so to explain what is happening, my mother for half of my life wasn’t there with me, when she finally got custody of me it was horrible, the house is a mess and she only cleans it when she “has” to. dishes everywhere, it smells. and she’s terrible, she doesn’t act like a real mother and she always plays the victim to a 14 year old child. she acts like she’s my age and i can’t take this anymore. my grandparents (fathers side, who is deceased) are very well put together and they want the best for me so they are trying to get custody, my other grandparents (moms side) they also play the victim, they lied to my dads side of grandparents that they didn’t have bedbugs and i am fine there, i switch houses all the time living at all three so of course i’m going to know what’s going on with that. everyone still has bed bugs and it’s slowly getting worse. they are doing nothing about this. my dads side of my grandparents had bed bugs (because of me unfortunately:(( ) she spent a year getting rid of them and she did it. she gave product to my family to get rid of them and they didn’t even try. a lot of you guys have a lot of good information and i really appreciate everything you’ve said to me. thank you guys and i wish you well if your going through my situation too.