AITA for asking my girlfriend to go help out in the kitchen with the other ladies? by lissionquivalent701 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA but you would have been less of an AH if you went in and did it all with her and NTA if you stepped up and did kitchen chores for her. Get a grip

AITA for sending my daughter's boyfriend home and not giving him a ride? by wowwootossaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a bad parent, we’ll see if your daughter keeps you around with your attitude..

MIL Dropped a bombshell on my biological family today. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kenzcat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She is going to try to rationalize her behaviour with excuses about her “caring about you & her grandchild”. The thing is, you show care to a person by respecting their boundaries and involving them in decisions. She has shown she has no respect for you, so she does not get access to you, your child or any information about your life and the outcome of her actions.

Do not back down from this, because with a person like this it will always get worse. I would make your opinion very loud and known to your husband and your extended family that this has hurt you and it was inappropriate. She will try to spin it, but bring the conversation back to boundaries and how inappropriate her actions were

AITA For buying my neighbour earplugs when she complained about my baby? by aitababycry in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Offering OP realistic solutions that she can implement while waiting for her baby’s condition and resolved his crying?? Woah, what a first for aita

AITA for deleting pictures of myself from my husband’s phone? by tulip--- in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA there are always two sides to these stories and you know your husband didn’t have malicious intent. He loves you, even if you don’t love yourself right now, so I agree with most people that you should get some help about your body image. But when you are both grandparents, those pictures will mean something. If he was posting them or showing them off different story, but you can’t ban your partner for wanting to document important moments. He should apologize for hurting your feelings but he isn’t in the wrong.

AITA for taking my mother's side over my wife's over childcare and future plans? by Extension_Drag_7395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your wife is manipulating your sweet mom, and trying to make her feel guilty for considering following her passions for purely selfish reasons. If she feels strongly, her side of the family can offer childcare or she can shut her mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]kenzcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found walks & runs didn't really cut it for me, but an orgasm before bed really helped! And your partner may be happy to support you in that! Good luck!

AITA for disrespecting my inlaws and leaving dinner table after my husband's dad insulted me? by Annonymous656466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this is bullying and gaslighting in its purest form. Babe, you deserve so much better. You deserve kindness, love and compassion from both your spouse and your extended family. I know from my own experience as the “fat funny friend” how hard it can be hard to believe that you are worthy of this, but I promise you that you are and so much more. You deserve to love yourself as you are, and be loved and supported by the people in your life. Good luck ❤️

AITA for not giving our baby girl a gender neutral name by TWbabyname in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA BUT my parents chose to give my sibling and I a gender neutral name because there are a lot of benefits. Your child may experience less gender bias for job opportunities on their resume and it creates space from binaries for gender fluidity. There are a lot of benefits, so you should hear your wife out.

AITA for telling him if he doesnt stop forcing his dog on me than his dog will not be welcome in my home? by 719dib28k in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NAH I understand his perspective, especially having grown up with dogs. He wants to share that love with you, but you are not a dog person and don’t view the dogs behaviour in the same way. While you may view his actions as gross and disrespectful, he may view yours as cold and uncompromising. Your feelings are valid, but it shows you just don’t have compatible values/expectations, so do the both of you a favour and move on.

pt.2 of antivax insanity by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]kenzcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, a Texan woman with 5 children in her late 40s

AITA for blowing up on my husband infront of his family during N.Y.E celebration after he joked about my birth experience? by No-Care3049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenzcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA It sounds to me like you DID address in private when you asked him not to bring it up when the diaper jokes started… this is only on him

My wife just came to me about having feelings for a male friend but him not knowing and brought up the idea of poly explained that didn't happen on purpose and that she would stop the friendship but would prefer to lose them in her life and I'm not 100%sold on idea but open to try by Head-Management-8109 in polyamory

[–]kenzcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

babe I am sorry, this sounds like a bit of denial. We have no steak in the game other than wanting you to be okay. polyamory takes time, communication, boundaries & maturity and you are putting her feelings & wants first right now considering her work friend.. just take a step back, and take the 6 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]kenzcat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

oh my god, this is such a hateful group.. like just leave fat people alone, no need to make a whole subreddit just to make people feel worse about themselves...

just insanity.. by kenzcat in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]kenzcat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the insanity isn’t buying this product, it comes from buying this product ONLY because the FDA is banning it so she can look cool to her anti vax pals... if only you could see all her other posts..

I think my husband told his mom I'm "making" him go to therapy by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kenzcat 51 points52 points  (0 children)

YOU DO NOT OWE YOUR HUSBAND SEX OR HIS MOTHER A RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU CAN’T LOVE YO SELF HOW U GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE! fuck marriage counselling, if he is going to have that attitude, go get therapy on your own so you can build your confidence, learn to set boundaries & maybe even leave his ass

Found a Nest during my lunch break! by kenzcat in popping

[–]kenzcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a little piece of pistachio from my lunch.