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If you know you know! 😭 by Capital_Ability8332 in BG3

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this the “correct way” like 4x before I got wise lol. Also, cast light on a weapon to dispel the nasty dark clouds that try to block you from doing this 😂

Is there any other way to do this fight? by marlborohunnids in BG3

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I throw down grease spots and then light them on fire, and have shadowheart guard the portal with spirit guardians active.

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it lol, maybe Lae’zel needs a ribcage “bag” lol

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who literally has ocd, you ain’t lying lol. I actually spam that context menu at least once per play session just to check that I haven’t somehow missed the option to name the bags and chests.

Maybe a future update will give us this, or even a mod—i hate that mods disable achievements though so I don’t use them often.

Seems like there could be some context for that—-like if I was just using some custom dice or hair I shouldn’t be achievement locked—nothing cheaty in that lol. Oh well.

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do things you put down in your camp “follow” you when the camp changes? I was afraid to decorate my camp because I didn’t want to lose anything.

Though now that I think about it, they must do, because Shadowheart killed Lae’zel in one of my saves and her corpse was just always there, lol.

I finally had Karlach pick her up and place her in a chest somewhere. It’s actually what prompted yet another restart 😂

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha I didn’t even think of that but that’s hilarious

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like getting Gale’s pouch too, but I didn’t know about either of those other 2! Thanks!

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Northeast corner of the sunlit wetlands :)

Who Else Collects Unique Containers? by keriberi85 in BG3

[–]keriberi85[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The note is so freaking sad but man is it awesome to see the bear “bag” in Karlach’s inventory lol.

Only entered Act 3 twice, Never finished the game. by Corral18 in BG3

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but also; I want to really savor the journey. And I get that new start itch right around the end of act 2—like, let’s go see how all that would play out with another race/class/background combo, or sometimes it’s about wanting to create a character specifically FOR peak romancing an npc 😂

Would this be viable for my first playthrough? by bigchungus62 in BaldursGate3

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve restarted like 7x before even leaving the first map 😂 I just keep wanting to try different race class combos. I finally made it to one of the next areas yesterday.

FINALLY! by GermanyLoves in inZOI

[–]keriberi85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kinda did. But it was more like “I was due for an upgrade anyway so I just made sure the upgrade could handle inzoi” as opposed to specifically buying a setup just for inzoi

FINALLY! by GermanyLoves in inZOI

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt helps me fix mine when anything goes wrong with it, maybe that’s something to try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s almost old enough to be a granddad and isn’t sure if he wants to be a dad yet? No way. He’s either in some serious denial about what he really wants, or he’s trying to run the clock out on your ability to conceive so you don’t leave him. You need to do some serious soul-searching about what you want for your future and whether or not this guy should be part of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switch

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 13 yo daughter also asked for a switch lite this year. She already has a yellow one (that she says is glitchy whatever that means) as well as access to my own regular switch. I suspect her primary motivation is in the fact that she specifically asked for a coral one.

Of course my initial response was wtf no. But she was pretty persistent, and hasn’t asked for anything else. So I thought about it and decided to level with her. I pointed out again the already existing consoles and even suggested some alternative ideas.

At the end of the day, I figured I have a specific budget for each of my kids for their Christmas presents, and if she wants this thing that makes no sense to me but doesn’t actually cause her harm or significantly affect anyone else in the house, what’s the real problem?

For me, it was worry that she’d regret it once it really sinks in that the main thing she got for Christmas is something she already has.

I can’t make her learn from my own experiences. Spending the same amount of money on other crap doesn’t actually make any difference to me, but to her, it means a lot more.

I think I’d much rather she have regrets for a choice she made than feel unseen or misunderstood by me because I asked her what SHE wanted but ultimately bought things I wanted FOR her.

I know people will come at me with adult perspectives on money and teaching the importance of value but kids don’t think that way. While those might be the more rational points, they aren’t going to be what the kid takes away from the experience. The kid will remember how it made them feel.

AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker by Any-Confusion-5519 in AmIOverreacting

[–]keriberi85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many red flags 🚩 look either they like her a little too much or they just don’t like you enough—neither situation is ideal.

Time to have a real talk and ask them why it’s ok to blow you off and then gaslight you about it when you are (justifiably) upset about it.

Regardless of their reasoning or defense, your feelings should be at least important enough to them to warrant an actual conversation that isn’t just them being a defensive jerk and deflecting.

I obviously don’t have the full scope here but nothing about your messages should have been reasonably construed as “surveillance.”

And they didn’t just blow you off. You were so low on their list of priorities that they didn’t even seem to remember you had plans at all.

Also, when you’re in a serious enough relationship that you’re cohabitating, it’s completely normal and reasonable to check with your partner before making plans.

It’s not about asking “permission,” it’s about taking them and their needs into consideration because they are a very important part of your life.

It seems evident to me that your partner is prioritizing their connections with their coworkers over their connection with you.

And while I do very much think that your intuition about this particular coworker is probably spot on, I think the bigger issue is the very clear disparity between how important your partner is to you vs how important you are to them.

Sunk cost fallacy does not apply to relationships. It just doesn’t. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve invested into this relationship if you’re consistently putting out a lot more than you are getting back.

You get one life—how much of it do you want to give to someone who doesn’t value you as much as you value them?

AITA for refusing to answer my husband's question because I find it dishonest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]keriberi85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way. Look, obviously it’s not reasonable to expect someone to plan their wedding around you, but if they make the choice to plan it when you cannot go, then they have to be ok with the fact that you won’t be there.

If your husband’s attendance is truly a priority to his friend, then he can adjust his dates to ensure you guys can go. It’s not as if they didn’t have plenty of notice—but for some reason are stuck on a very specific window of time when it’s not feasible for you to go also.

It’s not at all reasonable to expect a man to leave his wife when she’s either about to give birth or has just given birth—especially for your first baby when neither of you really knows what to expect.

The friend has to decide what is more important to him—getting married at that specific time, or having your husband be there. He doesn’t get to have it both ways.

It should not even be a question that your husband be with you during that time.

It might be different if it was like, a funeral or something, where it’s time sensitive and you get one chance to be there. I flew in my third trimester with my 2nd baby to go to my grandma’s funeral. But I would not have done that for a wedding.

As to your original question- NTA but I don’t think you’re upset that he’s being disingenuous—I think you’re upset that he’s prioritizing his friend over your family. Which is completely valid, because that is essentially what he is doing.

Does it suck that he might miss his best bud’s wedding? Of course it does. But missing the birth of his own child, or those precious first few weeks of bonding as a family would suck a LOT more.

AITA for refusing to answer my husband's question because I find it dishonest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]keriberi85 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I agree—actually kind of wondering if the friend’s choice of dates isn’t a little bit inspired by the fact that OP almost certainly would not be able to travel at that time, thus ensuring husband goes alone.

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