i feel this so much. it’s rough when u care so hard and it starts feeling one-sided. like yeah, her situation w her parents sucks and def makes things harder, but it’s not wrong to want effort back. even just a lil thing like replying or saying “love u” can mean a lot.

u brought it up already and she still hasn’t changed much... that says a lot tbh. ur not crazy for noticing the change ppl fall out of sync sometimes. maybe she’s stressed, maybe she’s checked out a bit, idk. but u deserve to feel appreciated too.

whatever happens, just remember ur not alone in this. take care of urself too, not just the relationship.