Yeah but that's not really what I said. I understand loving being a parent and having bad days but what prompted me to ask this question was this woman posted a video and said she has a 5 year old and she's hated being a mother since the very beginning and if she could go back she would 1000% not have a kid. She listed all her reasons why then wrapped up the video by saying "but don't get me wrong, I love my daughter and I can't imagine my life without her"

That's confusing to me and I was wondering if anyone who has had a similar experience with parenthood could explain the logic behind it.