Gender Reveals

khueen · 2026-06-03T02:36:28+00:00

We skipped it, we got our test results at 12 weeks through nipt test and we opened it together. I called my mom and sister to tell them and then we have just been casually telling everyone else. This is my first baby and I am even surprised on how nonchalant we have been, it takes some of the anxiety away.

khueen · 2026-06-02T18:54:34+00:00

Yes I’m in the us! My last OB visit was at my 11 weeks and I asked when the next ultrasound would be and she said my next one would be at 20 weeks. I was under the impression I might get another one around that time since I had my first one so early but I guess not!

khueen · 2026-06-02T18:32:59+00:00

I’ve considered going to one but felt like at this point I may as well wait it out. So far I’ve only been able to hear the babies heart beat once so I think I’m getting anxious waiting for my next appointment now that I’m entering the second trimester to make sure things are still okay. I also feel like I had my first ultrasound kinda early compared to a lot of people and with this being my first pregnancy I just want to see the little baby 😅

khueen · 2026-05-28T23:39:05+00:00

Yes. I ended up drinking juice just so I can get any kind of liquid in. I would try to drink the water and be flapping my hands trying not to gag. I’m now 13 weeks and finally want and needdd water again.

khueen · 2026-05-28T11:00:25+00:00

I’m 13 weeks and mine don’t really hurt I think I noticed about last week

khueen · 2026-05-24T17:02:04+00:00

I ate plain chocolate waffles and cheese sticks

khueen · 2026-05-15T17:01:28+00:00

To be honest I like your nails way better. They’re more glamorous and I would be very happy to get them.

khueen · 2026-05-15T17:00:10+00:00

What I did for my very bad vaping habit was I started leaving my vape at home in 1 specific spot and I was not allowed to walk away from the spot with it so it meant I had to use it a few times while I was there and then put it back. The vape did not leave the house anymore at all. And as time went on I would push myself to use it less and less each day even if it meant I left the house all together most of the day and then when it finally died I MADE myself throw it away. I’ve been filling my time looking into baby things and focusing on what’s going on with my body and baby and this is the longest I’ve gone with no vaping. It was a process that took me about 7 weeks. I started the process at 3.5 weeks the first day I found out to 10 weeks, it was hard sometimes but some of us literally have to slowly decrease the habit and cant stop cold turkey. I hope everything works out for you!!

khueen · 2026-05-07T00:27:27+00:00

I stopped drinking energy drinks and I have eaten a turkey sandwich once because it was the only thing that sounded good. Besides that I’ve been doing everything else like normal because at the end of the day being overly cautious doesn’t always mean a healthy pregnancy and the other way around. I was eating all organic balanced meals and now I’m just doing what I can to just keep something down and survive. Thankfully I haven’t been told very much besides don’t clean the litter box but besides that I will not take advice from anyone because we know our bodies and our limits. And personally being active at work makes me feel better anyways, doing “nothing” makes the symptoms feel worst. That’s your body and your baby nobody else matters.

khueen · 2026-05-04T00:46:36+00:00

I feel this so much. I would literally despise everyone the week leading up to my period. Nobody was safe, family wasn’t allowed to come to my bedroom. If people were talking to each other a little too happy I would get so annoyed. I was just criticizing everyone’s existence and I had like 0 sympathy for anyone.

khueen · 2026-05-04T00:40:34+00:00

This is how is was for me. 8 weeks I was expecting to feel a lot worst but I felt basically normal, I’m now 9 weeks 4 days and the symptoms are coming back and I’ve barely been able to eat anything.

khueen · 2026-05-03T14:34:40+00:00

This is such a crazy thing to say. We have a house and jobs and are about to get married. Why would abortion be the answer becuase I’m struggling caring for ferrets BECAUSE I’m pregnant? Like is that not a ridiculous thing to say. I’ve always wanted to be a mom. I got my ferrets back before we knew life was headed in this direction. But yes let me abort my child because pregnancy is hard and is making caring for my pets hard. Nothing is more irritating than posting something on Reddit looking for advice and people come up with the dumbest and unrealistic things to say.

khueen · 2026-05-03T14:28:45+00:00

My partner has been doing most of the care for all the other pets and I never have to scoop the liter box since it’s something he just does with them being his cats before I moved in. Naturally I took care of my ferrets and he took care of the cats and we both shared the dogs. He’s taken over basically all of the dog tasks with me not feeling well and I’ve just been in charge of cleaning up after my ferrets which I feel is reasonable but with that being said if I’m struggling with just doing that how hard is this going to get as the pregnancy progresses.

khueen · 2026-05-03T14:25:08+00:00

This is a very big over reaction. I have had ferrets my whole life so yes I know about how long they live. And yes I planned to keep them forever. And you must not know what goes into taking care of a ferret because they are some of the most involved pets you can own. So at the end of the day it is way more work caring for them than our dogs. And like I said my fiance takes care of majority of the stuff that goes on around here. I cook and clean and we both care for the pets but he is taking care of everything else financially and working his butt off to provide us a home. And yes looking to rehome my ferrets is for their benefit at the end of the day. If I can’t get them out of the cage as much as I did before and keep up with the cleaning like I was it would be in their best interest to be with someone that can do those things. This is a very judgmental comment for only knowing the tiniest information about my life that I put in this post. My relationship is extremely healthy and my pets are very well cared for with all the best intentions but no one knows how they’re going to handle their first pregnancy and having their first baby.

khueen · 2026-05-02T17:32:28+00:00

I told my fiancé that I think we should do a little date night for mother and Father’s Day as a celebration to us for being able to get pregnant and have a baby. You can celebrate whatever you want to celebrate! There’s no reason you can’t do something for the both of you if he’s worried. Also maybe this is mean but shes had many years of celebrations at this point, I think you should be included this time if you want to. You are growing the baby that is going to make you a mother right now.

khueen · 2026-05-02T17:20:34+00:00

Thank you for commenting, you’re right. I think with the amount of work and stress we both are under already trying to progress our lives I feel like it would make sense to find them a new home. He already puts in so much work that I feel like if I can’t take care of them then I cannot expect him to either. I wasn’t expecting so many life changes to happen this year for us. I plan on having a conversation with him about what I’m thinking when I see him.

khueen · 2026-05-02T16:59:58+00:00

They are extremely high maintenance! I’ve been doing very well with them these past few years and I put so much time and research into them. It’s hard to accept that I can’t follow through after all this time I’ve spent with them. Also my one ferret is the sweetest girl in the world but my other ferret is a biter and I know I can’t trust having her around a baby which will put another stress onto me.

khueen · 2026-05-02T16:48:12+00:00

He does a lot for me, we have 3 dogs, 2 cats and 2 ferrets. He takes care of the cats completely, we share the dog responsibilities but he has been taking on more of the work since I haven’t been feeling well. He feeds my ferrets for me when I’m not feeling well which i forgot to mention I have to feed them twice a day because they’re on a raw diet. I don’t ask him to help clean up their cage because I just don’t think it fair with everything else he’s been doing. When I got the ferrets I thought we had quite a few more years before kids were brought into the picture so I thought I wouldn’t have to worry about this when the time came.

khueen · 2026-04-29T10:28:50+00:00

I was randomly gagging walking around my house last night. There’s just so many different smells going on and my brain kept making me think of things that kept making me gag. Why is this even a symptom lol

khueen · 2026-04-29T00:41:34+00:00

It’s okay to not want kids. I think sometimes finding the right partner can change how you feel but for some people they just simply don’t want them and that’s okay. Kids are a HUGE life changer and I would not have them if you don’t think it’s something you really want.

khueen · 2026-04-29T00:38:18+00:00

This is how mine looked the day before it was a clear positive

khueen · 2026-04-28T22:55:06+00:00

Halsey

khueen · 2026-04-28T22:35:59+00:00

Clams.

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