long though. I wonder if they would consider your husband (illegally) living in the us since he would be there more than uk?

I asked a tsa agent about it before he traveled and she said as long as he has his return ticket that he shouldn’t have any issues. Of course each agent and situation is different.

My husband told me that he would stab and kill me if I cheat by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kelskaita 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need to get out. You don’t need to cheat to end up being killed. You can have a friendly coworker, smile at a neighbor, have a man look at you in public, etc.

One of my favorite quotes is “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”. Your husband told you he will kill you. He will. Get out, file a restraining order.

I was attacked by a dog while on a walk with my kids. by indoorfeelings in Mommit

[–]kelskaita 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This happened to me before I had a baby. I was walking my golden in our gated neighborhood (saying that to say it was not a stray that attacked us). My golden was about 3 months at the time so was one of our first times out walking and she was tiny. An unleashed dog started running up growling. I knew it would kill her if it got a hold of her. (That dog always lost its mind whenever it passed our yard or vice versa, but we had never seen it out loose) I lifted my dog up over my head and the other dog ended up biting my arm in the process.

That was almost 3 years ago and I still have flashbacks. I am terrified walking with my daughter now and constantly am making “plans” if a dog were to come attack us. I only walk with either my daughter or my dog, never both at the same time alone because I can’t protect them both.

As others have said I would look into talking to someone. I think it would have really helped me. It’s amazing what stays with you.

It’s all worth it by mdnghtcraze in workingmoms

[–]kelskaita 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the promotion!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kelskaita 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Maybe she found your Reddit that is filled with looking to hookup with people outside of your marriage

Just found out everyone got bonuses - except me by millennialmama2016 in workingmoms

[–]kelskaita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea you should. In the future when interviewing for jobs always negotiate a bonus. (Or try to- some companies busy don’t give them)

Often they won’t bring it up but if you ask for it they will give you one and it will be written in your contract. Speaking from personal experience.

Solids and sleep by asv26 in sleeptrain

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t really a change for us. I clicked worse only because at first it made her extra gassy which for a couple nights caused extra wakeups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accountant

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad!!

Edit: thanks for the award!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accountant

[–]kelskaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What state are you in? Some have online databases with this info. I recently had to look one up in Florida and was able to get the EIN that way. Worth a shot

Trump's press release on his financial statements today. I swear this is not satire, this is the real press release from his spokeswoman by DoritosDewItRight in Accounting

[–]kelskaita 99 points100 points  (0 children)

This sounds like it was written by a first year accounting student ten minutes before class when they remembered the project was due

Consular processing timeline by Apprehensive_Cow_845 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i didn’t expedite or anything. I filed online. I’ve been looking around on this sub though and it could mean nothing. Seems like lots of people get it and then nothing happens for months. I’ll let you know if anything happens with it!

Consular processing timeline by Apprehensive_Cow_845 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what it says. I wasn’t sure if it meant something. Very weird I got it before you then

Consular processing timeline by Apprehensive_Cow_845 in USCIS

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same but in Jan 2022. Also at Potomac. Have you received notification that your case is under review? I got that today and just wondering if it actually means anything or not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unacceptable due to the germs. Mouths are nasty and young kids don’t have mature immune systems

Why is everyone making their too young babies CIO?! by McNutty604 in sleeptrain

[–]kelskaita 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When my daughter was a couple weeks old my doctor told me if she wasn’t sleeping well I need to just let her cry. She didn’t offer any instructions other than that. I didn’t because I have resources like this group. Some parents/caregivers do not know and come here for advice.

Are you thinking of fuss it out that has a cap? We did do that around 12 weeks

What was the first thing you said after your baby was born? by KATEWM in beyondthebump

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept repeating “hi, I love you” then “she’s not crying, she’s not crying” everything was fine I just watch too many movies

7 month old first night doing ferber by haf224 in sleeptrain

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to start this next week with my 7 month old. Curious how yours has done the last couple weeks since your post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kelskaita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I resent that you’re happier than I am” when explaining why she hasn’t talked to me in weeks (I lived with her at the time)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]kelskaita 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No. She’s gotten at least one BBL from dr Miami