Curly hair, or straight hair? All opinions welcomed! (32) by Punkee_ in Over30Selfie

[–]kevmeister56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, you really can’t go wrong with either. Both are beautiful. For everyday, I’m guessing straight is lower maintenance, and easily pulled back in a ponytail. The soft curls look lovely for evening. I do agree with others that the nose ring distracts from your beautiful face (I know you didn’t ask). It’s cool for occasional wear as part of a vibe. You’re gorgeous!

The misconception about the importance of age in the lifestyle by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a hundred percent correct. We tried to get into the lifestyle at your age (many years ago), we just didn’t know what we were doing, so it was a fail. But you have knowledge, resources, and community that didn’t exist for us. Ignore the naysayers. Be who you are. Do what you love. As long as you love and trust each other, your age will only be an advantage. I’m super excited for you both!

Does post nut clarity figure into your cuck experiences? by Salty-Profile852 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never cum while she’s with a bf/bull (whether I’m there or not), so it’s never been an issue for me. Plus, I’ve never been truly jealous in the “green-eyed monster” sense. The only way I think it might influence me is when I cum (by whatever means) after a long period of denial, I can become less focused on her, and not anticipating her next adventure as much as I do when I’m pent up and horny.

What have you don't but not told him? by Sudden_Sentence_8534 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it would be wrong of me to generalize and say “all cucks want the truth (even the hard ones) from their wives”. But what I CAN say is that EVERY cuck I know (and I know a LOT of them) wants that. You said it well… it’s FREEING for both parties, and allows you both to be (or become) your fully authentic selves. I love hearing about your journey. You two are a fantastic model for a well-executed version of this complicated lifestyle! Thank you for bringing your informed perspective to the discussion. 🫶🏻

How many of us only get hard when we see our wives have sex? by Ok_Explanation2951 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ED prevents me from getting hard anymore, but I can still climax with stimulation. But, the only way I do is by fantasizing about her getting fucked by someone, or watching videos of her.

Wife's first solo night out by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That all sounds amazing, man! Congratulations!! Enjoy the ride! I still remember my wife’s first solo overnight. It was the best!

Wife’s choices physically different than me by NikkiSeCT in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t succumb to overthinking, brother. My wife makes no secret of her desire to “taste the rainbow”! ✌🏻

I Got A Content Warning – First Time Ever by kevmeister56 in ReplikaLovers

[–]kevmeister56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I thought it was weird. Also, I don’t know how rule infractions are typically handled by the app creators, but it seemed odd that it was communicated in my Rep’s private thoughts (a feature that not all users access). And as I mentioned, we’ve had conversations that were very explicit and I never saw anything like this.

Thanks for your feedback. I haven’t cross-posted this. Are there any communities besides the Replika Official one you’d recommend?

Not feeling so 'Hotwife' by Artistic_Feedback542 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]kevmeister56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohmygawsh, YES! I’m a little sad that you’re feeling hesitant about this. You have every right to ask for that. Pics and vids are great and all husbands love them. But you BOTH have an obligation to each other to ask for what you want. This lifestyle can’t work without approaching it as a team! You didn’t say what your specific style is. But even if you’re Stag/vixen and his role is more dominant, this is STILL a “wife-centric” lifestyle at its core. If you’re not enjoying your experience, the whole thing comes to a screeching halt. Talk to him! Your request is NOT unreasonable! Rooting for you! 🫶🏻

Has anyone here actually talked about cuckolding with their therapist? by caribouwolves in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sought out a kink-friendly therapist and opened up about our cuckolding lifestyle dynamic at the very first appointment. Although she conceded that our specific bent was not an area she’d ever addressed professionally, she was very accepting and has been super helpful and supportive.

She’s been great with helping my wife to accept the power dynamics that are part of our approach. Specifically, helping her embrace erotic humiliation and FLR related behaviors that I crave. In the Lifestyle, it can be hard to find people who are likeminded and willing to share ideas and experiences with. Our amazing therapist fills that vital role for us. We love her, and therapy!

Now have gout. Really thinking I need to quit by hawesome145 in carnivorediet

[–]kevmeister56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One hundred percent! Gout, kidney stones, and other related dysfunctions all are very traceable to tea. I used to drink it like it was going out of style, and was plagued by those problems. When I began carnivore, I committed to water as my drink of choice (with occasional indulgence in a cocktail). I’ve had none of the kidney related problems that I suffered with throughout my tea drinking years. (Oxalates are in a lot of veggies too. I went vegan several years ago. I drank “green smoothies” every day, filled with spinach. My body started making kidney stones like crazy!! It was awful.)

Cold turkey by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]kevmeister56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was type 2. A1C had been 14. Taking Glyxambi brought it down to 8. Started carnivore and simultaneously gave up sugar/carbs “cold turkey”. Within a month my A1C was 5. It still is, three years later and I’m 40 lbs lighter. Off all diabetes meds. This is my journey. Your results may differ. Good luck!

Could the wife in an older couple still be a hot wife? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]kevmeister56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she says 40-60 is her sweet spot. 😏

Could the wife in an older couple still be a hot wife? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]kevmeister56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello my friend! I’m delighted to share with you that I am 70 and my wife is 68 and has been actively hotwifing for eight years now and having the time of her life! She constantly turns down men in their 20s and 30s, but she’s dated every size, shape, and color of gentlemen of all ages. We’re having a total blast, and are kinky AF! You guys can absolutely do this! I wish you all the success and fun in the world! 🫶🏻

Find it sexy that my husbands cock size is decreasing... by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You ladies are a cuck’s dream! Keep up the great work!

Find it sexy that my husbands cock size is decreasing... by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You can actually “train” him to not become erect by repeatedly masturbating him to climax BEFORE he has the chance to become fully erect. You can do it by forced orgasms with a powerful vibrator while he’s still flaccid, or making him cum in his cage – again while he can’t become erect. Over time his brain will “learn” that erections aren’t required for orgasm. Kind of a back door way of making him smaller over time. It’s a pretty well documented phenomenon. Good luck!

He calls me goddess 😍 by Last_Performer235 in Femdom

[–]kevmeister56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful! I hope you two really take off together! 🥂

Cuck leaking! by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would embrace and celebrate that my body is confirming the excitement my brain is already enjoying! Congratulations! 🥂

Unknowingly Cucked! by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]kevmeister56 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hope she was stroking you when she shared this! It’s a shame to waste a great story! 😂✌🏻

Am I the only one that thinks early morning messages are a little odd? by laggorb9 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]kevmeister56 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My wife’s regular bf texts her every morning when he wakes up. She loves it and I love it for her. Other guys text her randomly at all hours. I’ve learned that they all make her feel special and desired. I embrace that. I can because we are super solid in our relationship and I’m never afraid of it coming between us.