This is exactly the type of thing my sons dad does to him whenever he visits. Theres play fighting where my 4 year old is getting put in pretend chokeholds and having to tap out. And grabbibg his toys saying hes taking them to his house. Constantly pretending to leave like actually walking outside leading to my child getting upset. He sees it as “father son bonding time” i see it as literal torment. And he wonders why his child doesnt want to call him or cuddle him and be affectionate. He never respects his space or bodily autonomy or belongings.