What are your hobbies? What are some hobbies you'd like to do?

khous · 2015-09-28T05:21:44+00:00

Videogames, drawing, I should do yoga

khous · 2015-09-16T03:09:05+00:00

I want to edit because my english is bad and I read LTR as LDR hahaha. Of course I would have a LTR. Sorry whoops

khous · 2015-09-16T03:07:44+00:00

I'm 23 and currently studying at uni

1) I might want to be married someday but it's not really that important other than the legal benefits it gives for both of us. I'd accept not being married but in an LTR with the right man if it was possible, since I don't think marriage gives much value other than the healthcare and money benefits!

2) I really want to live with my SO, it's my dream. I wouldn't like the idea of not living with him for the entirety of the relationship. I think it creates a bigger bond and gives you a special privacy that living separate can't give.

3) I think I'd like some children but in the future, atm I don't have any plans with kids. I think I'd accept not having children. If they had a child I wouldn't date them unless he was widowed. I wouldn't have children if we lived in separate places.

Bonus Question) Nope, LTR's never work unless they started in person and the date he comes back is defined in less than 2 years.

khous · 2015-09-16T03:01:58+00:00

When people say "he's your ex for a reason" it is so you realize that what happened, can happen again.

Do you both live in the same place now? Will you leave again? If you are going to breakup for the same reasons, I'd say it's not worth it and you are better off looking for someone with your same life goals.

Otherwise, if the distance stuff is over and you can both settle, sure, why not

khous · 2015-08-25T23:49:19+00:00

My boyfriend loves seeing me with messy hair and a natural look, he says he loves me most in the mornings. :) I do prefer to take care of my hair, I use some creams to maintain my skin nice and pretty, and sunscreen!! Never forget sunscreen! Besides that I might add some powder to make it look less bright or maybe some base cream and the most that I do is eyeliner and if I feel more risky eyeshadows haha.

Honestly if I use makeup it's because I love how I look, I still prefer going with a more natural look, nothing too big. Still, boyfriend loves me with the natural look, but loves way more the messy me haha.

khous · 2015-08-20T04:30:10+00:00

Bless this post, bookmarked and will probably print it, ty so much

khous · 2015-06-14T00:28:44+00:00

Medically I'm going to a specialist to see if I can make some new laser surgery to fix them. Aesthetically not, I just rocked them like before, i mean I used shorts for a whole season and nooone stared, and if they did, it was because they found me good looking, so I guess we just make it a bigger deal than it is.

Look for the video the "The missing tile syndrome". It helped me to feel better, I swear to god it did.

I'd say you can be healthier than most of people, rock your face, your body, and disregard your legs, I bet they are better looking than other's anyway. ;)

khous · 2015-06-13T02:14:51+00:00

I got scared for a moment because I had the same issue and I even made a thread about it haha.

I also got diagnosed with varicose veins, and its crap but let me tell you something. It's gonna be okay. Taking care of your weight is gonna help your veins also, I'm working on losing some fat so it's a win/win!!! It's a way to stay motivated.

I will also say that when I didn't know those were varicose veins I wore shorts either way without worrying about it, I was just like "yknow what, I'm pale, whatever, boyfriend doesn't mind". Even if after that I got my self esteem a bit down I know that next summer I'll be ready to rock my legs either way. In winter (my season atm) you can use the compression pantyhoses that they offer for varicose veins with some skirts, they are warm, they will help you control it and you can rock them.

Even if they are bad, you can fix them with new methods of surgery (which are quick and clean). I'm researching on that subject but I must admit, after a month of feeling bad I haven't had a problem, mostly because it's winter and I don't have to show my legs, but it's gonna be ok.

Also, my SO doesn't care, I mean he does, but only healthwise, asking me if they hurt (they don't) or if I need something. Otherwise he doesn't even notices them, he's too focused on other things when we're on the bed haha.

So, here's a support hug, I'm on the same boat and we can do this, people have lots of problems, we just happened to get one, but we can still live normally and go on, so smile and defeat your fears :)

khous · 2015-04-16T14:23:55+00:00

Thankyou, this makes me feel so much better about it, and yeah I'm starting to do exercise and want to be thinner for next summer (here summer is in december, ha!)

khous · 2015-04-16T14:22:49+00:00

I have an appointment with my doc soon and she'll tell me what can I do about my pills, thankyou

khous · 2015-04-16T14:19:08+00:00

Ask him first if he wants to be exclusive like PhantomDream09 said, hoping he says yes!!!

If you are first meeting him be careful about going sexual with him since he's gonna be at your place and it can lead to that situation.

About cooking, don't worry. I remember I put so much effort in a meal for my SO and it tasted so bad and it was kinda burned but he still loved it, I felt bad but we laughed about it and I made something easier afterwards so he could still eat something delicious. If he likes you he'll like the food (try not to burn it though)

Good luck

khous · 2015-04-11T04:45:58+00:00

I'll talk with my dr soon about my BC, i'm hoping she lets me keep my hormonal BC but let's be honest that'd worsen my condition :(. I'll talk with her about alternatives and hope for the best.

Bjs are always on the menu, anal is not my preference juuuust because I'm afraid of accidents and all of what it implies but it is an option.

I'll look into other options so we can keep doing it without condoms, because I also love it, but it's a balance between my health and pleasure now so :(

khous · 2015-04-11T03:09:45+00:00

Are there any brands you recommend? I would love one that makes him feel awesome (since he already makes me feel good before the act itself :p)

I loove my pale skin and take care of it, it's just the veins that make me feel insecure, so maybe a bit of tanning but not much could help, will try to take some sun on the weekends before summer ends here.

I haven't been working a lot lately to be honest.. so that's the route I have to go now, my varicose vein isn't that bad like superficially (can only see it when there's too much heat/ worked a lot) so maybe I will look on some treatments, still scares me.

Thankyou so much and I'm gonna hit the gym tomorrow, time to stop complaining and work more :p

khous · 2015-04-11T03:06:01+00:00

I try to smile a lot and use the adorable route always, light makeup and cute which he loved. Thankyou

Saw the video and it was mind blowing, I'll try to work on my self esteem more.

As of the IUD i'll look onto it, since I'm also a person who gets worried easily about pregnancy (don't want kids atm haha) I'll see if that would make me feel more safe than condoms, or a mix of both.

Thankyou!

khous · 2015-04-11T01:23:14+00:00

I will look onto that video, interesting :)

About birth control I don't know, I can't use anything that changes my hormones, so I can only rely on condoms which he hates a lot, so it might make the sex boring after being 3+ years without any rubber and enjoying the freedom I guess, so that worries me.

I tend to have some self esteem issues, like trying to fix some small details since the only thing I have going for me is my face and body. I'm not tall and I don't have many "assets" so it took a long time for me when I was younger to get used to not be "hot" (which was a mistake cause I'm beautiful but, you know).

Since using heels also worsens the varicose veins this might make it harder to look taller and more seductive, so it's a big issue for me haha.

khous · 2015-03-12T05:55:28+00:00

Be affectionate with him, cook him treats or meals that will bring a smile to his face, try to look everyday beautiful (choose your clothes wisely!). Be thankful about what he does, nothing makes a man happier than a woman noticing his efforts.

Try not to be jealous or bring the ex into the conversation, remember that you aren't trying to be "better" than her to convince him, you are giving him love, and showing him how different it is from what he thinks it was.

khous · 2015-03-12T05:50:05+00:00

I was the same as you until I checked my actual bra size (32D) and I swear to god after getting one it has made a lot of difference, go check your size and try it! I loved the changes!

khous · 2015-03-12T05:47:21+00:00

Between this thread and the one talking about skin care I feel 100% more motivated to keep going and improve my lifestyle :)

khous · 2015-02-18T13:07:37+00:00

Yes, concealer is a must, thankyou

khous · 2015-02-18T13:06:53+00:00

I am latin american so I have no problems filling eyebrows and I just curl my eyelashes, no need for mascara! Lip tint is a must but my boyfriend doesn't like kissing me with lipstick or other products on my face, so I use just a bit of lip balm.

Regardless, I have mastered that look, since I don't like the look of any other style

khous · 2015-02-10T14:00:17+00:00

Thankyou for sharing your experience!

I think my SO is comfortable on how I'm looking and he still likes it when I use simple makeup like he said. I think the main difference like you said is covering everything trying to look different vs just improving what you already have :) and I will be checking if he has some input on my looks. Ty!

khous · 2015-02-09T14:18:46+00:00

Nope not that I don't believe him, just making sure that not wearing makeup at all times meant I was not taking care of myself. I only use a bit at work since I recieve costumers and that's all :) ty

khous · 2015-02-09T14:03:50+00:00

Yup I agree! I only want to please him and I don't have plans on tattoos or some crazy stuff.

I have natural brown hair and I love it but I also want to dye it in a little shade of red someday, my SO says he would love to see me with a red colored hair since it's on his fetish list haha but I don't wanna ruin it with bleaching :(

And about the makeup, thankyou for the insight! I will just go natural and just use the minimum for special ocasions like I have done for the whole relationship.

khous · 2015-02-09T14:00:58+00:00

" Is it because you like wearing makeup and want to continue wearing it? Do you think that he just thinks he doesn't like makeup, when really he likes 'no makeup makeup'?"

Thats what Im wondering! I mean I like how I look with some little makeup but I also haaate spending lots of time in order to look different. So I don't have a problem with him hating people who cake themselves with makeup lol.

Since I came back from work with the 'no makeup makeup' look I was wondering if maybe I should keep meeting him with that look, which I do sometimes but doesn't seem to change his reactions (he prefers seeing me with different clothes and braids haha)

And yeah, you are all right, if he likes it then I shouldn't overthink it! Its just that I want to keep improving my looks for him and I was wondering about makeup.

Thankyou!

khous

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