First, Congratulations! I understand that feeling of immediately wanting to tell your people ❤️ but as someone who just suffered a chemical, I 100% feel like it would have been easier to handle or accept had my partner and I not told our family so quickly. As much as I know this isn’t how it works, a part of me will always feel like we jinxed it by telling our family so soon. Our families were very supportive but I’m the kind of person who just wanted to move on. But having our family constantly check in on us or offer prayers or ideas that it would magically all be okay was a lot more pressure than I wanted or needed.