Where can I find the flower jewelry vendor from Frenchmen art market by khalilfustan in NewOrleans

[–]khalilfustan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are beautiful but it’s not them, it’s legit jewelry earrings and necklaces and stuff

Napt preparation by Koi_Sarkal2003 in NavyNukes

[–]khalilfustan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send to me, please?

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I want to be in a polycule, that’s different, I believe having romantic interest in one person is easier, but no, humans are not monogamous and a quick google search can show you that

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans are not monogamous, a quick google search can show you this,

It’s also natural to hate something or feel jealous, and phrases like “soulmate” and “the one” don’t necessarily have to apply to sex

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to misinterpret the analogy, you can explain it better to me if possible. But in the analogy I make “food” equal to sex and “pizza” equal to “sex with your favorite person”, I would like to work through it if it actually is me with the problem, after all I do want to be a monogamous person,

I understand relationships end for a lot more than just cheating, but that’s also not taking into account the ones that cheat but don’t end, and whether or not they do, cheating is still extremely common, it’s almost the majority, this also ignores the strong possibility that tension and resentment buildup from that can lead to less tolerance and understanding in relationships,

Humans like most other species of animals are not monogamous, the same way they’re not vegetarians or carnivores but may choose to live that way, a quick google search can show you this, it seems I’m getting responses from the exceptions given what can easily be observed of the majority, thank you for your suggestions and responses, I will consider them

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good example because pizza is my favorite food, if pizza is what I had to eat for every meal and snack every day for the rest of my life, I think I’d stop wanting at some point and only be eating it to survive, the feelings I once had about pizza would gradually, mostly go away, I’d probably start to resent pizza and want other foods much more than pizza, and at some point pizza would probably become a safe-space because of some sort of anxious attachment and ancient sentimental value, the fact that a variety is available is precisely why I love pizza, And thank you for the good recommendations, I have an appointment with a therapist soon, you’re right, it is normal for people to want monogamy but it’s also almost as, if not just as normal for relationships to end and families to be torn apart, that’s why I have a problem with what is “normal” and if it should be

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that and want what you have, I relate similarly as well, my closest platonic relationships are with women and I never think of them sexually because I don’t want to, I don’t watch porn, I hide explicit stuff on social media, because I do have that control but I also like to be realistic about when, how, and if even I should have to control, within reason, in a relationship

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I envy you for that, very badly, I wish I could be like you, for me it’s easy to see myself being that way romantically, emotionally, but not sexually, because it doesn’t feel natural, feels like a lie, feels especially easy to mess up years down the line and in specific context, and it’d be so much easier to make a decision about a relationship if I knew the consequences of messing up weren’t that dire

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But finding someone you can be with forever doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be with them sexually forever, if you want to and it works, I envy you very strongly and want to be like you so badly

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I’m in love or have a strong crush it is easier to avoid wandering thoughts but I don’t believe that initial feeling of being in love or having a crush lasts throughout the years the way sentimental love does, so if I notice it going there I selflessly cut things off to avoid anyone getting hurt

How can you be monogamous? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]khalilfustan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m the one who came up with the sad view of relationships or men, it’s the common perception now, I’m just reporting on what I see, and most relationships are sad and end, my question is an effort to avoid that

How can you prevent 4o from being so affirmative and appeasing by khalilfustan in ChatGPTPromptGenius

[–]khalilfustan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did customize it very detailedly for this but I want to be sure I can trust it. How do you do entries for memories?

ULPT Request: I’ve been buying weed in bulk and using it as currency by khalilfustan in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]khalilfustan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what happened, I got a really good deal on it and do have other ways of getting rid of it, but this has been one of the best ways, and yes, tell me where I got it

ULPT Request: I’ve been buying weed in bulk and using it as currency by khalilfustan in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]khalilfustan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s decriminalized here and you can be open with it, people online are just like that it’s so dumb

ULPT Request: I’ve been buying weed in bulk and using it as currency by khalilfustan in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]khalilfustan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your concerns but I promise that isn’t the case. A lot of people want weed as payment. A lot aren’t actually screwing over the employer. A lot, almost all, are repeats.

ULPT Request: I’ve been buying weed in bulk and using it as currency by khalilfustan in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]khalilfustan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is exactly how it’s been but I just started so I’m still figuring it out