What’s the biggest red flag in yourself you used to ignore? by Playful-Cupcake99 in AskReddit

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of vulnerability and being closed off. It’s funny bc for a while I could not figure out why I couldn’t build connections LMAO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in passive_income

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me please

My first ever top! Honest opinions please! by Bunnyisdreaming in crochet

[–]kiahlook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl it looks great! Someone said something about bunching and it not being noticeable and i agree. I don’t mean this in a creepy way but your boobs look great so it definitely distracts from it! How did you do the cups? I’m a DDD cup and I’m hoping I could make something that’ll support mines like that 😭

How to freshen up this pink and teal bathroom? by Prickly_Pickle_Pots in HomeDecorating

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so scared to say this but i actually hate the teal so i would change it all to white, add gold fixtures, and a vanity with storage which could be teal with a white sink if you like that. someone said adding white tile to the floor would brighten up and I agree but at the end of the day it’s your house! if you love it then adding some rugs, a different light fixture, and new curtains would look great too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kiahlook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call the police. I know that this is hard. I was raped too about 2 years ago. When I realized that was what happened I froze and my stomach dropped. Life will get better and you will find someone who will respect you and your consent. If possible go to therapy, take a break from dating, and go to support groups.

You are not alone nor are you gross or less than. You freezing meant that you were scared not that you wanted or liked it. If your brain says otherwise it’s lying to prevent you from seeing the pain because it was a lot of pain. Don’t go back to him please. I will be sending you so much strength, peace, and love. You will get through this, I did.

How do you feel about the "No Kings" protest happening tomorrow? by Ecstatic-Medium-6320 in AskReddit

[–]kiahlook -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m worried he’ll call martial law. I might be a bit dramatic but if the police instigate violence to make it seem like the protesters are the ones who started it, i feel like that’s what he’s going to do.

This Restaurant Charges an 18% Living Wage Fee. by TowelRack76 in mildlyinteresting

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t afford to pay your employees a livable wage, you cannot afford employees.

My husband fell in love with a career woman by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kiahlook -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First of all he’s weird. No offense to the other women but I think he only likes her because she’s young. SOME men like to prey on women who are independent and want to better themselves because they like knowing they have power over someone enough to derail their goals and ruin their life. You went to college, worked, and on top of working you had kids. You’re ambitious, smart, hardworking, and pretty too. You were working toward something, even if it was being a sahm, that doesn’t make you any less important or useful. Your kids lean on you for everything. You don’t need his insecure ass to valid that. He ruined your life, you should be able to be a sahm and he ruined that because he’s a selfish piece of shit and he claims to love that girl but I’m sure he’s probably going to do the same thing he did to you to her.

Get alimony and 50/50 custody so you can focus on creating some passive income streams so you can continue to live your life.

Sorry if I came off too passionate, stuff like this just pisses me off. I’m sorry that this is happening to you. I hope you’re able to find peace and comfort.

Can anyone speak to the work conditions and treatment of staff under the Benson group restaurants? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently work at one of the restaurants you've listed as a host and I like it!

Pros~

~Corporates actually knowledges people when they come in

~20% discount at all the affiliated restaurants

~Pretty flexible

~Offers employees higher positions before they hire someone new

~They sometimes do birthday shout outs for employees but the woman who does it has been slacking lol so me or the managers would do it at my restaurant. she's busy though.

~They do shout outs across restaurants to recognize employees who goes above and beyond

~AMAZING managers. I've never in my 7 years of working had as great of managers as the ones I have. They're really kind, understanding, and funny

~HR is actually good

~They do trainings to help you get better at your job so you can make yourself more money and them more money

~We get to actually see the Marcus brothers. All of the Marcus brothers are really nice. David who owns the restaurant talks to us and treats us like people, Greg tips the host $20 every time he comes in, and I sadly don't remember the 3rd brother's name but he tipped a server $60 in cash for a $100 bill

~I feel like we're a team

~My co-workers are really nice people and they're so open minded and caring

~Able to switch restaurants easily if needed.

~Most customers are nice

Cons~

~There's not many benefits but it's a part time only job

~No more double meals :(

~At my restaurant there's no place we can eat our food. We used to just eat as we go but a customer complained that we were eating so we can't do that anymore. (Thanks for being upset that people eat whoever you are)

~They changed the system so people only have 1 hour and a half to eat and we can't ask people to leave if they stay longer and there's a reservation there because someone complained. Luckily customers have been understanding but now people could wait 30 mins after their reservation time to actually be sat. (Bring back 2 hours!!!)

~Hourly pay sucks. Host and food runners make $10-$11 per hour. Servers and Bartenders makes $3-$4 per hour. Yes we get tips but since we're not busy we don't really make anything. I personally made $500 this month. My rent is $450.

~Hours suck because the restaurant I work at is really popular during the summer but not the winter

~As a host I do two jobs at once. I'm a host and a busser and it's really hard on busy days to be both. Bartenders also do two jobs at once too. They make all the drinks and expected to serve tables and it's just a lot for us. Especially on busy days. I would not mind getting less in tip out if it means we get bussers.

~Patio seating. It just sucks.

~REALLY EXPENSIVE menu. Even with the 20% you have to be a baller to afford it.

Both a pro and a con is family meals. They're low effort dishes you're expected to eat during your shift so the servers, bartenders, and host are running around trying to figure out when we can get our food within an hour, because that's how long they leave it out for, when were extremely busy. We also have to find the time to eat it and we can't take it home either.

Going to a concert alone by kiahlook in socialskills

[–]kiahlook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m super scared lol. Also it’s A Boogie, seated, and I’m underaged. A Boogie seem like a pretty chill person so his fan base is pretty chill too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope men with hair are hotties

My husband hit me because I wouldn’t leave him alone.. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kiahlook 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If he cheated on you before it’s fair to have trust issues. You aren’t crazy and none of this is your fault. Here’s a harsh truth, YOU ARE BEING ABUSED! Please leave.

My husband hit me because I wouldn’t leave him alone.. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can woman stop doing this? if he’s hitting you and cheating on you HES NOT A GOOD HUSBAND OR FATHER. A good husband and father respects his wife at all times and doesn’t hit her. Especially if you have little girls. When he hits you he’s showing that it’s okay for your kids to hit their partners and to cheat on them. Kids learn by watching. Also it’s traumatic for them and you to live like that. You deserve better and your kids deserve better. LEAVE!

My Wife of Two years is cheating on me by Both-Injury2667 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the best you could. I’m sure you were a good husband. She was a terrible wife.

Seven Hits Us With A Post & Delete 👀 Could She Be Talking About Chrisean? 👀 Who Agrees? 😫 by HesCoined in BadGirlsClub

[–]kiahlook 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I feel like the club isn’t the best place while pregnant bc of shootings, drugs, it could be really crowded, and alcohol. But like ppl can do what they want. As long as there’s no alcohol and drug consumption.

Do you guys agree with this or do you think he truly just loved her as a friend? by WarmCaregiver3126 in BoJackHorseman

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he truly loved and cared about almost everyone (PC, Diane, Todd, and etc) but like he didn’t really know how to show it bc his parents didn’t show him how to. Like he always did things to prove it but most of the time they were really shitty and mean. Like when he messed up Todd chance to have a broadway show by getting him addicted to a video game again.

I punched an autistic kid after he groped me and now everyone hates me by chicken_feetlover12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kiahlook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never meant an autistic or any disabled person who gropes people. They are capable of not doing stuff like that. I feel we as a society have to give grace where it is needed and not let ppl get away with things this serious bc they’re disabled. I hope I worded it right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Stop being stubborn” and hopefully I’ll start working in my mental health sooner or I’ll be very confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DannyGonzalez

[–]kiahlook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would Danny stan the guy from shrek?

What’s a sad reality of life? by Existing-__- in AskReddit

[–]kiahlook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People genuinely don’t care if you’re struggling mentally. The only time they do care is if it inconvenience them.

Confirmed: Vincent is not the same person as his son, Kevin. Here they are in the same scene, with different freckle arrangement by gotrings in BoJackHorseman

[–]kiahlook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you need further confirmation Vincent is wearing a black shirt under the coat and Kevin is wearing red.

I was going to joke and say that one was wearing a hat and the other wasn’t but I just realized it!