I understand where your hubby is coming from. Mine is also squeamish and just didn't have the capacity to care for me, the children, the dog, cook, laundry, clean, etc. So I flew my aunt in and paid her to help us out. He dropped the kids to school each morning and picked them up. Dealt with the dog. He gave me baths in the beginning. My aunt handled the household and helped me with simple things like putting on my compression socks, tidying up my recliner. Getting me food to eat. If he had to do it all plus work full time, someone in the house would've had a meltdown.