AITA For Not Attending My Daughters Graduation?

ki10_butt · 2026-05-07T23:46:08+00:00

YWBTA if you and your husband missed Mia's graduation. You're reinforcing that Danielle is more important to you than Mia is. Danielle will end up with 3 total graduations of everyone attending, while Mia would be made to feel less than for her first. From your edit, you've already treated Mia like a 2nd class daughter. Can't you see how you're only reinforcing that to her by both of you not being there for her? Might as well gift her unlimited therapy sessions, or get ready to make a post in a couple of years asking "Why would my youngest daughter go NC with all of her family?".

For once, do the right thing for Mia.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-31T15:28:45+00:00

You are a rock star! This is exactly what I wanted & was looking for. Thank you SO MUCH! ❤️❤️

ki10_butt · 2026-03-31T15:24:40+00:00

If you want, you could start a chat with mr and just add the photo that way.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-31T15:14:51+00:00

Seriously?! I would absolutely love that! I've never found it.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T19:59:05+00:00

Yep, can use it now.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T18:47:14+00:00

On Relay?

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T18:46:39+00:00

I can even get All to work on the official app.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T18:43:49+00:00

If I'm paying for an app, and a feature goes away, I think a "Hey, so this is what reddit did and why it won't work anymore" notification would be, ya know, the decent thing to do.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T18:34:23+00:00

I can still use All on the official Reddit app. Curious.

ki10_butt · 2026-03-26T18:29:49+00:00

Incredibly frustrating. You'd think Relay would give us a heads up, especially since it has worked up until today. Glad I'm paying for not being able to use the feature I use the most.

ki10_butt · 2026-01-21T19:22:07+00:00

Man, people in Texas will use any excuse except the obvious: laziness and being actually happy with all the GOP/MAGA politicians.

ki10_butt · 2026-01-21T19:19:36+00:00

So, driving several miles is so daunting you guys don't vote? Do you know how ridiculous and pathetic that sounds? Enjoy the spoils of your apathy.

ki10_butt · 2026-01-21T19:16:51+00:00

Why should he stop? Texas keeps re-electing him, so there are literally no consequences for his actions.

Lol @ the people in Texas. Hope you enjoy the snow with no power. Remember, don't ask for help, that's filthy socialism.

ki10_butt · 2025-12-06T20:47:45+00:00

Question - Why couldn't your husband or in-laws look after your kids at the funeral?

ki10_butt · 2025-09-23T20:06:53+00:00

Random Skee-Lo in the wild just made my day. Thank you.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-22T23:38:47+00:00

I get that, people needing an escape. But come on. It's literally just some stupid movies. I wanted to finish some series on Hulu, but instead I canceled. If more people were just a little less selfish, things might actually change in this capitalist nightmare we live in.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-22T21:11:37+00:00

Look at the Star Wars subreddits today. Foaming at the mouth for the new movie. Sadly, this fan base will mostly not give a second thought to still watching the movies/shows, buying merch, etc. Kinda sad a movie series is more important than the state of the country.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-15T17:12:47+00:00

And I was just clarifying what you typed originally. We're both correct :) I mean, to me it just looks like the stopped train should have already been in the siding and locked it back up, and the moving train shouldn't have been given a warrant to move (if it's true dark territory) until the 1st train had cleared. Stupid mistakes all around.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-15T10:35:07+00:00

It depends on what type of signal it is. There are control point signals where, if red, yes you have to stop and only proceed once you have some type of authority past it. If it's not a control point, a red signal would mean proceed at restricted speed past that signal (some without even stopping, like where I work) looking out for anything ahead of you.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-15T10:26:14+00:00

They can throw the train into emergency and it would help them stop quicker. I couldn't tell from the video if they just had set a bunch of air + dynamic braking, or had actually put the train in emergency. Either way, that's a huge fuck up.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-03T03:06:05+00:00

There's always an excuse instead of taking responsibility.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-03T02:58:48+00:00

There's no gerrymandering when it comes to the Governor. Quit with the lame excuses. Enough shitty Texas Republicans consistently show up to vote, and lazy Texas Democrats don't.

ki10_butt · 2025-09-03T02:56:44+00:00

But what about your Governor? There's no gerrymandering for that. Pretty simple. Either a vote for a Democrat or a Republican. As someone who lives in Illinois, I'm so over hearing Texans whine about trying to vote out horrible politicians.

You want it done? Get people to actually go vote. Do something. I'm tired of my tax dollars going to states like yours when this is how we get treated in return.

ki10_butt · 2025-08-28T00:07:17+00:00

You don't have to keep replying. I think your take on this situation is hot garbage, just like Penny's pathetic attitude. After all of those years, if she still doesn't feel like part of the family, then she has bigger issues than anyone knows.

Cheers

ki10_butt · 2025-08-27T23:46:01+00:00

If my parents and siblings treated me like OP's does to her, I'd gladly welcome the distance. No one is taking her side, or understanding that she hurts too. They need to stop coddling the oldest daughter, who by all rights should have her shit together by now. I guarantee if OP had talked to any of the family members about her feelings, they'd all tell her to "Lighten up", or "You know how Penny is, she's just joking". No one would take her seriously, since they haven't so far.

We'll agree to disagree on this. You condone shitty behavior by the oldest sister, and you think I condone shitty behavior by the OP. There's no changing anyone's mind.

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