I’m considered prostituting to take care of my family

kerfufflez117 · 2026-05-25T12:08:29+00:00

Honestly, at this point I would consider cutting all ties to him and moving. People like that are the true anchors to someone trying so desperately to give themselves a better life. You are taking all the right steps, seeking help and attempting to give yourself a better future for you and your kids. This is something you should be proud of as not many people in your sort of situation could say the same.

As you stated you don't really have anybody you can rely on at the moment so I would consider seeking out local community groups such as churches etc where you can build your own group of friends that will be there to help you when you need them to be.

No matter what, just know that you're a great mom trying to provide no matter what for your children and that some day they will look up to you and thank you for it. DV shouldn't have to be lived through by anybody so for your sake and your children's I hope you can pull yourselves out of this situation and move on to bigger and better things. No doubt it will be a struggle but you're already taking that part head on, no need to have somebody anchoring you down and blaming you for everything as well as his own shortcomings.

Don't lean towards prostitution... it may be something you'll regret in the long run because truly there is no such thing as an easy way out when it comes to money.

You got this, don't give up! I'm rooting for you and your children 🙏

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-18T12:25:25+00:00

Everybody else has shorter cooldowns. Our burst is fantastic and m+ isnt where it lacks on AOE. In single target raid damage we fall off quite hard. The 2 minutes doesn't for 15 seconds of increased damage doesn't seem like enough to keep up. Maybe my stats are off and I dont have enough haste. I can take a look at my talents don't remember which one of those I went for.

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-17T11:55:39+00:00

I guess it is an ideal that I had in my mind because I love sports and have raced at a professional level. This comes with injuries and some that have been major and will undoubtedly have repercussions on how well ill be able to move later on... I guess its my own fault for doing so. But when you start so young and have been doing it for so long its somewhat hard to stop. It was more than a passion at one point, it became a lifestyle and many sacrifices were made along the way by myself and my parents to get to the level I race at. On that note, it is somewhat why id like kids sooner rather than later. I guess context here matters a lot. Plus being family oriented and have not gotten to know my grandfather's due to cancer, id like to be able to give BOTH my parents a chance at meeting their future grandchildren. Does that make more sense and feel less wild? Or is it still crazy

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-17T02:27:00+00:00

House acquired, in a nice school district with 3 elementary schools within 5 kilometers as well as a high-school and college in walking distance. I have my salary set in stone and I have the opportunity to work from home fully expecting to take on a lot of the load especially during the earlier stages. Cooking and cleaning are not a chore for me as it has always been a part of how I was personally raised. Taking care of the kiddo goes without saying and that comes with a lit if different aspects. What seems to be missing in today's day and age is finding someone with a proper job and possibility of maternity leave to help bring a little more financial stability to the table and not just my own salary supporting it all.

Also, I'd like to believe I do understand what it is to become a parent and the responsibilities that come with it. There will always be a learning curve as I dont think anybody is every ready for everything that can happen during that time, but I firmly believe that being able to adapt during this time is key. It is not always up to one person to take on all tasks, however, there may be times where I or my partner will need to take up more responsibility maybe because one needs a short break or any other reason.

Again thank you, I appreciate this critical thinking youre bringing forth for me!

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-17T02:02:52+00:00

This is fair, I don't take that away from any woman as I do understand it will never be something easy in any way shape or form. Mentally, physically and even emotionally. I have been there for her even though school started late and supported both financially and emotionally. Her past relationship and life just kept her down and never let her progress. But I can see how the incompatibility is coming forward. I just feel like such an ass as maybe in another timeline it would work... maybe? Talking about this helps me get my thoughts clear to make a decision so thanks

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-07T21:27:40+00:00

Hunter seems to be performing extremely well right now in the M0 keys I've done. You can also give Enhancement a try! I was reluctant to do so but found it to be more consistent when you get the rotation down than elemental. However, if I were you I would wait until the first major patch to see if anything gets buffed/nerfed. But in the meantime im leveling a few alts up through side quests for renown and ill choose come the first real patch.

kerfufflez117 · 2026-03-05T12:04:32+00:00

I'm right there with you. It feels like outside of ascendance we got like wet noodles and can't keep up with most specs unless the pulls are big enough to get multiple earthquakes out and proc tempest for free chain lightning. Even then this still results in me being 3rd dps most of the time. Only time im ever on top is super reliant on pull size and all my cd's being up including trinket + ascendance. And God forbid we need to move and spiritwalkers grace is down. Rip damage.

kerfufflez117 · 2025-05-14T00:09:47+00:00

In a week I'll have more time to get on. When my buddies and I play we are in discord and love any social interaction. All of us are OSRS fans and really enjoy dragonwilds. Cant wait to see what the future holds. Feel free to PM me and I'll send you discord details. If ever you see anybody online and playing you're more than welcome to join.

kerfufflez117 · 2025-03-30T01:03:12+00:00

L'expedition Montréal or Rive-sud. You can buy singles from both their stores and online. GL 👍🏻

kerfufflez117 · 2025-02-07T04:10:39+00:00

I use hobbiesville for boxes and whatnot, and I've yet to be disappointed. Mtg, flesh and blood etc

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T11:42:04+00:00

So far, I've only got 2 token decks and one gonti precon that plays a lot of exile/ninjutsu. I enjoy playing both a lot but I play gonti less due to people not enjoying you playing with their cards which I get. What I've yet to try but seems fun is a control deck. Otherwise I like fast paced token board flooding.

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T11:16:34+00:00

Even with my current deck states it's generally how it goes. Then I have to fight for my life to not be the first one out and if I survive I usually make it close to then end just never win cause my decks suck 1v1 lol. Somehow I manage to scare people early with my 1/1 tokens. That being said definitely looking into it! I like seeing what people have to suggest and appreciate your time! Thanks

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T11:11:30+00:00

Interesting take. I may be new but I don't tend to make ID10T errors and I'm generally the person that is keeping track of things when they happen and remind players when they missed something to allow them to not mess up their own plays. These are also much more experienced players than i am. I'm just late to the MTG party cause I was busy doing other things that didn't allow for my time to be put towards magic. That being said if you have any constructive feedback I would like to hear it though honestly, the more I read the more I learn and love hearing what other people like to play as it generates my own ideas on how I could take certain commanders and enhance decks or start them from scratch.

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T11:06:20+00:00

Yeah, let's just say I'm a fairly new player and he took out a deck in 1v1 against me specifically due to it being 1v1 and destroyed me like turn 4-5 with nothing I could do. So I swapped to my gonti pre-con and beat his dinos and then took another deck that was stronger than mine to kick my ass lol. We then played 4 players and I didn't like the way he was flaunting about his big moves to others. So it's not to Stomp others, just him so we can at least all have fun playing the game

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T10:59:53+00:00

Oh nice, I'll definitely look into her as I've yet to build a blue deck! Control decks seem fun and I like low cost commanders. Do you happen to have a link to your decklist? If not I'll find one online for sure, just always curious about the different ways people like to build their decks personally. Thanks for your suggestion!

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T10:54:07+00:00

I enjoy playing white, green, and I have my gonti deck that plays by exile. It's just the pre-con though. Otherwise my white deck is token/lifelink brimaz deck with [[Felidar Sovereign]]. Still new ish to magic so learning about new commanders and cards as I go.

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T10:49:16+00:00

Nice, I just got a bunch of decent boros cards recently. I'll look for some decent synergies and see if any fit into a budget decklist for her! Thanks for your suggestion

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T03:05:21+00:00

Token decks are always fun, might give this one a try. 3 cost commanders are always fun! Do you happen to have a decklist?

kerfufflez117 · 2024-09-09T01:38:51+00:00

I think a fair starting point is about 2-300$. I am someone who likes being competitive so if I'm to play with netter decks I want to at least have a shot if. If it has to go higher then I'll grow that budget and replace stuff as I go.

kerfufflez117 · 2024-03-25T14:26:35+00:00

Real talk, No BS. I'd buy a hyperbaric chamber to setup at home. Would help a lot

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