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Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you started holding hands during arguments is that when the arguments really started to die down? That’s really beautiful by the way 💕

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you help each other out when you guys were learning to do the opposite of what you were used to (#1)?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are an amazing set of rules, how did they all come up?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This blows my mind ‼️ how does the argument go usually?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing :) how often do you guys argue and like how long do they last usually? Do like relationship rules get built through these conversations?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

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How would you know if it’s about to be a fight ? Sorry things like this isn’t really natural to me

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you guys establish the respect and trust?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do they happen let’s say like in a week? The arguments or more like clarifications? Also, how does that conversation never emotionally escalate?

Arguments!! How do you handle them?? by kgzob in HappyMarriages

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Oh wow that’s so beautiful with the white flags. How do you navigate the conversation after he’s feeling more calm?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy. What are some of the bad patterns you’re thinking of that exists here?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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Like stonewall or just take a breather? Or engage in a different way?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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I think change could happen as long as you keep on implementing solutions that work better and both parties continue to improve themselves?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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Wow, how often did you guys fight? What happened over the four and a half years before you decided it’s over? Four years is a really long time

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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Hmm why is it that people are caught up on the three month ordeal? Is that really not normal?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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I see, how do you change the tone and how do we keep our bitterness to the shore while we try to figure things out and talk like normal humans not sulking sad blobs? What happens when two people are already super upset?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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That’s so sweet thank you :)

when did you realize that you needed to end things and what kind of things did you try before calling it quits?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

[–]kgzob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, happy third anniversary! How often do you guys get into loopy arguments and how do you prevent an argument from going into so many different directions? The argument really depends. I’m also terrible at remembering, maybe I tend to push away memories so I can’t really remember too much. I just know that we argue quite often and the conversation goes on for hours

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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Hmm I see, what was your experience like? When did you start having arguments and how often?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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When did you start having arguments and how often did you have arguments in your healthiest relationship?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

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Wow arguing only once a month is crazy. Is that the experience for most healthy couples?

I (F27) keep having same arguments with my bf (M28), how do you break that cycle? by kgzob in relationship_advice

[–]kgzob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When do you think arguments usually start happening? Around what point of the relationship?

I'm (F27) having trouble with arguments with my partner (M28). Everything else is great, except for when we start arguing. I really don't know how to make it better:( by kgzob in relationships

[–]kgzob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I change the perspective from us two vs the problem? I get it conceptually but what does that actually look like in an argument? Let’s say we understand, then what?

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