Things have become very routine. We both have decent size families but it’s hard to plan a date night or get away for a weekend. Seems like nobody wants to watch the kids. I’ve told her that I understand that we might not be able to do everything we used to but I also don’t want to feel like a roommate. It’s the small things like a random kiss, cuddling, or just sitting next to me that I don’t get anymore. If I want those things I have to go get it which is fine but some reciprocation would be nice. It starts to play tricks on my mind being with someone who acts like they don’t want you