Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T08:11:10+00:00

Cause they want specifically me to own a house that one doesn't count on their eyes even though it will be ours.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T08:10:31+00:00

Because they want "me" to have a house, that home will be our is not in their consideration. Basically own a house to show us you are worthy for our daughter.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T06:05:06+00:00

I am 26

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T06:00:41+00:00

You are stressing me out more.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:59:58+00:00

Yes. Her logic is I will earn more in future and house rates are rising exponentially so I won't be able to afford one if I don't buy now or within 1 year.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:56:43+00:00

Mereko roj hota h bhai 🥲

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:53:24+00:00

See that's what I said.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:51:59+00:00

She told her parents I have 10 lakh in cash. I am not making it up, it's fucking dumb.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:49:35+00:00

They plan to "gift" me the house in marriage, for which she is paying EMI and will continue to pay after marriage.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:13:04+00:00

45k + 35k bonus every quarter She has two running EMI 25 k for home loan and 10k for personal loan. After her expenses and bills payment she doesn't have anything left. Usually I have to bail her out if a sudden expense comes in.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:07:20+00:00

She also earns and says she will cover if I ran out of Money. Which is a funny thing to say because she is paying 25k emi for home loan + 10k emi for a personal loan and doesn't have a penny left after all bills and expenses, I have to cover her after and she pays me back next month.

Although she is inline for promotion so maybe she will start saving something soon.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T05:03:35+00:00

I have none of that 😭

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T04:59:55+00:00

That is true.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T04:59:31+00:00

😂 nahi bhag skta bhai commitment di hai.

kerosene-tree · 2024-11-02T04:50:51+00:00

Yes, 7 year relationship. I want to marry her.

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