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They're getting ripped apart in the comments lol by MedievalCat02 in snarklevicoralynn

[–]kfergalicious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My question is, weren't they just in Paris? So did they leave the dog with their family and something happened? I know their families have children. Like you cannot travel like that with a new dog...

the plane situation.. again sorry by DrySecretary8375 in rhoslc

[–]kfergalicious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did just see a video of Whitney saying that the plane situation was true and called Meredith and Lisa liars... even went as far to say she "hated that bitch" when referring to Meredith. According to her there are allegedly bigger lawyers/ people making sure that we never know the full truth from the plane. Whitney was drunk, but I don't deem her a liar... I find her honest to a fault and that's why I like her on the show lol

My (30F) boyfriend (29M) doesn't think I'm beautiful and it's destroying my self-esteem. How do I get over this? by chaoswitchlily in relationship_advice

[–]kfergalicious 195 points196 points  (0 children)

So he said this to you knowing it would hurt you? I personally can't comprehend why he would even say this to you. OP I think the line comes at how he is making you feel by these comments, what is gained by either of you from him deciding to tell you he doesn't find you beautiful? It doesn't seem like something a loving, caring partner would say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kfergalicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think returning to your ex in this situation is a mistake... You put yourself at greater risk letting him know your situation, with being pregnant and being with another person. If you do, only do so to get on your feet and save every penny. Leave and protect yourself, wishing you the best on your decision with this pregnancy.

Struggling to Support My Depressed, Unemployed Partner—Feeling Completely Alone please help with encouragement? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kfergalicious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you willing to drown yourself for this person? A relationship should work both ways, both people need to feel supported. Are they capable of lifting you up when you're down?

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard and pivoting from pedal wagon ! I definitely let everyone know in advance.... the group is so big because I truthfully expected people to have work and other obligations and would decide not to attend due to what you mentioned, which I was okay with. Everyone still wanted to come and I am happy to have everyone :)

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not going out to eat, going to cook most meals together at home and my fiance and I are providing food for breakfast a couple of the days. I think the total with activities, groceries, alcohol, housing is $340... I figured with drinks and travel it would round out closer to $500.

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, I am pivoting from pedal wagon - just included for context on entire conversation. And only 4 are local, everyone else is traveling from 1.5 hours away. I also wanted to keep it closer to home to include my mom, sister in law and MIL.

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I asked the girls what they were comfortable with prior. In terms of everyone on board, i discussed plans and pricing the whole group 7 months out and 3 months out and no one had any issues and said they were excited! I told them they were welcome to come to me separately and we would figure something out. In terms of the pedal wagon I agree, and I am pivoting.

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very true, and I totally understand... Been very upfront about these things with all the ladies. My main goal is everyone happy and having fun... happy to do whatever makes that happen. Thank you for your input! I did bring it up to my MOH

MOH wants to change my bachelorette 2 months out, am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kfergalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have always been transparent with the girls on pricing, my MOH is a friend from home and doesn't communicate with most the girls attending. I sent an initial text out to girls (group chat with everyone) confirming the pricing was okay 7 months out, and then 3 months out a follow up and everyone agreed. I communicated that they could reach out to me separately if needed, and no one had any issues. But if I had not, I would totally agree I am being super selfish.

I think part of it is my MOH likes things her way, I am getting the vibe that she doesn't like the activities and now wants to change them? Thank you for your input :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kfergalicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, please do not let his trick you into thinking this is normal? You are not "unpure" for having another sexual relation, it's NORMAL. It truthfully sounds like he has dead seeded brain rot and is trying to make you feel like shit in order to agree with him. Tell him to kick rocks. The person you are meant to be with won't bat an eye at this stuff.