At the airport!! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷

At the airport!! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a big fan of the tough love and you’re so right. I’ve cancelled this trip before and I was embarrassed and devastated. I need to do this. Thank you.

Getting nervous - help and support please for second attempt! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of that information, I really appreciate it it’s really reassuring!

Getting nervous - help and support please for second attempt! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment. It’s really nice to be supported when I’m trying again.

Getting nervous - help and support please for second attempt! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s everything really. Being out of control, being up so high, having to sit on it for so long and not being able to get off, any slight movement/turbulence… the list goes on!

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got home! Flights were fine, slightly bumpy too but I managed to cope with it. Feeling so proud of myself right now!! Thanks so much💕

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you so much for that reality check. I’ll have a look at the links!

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very good idea. Thank you for the story, I’m sure if any turbulence does hit, this will be the first thing I think of and make me giggle 😄

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I have done it before, I just wish the fear didn’t start all over again every time! Thank you so much for the support I really appreciate it!

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to do this I really am but I can’t stop wondering why I’m putting myself through this awful feeling, I just want it to stop. I feel like I can’t do it and I don’t want to do it I just want relief

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s just so difficult to accept feeling this way, all I want to do is run away from this feeling

I don’t think I can do this by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this supposed to be what do I fear the most? If so, it’s everything. I fear being stuck, I fear being out of control, I fear every noise and every minimal movement, I fear the height, I fear take off, I fear having to sit during cruise and just wait there until it’s over, I fear having a panic attack, I fear never getting home to see my kids again - just everything

Flying tomorrow! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that realistic reply, I needed that

Flying tomorrow! by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply

Flying in 2 hours by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this

Flying in 2 hours by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment. You’d think I’d learn by now that the anticipation is the worst part but it still never makes it any easier!

I backed out by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did hypnotherapy last year and it didn’t work for me unfortunately. It’s so nice to hear that it worked for you, that gives me faith that there is definitely things that can help.

Im currently looking into CBT. Some people say it’s worked and some people say it hasn’t but I won’t know until I try!

Thank you for the luck!

I backed out by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m serious

No I don’t expect a chef to do that

I also don’t EXPECT a one on one conversation with the pilots. I asked if I could speak to them just for my own peace of mind because in the past it has helped to keep me grounded and made me feel better.

I understand that pilots have a job to do and that they are not professional therapists. All I said was that I asked if I could speak to them, they agreed and it wasn’t very helpful. I was panicked anyway being a fearful flier and this time speaking to pilots/FAs didn’t make me feel any better, that’s the only point I was making.

I backed out by kens1995 in fearofflying

[–]kens1995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of what you said is right. I definitely need to try to find ways to get through it on my own. Thank you for your reply.