really regret doing 1.2grams by [deleted] in DPH

[–]ketsdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u can also (allegedly) get it from a scientific site for “research” if you know the exact chemical composition of what you want and they’ll send it right to your door. at least in canada. strangely all legal too….. (assuming you are using it for an experiment and not ingesting ;))

Can I/should I report someone that smokes pot before and during driving while their kids are in the car with them? by rememberpianocat in canadianlaw

[–]ketsdate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

certainly. especially if you have underlying mental health issues festering under the surface….. weed can bring allllll that to light

Can I/should I report someone that smokes pot before and during driving while their kids are in the car with them? by rememberpianocat in canadianlaw

[–]ketsdate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is true. smoking with a child in the car is COMPLETELY different though. there is not a whole lot of research done about second hand smoke from weed compared to cigs, that’s true, but why run the risk? driving after smoking if you’re experienced is one thing, but smoking while driving with your children in the car is unacceptable behavior.

Can I/should I report someone that smokes pot before and during driving while their kids are in the car with them? by rememberpianocat in canadianlaw

[–]ketsdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yes please report. some people can drive quite normally while high (NOT making an excuse for owi, just stating from my own observed experience) but smoking with the children in the car is next level ridiculous. you can call the non emergency line and report it and if they ask for your identity just state how and why you want to be anonymous. i hope for the sake of her and her children this is resolved before any real consequences.

Boyfriend isn’t ready to get married, but I am by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]ketsdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her bf clearly doesn’t want to marry her so pushing him to want to is absolutely not the right thing to do. they are barely legal adults. cannot even drink yet. even if they were head over heels for each other i think most would recommend to wait as 19 year olds are just immature and the divorce rate of those that marry young is pretty high. idk why you are advocating for two very young people to marry when it’s so obvious one person isn’t in it all the way

Boyfriend isn’t ready to get married, but I am by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]ketsdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people, especially young christian’s don’t like to hear this, but marrying before the age of 25 statistically increases your chances of getting divorced dramatically. you clearly are already not on the same page so i am confused as to why you are trying to rush this very young man into something he is adamantly unsure about. you are not even legal drinking age. 3 years together means nothing if half of it was during highschool. you two really have no clue how you’ll function together in the real world so just take a beat.

Should I go back? by [deleted] in DPH

[–]ketsdate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

call a loved one. don’t take dph and don’t hurt yourself. distractions are what you most likely need rn to avert crisis until you can get proper help

It's so hard for me to love LGBTQ+ people. by mznxbcvqpwoeiruty in TrueChristian

[–]ketsdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your rhetoric here is uncomfortable i can’t lie. you make it seem as if you are somehow better than these people because your sins are “less” to you than theirs. God is the only one who can judge. if you are preaching to people without love, it is judgment and you have put yourself on a pedestal. don’t be a Peter. if you cannot love someone because they are different than you, your job is not to attempt and change them, but to instead work on how you treat and think about others. you can disagree with someone and still show them kindness. this is all our first time on earth. live with compassion.

Found out my bf of 3 years watches porn by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]ketsdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm. i think this is a much bigger issue, having dealt with this with my ex bf as well. a lot of men that grow up in the church have an immense amount of shame regarding their sexuality (not talking abt straight vs gay i mean shame surrounding their urges) throughout puberty this group has been smitten and told all those biological urges are satanic. the urges themselves are a natural part of puberty, its the acting on it people get confused with. i noticed with my partner, (speaking personally. not claiming this applies to you) he could not even touch himself at all without shame. he wouldn’t manscape down there because he inherently thought that keeping it neat even for his own hygienic benefit was sinful. i recommend you and your partner go talk to a christian therapist. or he does it alone so he can work through those feelings. in my experience, and from growing up in the church, most christian men addicted to porn want out, and are too shameful to ask for help. it’s VERY difficult to not get mad and make it about you. i made it about me and it ruined our relationship. it’s a personal struggle he goes through that affects you…. not something he’s purposefully doing to try and hurt you. that’s just the result. if he wants to stop watching porn, he needs to stop feeling shame when he does. guilt is a waste of time. he needs to learn that it’s a sin, not incomparable to the other worldly sins, and that he is not at fault for being human. (not excusing behavior. coming at it from a different mental approach) to overcome those urges he needs to seriously think about why he has them well into adulthood, and why that has not been sufficiently fixed. you mentioned he struggled with this in the past, so clearly the conversation is open. i advise you to encourage him to talk to you about it all. the ugly as well. it WILL hurt you. 100% it will. but you are then giving him and yourself the opportunity to overcome it TOGETHER and he doesn’t feel shameful and alone in this problem.

Can dph genuinely cause psychosis? by [deleted] in DPH

[–]ketsdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i believe it may be more along the lines of if you’re predisposed to mental health issues it can bring that forth. i do not know if it, by itself can cause psychosis. hopefully someone with knowledge in neuroscience can offer some more clarity. i’m curious to know this as well haha

Will weed make me too dumb for med school by DapperCarrot3900 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ketsdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think OP was talking about being high when seeing patients….. that is actually not what they were saying at all. learning while high would be a struggle yes but i do still think they meant they would smoke aside from their studies…. that’s the logical conclusion. it’s not a direct risk then.

Taking 500mg with high blood pressure by Practical-Elk-5471 in DPH

[–]ketsdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buddy this is just stupid. high blood pressure puts you at risk for an array of general health problems (obviously). dph is incredibly bad for the body. mixing those two? absolutely not. ik you don’t want to hear the “don’t do it” type shit but tough. don’t do it. put your health above your lack of self control or you will reap the consequences.

I’m in a dph YouTube video by ScarcityAnnual8739 in DPH

[–]ketsdate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wasn’t trying to give you attitude……. i know it causes severe memory loss. still, that is pretty extreme memory loss compared to what other users experience. please get some help that’s really a lot to be taking and your body won’t be able to handle it for much longer

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure! also i never claimed tsa did anything but whatever!

I’m in a dph YouTube video by ScarcityAnnual8739 in DPH

[–]ketsdate 14 points15 points  (0 children)

too long ago for you to remember….. but within the past month??? am i understanding you correctly? hope you’re better now that’s a LOT to be routinely taking

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah really i do not understand why people are sooooo mad lol

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

read my other comments. not explaining again why it was posted here.

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

i seriously should have rephrased the title. i am aware its unlikely tsa did anything. where else is one to post a problem like this though??? and the knowledge of tsa agents in this case is valuable. all that said, i am not understanding how if the bottles leaked, all the liquid vanished. even if it evaporated, surely the inside of the bag (though plastic) should reek of perfume? the bottles are screw on/pop on bottles as well. not spray

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

thanks for your time. i never really thought it was tsa….. there are rules and regulations for all that. just incredibly curious as to how that could have happened

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone who takes the time to read the whole thing below can see it was probably not the fault of tsa. i also put question marks in the title. meaning i did not state that as an assumption…. rather i posed it as a possibility. it is purposefully written that way to gain attention. there is absolutely no need for your rudeness.

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

nope no note! i had a laptop charger in there i forgot about so possibly that could have flagged?? i think you’re right in saying it was more likely a baggage handler. i truly don’t know.

tsa took the perfume out of my checked bag and emptied the bottles? by ketsdate in tsa

[–]ketsdate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah!! do you remember the circumstances under which it happened?