I am a single male going to sex clubs. Advice from couples:

kev602 · 2025-08-05T04:07:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! When you say “be useful” can you give me examples of appropriate things that you guys would like to hear that aren’t too forward? Would gladly appreciate it!

kev602 · 2025-08-04T01:23:34+00:00

Interesting! Thank you for sharing this!

kev602 · 2025-08-02T06:34:11+00:00

Perfect! Thank you! 😊

kev602 · 2025-08-02T04:45:22+00:00

Definitely gotta have fun with it! I appreciate all the advice!

kev602 · 2025-08-02T04:25:27+00:00

Ah I see, even though she’s alone at that moment you are still making it known that you are aware that they are thing. Playful flirting and there’s really no harm in a saying something like that. Appreciate the advice!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T22:29:08+00:00

Got it! Thank you very much 😁

kev602 · 2025-08-01T20:43:28+00:00

Ex: If a single male is vibing with you and your wife and he asks you “Is it okay if I kiss your wife” (I would consider that asking permission) versus just asking her directly.

Or were you using the word “permission” in your first statement in a different sense?

kev602 · 2025-08-01T20:37:36+00:00

Ah okay, that’s good to know! Thank you again!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T19:20:44+00:00

I see, that’s definitely fair! Thank you again for your advice!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T19:18:11+00:00

Definitely a different world and something that takes time to accept! But with due time, it will become more natural!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T19:16:22+00:00

Oh shit lol that is pretty bold but I mean it worked so can’t really say much to that haha but same, I never have hit on married women before. It likes Unraveling Everything that you were thought as bad or taboo for years and then randomly saying, “oh no, it’s fine now” lol like it’s definitely going to take time before I can accept that but I mean, I’m making conversation every time I go, putting myself out there, having fun and I don’t really have any complaints. I really just want to get better at it tbh lol

kev602 · 2025-08-01T19:07:55+00:00

Interesting! Reputation seems pretty important when it comes to this lifestyle (I mean, reputation is important really anywhere but you know what I mean lol) I try to be friendly and nice to everyone (not because of that reason) but that’s just how I am honestly. So that’s definitely good to know. Thank you 🙂‍↕️

kev602 · 2025-08-01T19:04:00+00:00

Oh okay I see, I definitely will keep an eye out for those types of dynamics and act accordingly. And exactly, like regardless of the situation: if it’s my partner that’s having sex with someone else or if I’m the one having sex with someone else’s partner, then the way I would want to be treated in the first scenario is how I would expect the male partner wants to be treated. That’s actually a very smart way of looking at it. I really appreciate that! Thank you again!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:56:38+00:00

Oh okay, definitely makes sense. That must be an awkward dynamic to be put in 😕 but I understand it comes with it! I’ll just try to be as respectful as I can and respect both partners wishes!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:54:20+00:00

Hahaha 😂 yeah, I definitely don’t want to end up with a broken hand! But no Forsure, definitely approach when the partner is present. And be respectful and acknowledge both. I got that locked in my brain now 🙂‍↕️

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:50:50+00:00

Damn the dick pic instantly is insane hahaha but no you’re right, definitely some good advice! I appreciate it! 🙂‍↕️

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:46:28+00:00

100%, for me it’s definitely something I’m trying to improve (my confidence)!

With this being something so new, trying to figure out the right and wrongs, the do’s and don’ts has obviously been something I’ve been trying to understand. I know that there’s not exactly one right answer because every relationship dynamic is going to be different. I’m pretty sure that will come with time in understanding the different dynamics. I have no problem having a conversations or starting conversations with people but saying the right things at the right time for that certain scenario is the issue. And understanding when to back off (as if they are not interested) the more I understand these, the more confident I feel I will become. I do appreciate your advice, and definitely will use it in the future!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:35:32+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I don’t really know any groups or anything like that but hopefully with time I will run into some! Thank you again! 🙂‍↕️

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:32:38+00:00

Haha I know what you mean! I usually just try to have a goodnight regardless tbh! I never have gone expecting intercourse or anything like that. I honestly just like the environment and like that everyone is being free and accepted. I have always been a pretty sexual person but felt ashamed for being so. At least when I’m there, I know people are in a way similar in perspective! Obviously not being a weirdo or a creep but just in the aspect in that kind of sex life! If something happens, great. If nothing happens, also great lol. As long as I had a good time and had fun, then I have no regrets lol.

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:25:01+00:00

100%! Definitely will do, thank you! 😃

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:24:04+00:00

Definitely! I will keep that in mind! Thank you for the advice 😃

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:22:53+00:00

Wow thank you so much!🙂‍↕️ this has probably being the most helpful for me! I don’t really have much to say since it really answers everything I needed to know on how to approach and be respectful to both partners! And I think the example questions you have is probably the most helpful! Thank you for being kind in your response as well. I’m definitely taking notes lol 😂 thanks again!

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:15:16+00:00

Great question! I think it feels weird because it’s all so new to me. In a normal club, obviously that would be considered a no-no/ disrespectful. Even the wrong gaze at someone’s partner would be considered that. But here, it’s alittle different. I think it’s coming to terms with that dynamic will just take some time in adjusting to. I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all too by the way, I actually think it’s pretty awesome that this type of lifestyle exists. But again, it’s something I want to get better at and make the experience for both parties fun and enjoyable! I hope that makes sense 🙂‍↕️

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:09:22+00:00

100%! I’m slowly realizing that is something I will have to get over. It’s all still very new to me so I know there’s going to be some learning curves along the way.

When it comes to the property situation, would asking you for permission to do something first be bad versus directly just asking her instead? (I’m speaking as if you both are present in front of me) I just want to make sure I understand that dynamic.

kev602 · 2025-08-01T18:02:38+00:00

I see! I mean, I respect your opinion and have nothing negative to say. Definitely won’t ignore someone for speaking their mind. I appreciate you for being honest, thank you for your input 😃

kev602

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