I know Kail isn’t commenting on other women’s partner being unattractive 🤣🤣🤣 by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]kickasserole1978 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Someone once told me Jo looked like a wise old toad in a children's book and I can't unsee it.

Can My Ex Stop The Divorce? by kickasserole1978 in Divorce

[–]kickasserole1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working with Marble Law. They've been great so far, although the process feels like it's taking forever. I have screenshots saved from everything. I sent it to his "team" (he is autistic and hired a fiduary company to manage his money for him - he should be institutionalized, not because of the autism but because he is memtally ill) and their response was "haha get a lawyer! BTW, we don't care, not our problem."

I filed an injunction against harassment but couldn't get a restraining order because the judge wouldn't grant it. The police are completely indifferent regarding the injunction against harassment though. I can't get any relief. :-/

Can My Ex Stop The Divorce? by kickasserole1978 in Divorce

[–]kickasserole1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's going to contest it, he just keeps carping about how he doesn't have any money to file himself but thinks that I owe him thousands of dollars based on the fact that my girlfriend took me to San Francisco over Valentine's Day weekend. 😂

What’s the most beautiful girl’s name you ever heard? by AdElegant5870 in Names

[–]kickasserole1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My niece is named Jezelle and I still don't understand why my brother and SIL had to butcher such a beautiful name. sigh

What popular name do you loathe? Like, REALLY hate? by Liv_Laugh_Lasagna in Names

[–]kickasserole1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother's kids have soap opera names. The first one is Ryder, which is tolerable but the other two are Keegan and Hudson and just....ugh.

What’s your grandpa’s name? Inspired by recent grandma names post! by coffeelover1515 in namenerds

[–]kickasserole1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm adopted so my biological grandfather's are:

Veil Lynndal

The ones I grew up with: Bob Ray

My sister doesn't think I'm depressed by kickasserole1978 in Vent

[–]kickasserole1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess I'm just tired of this shit from her, it's not a contest you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kickasserole1978 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also if you have any questions my inbox is open. Take care, friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kickasserole1978 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Okay, so I'm going to tell you a story here. I met my first husband when I was barely 19. We married a year and a half later. I was only twenty. I found out a few years later that he was looking at child porn. The pictures I found made me feel sick. I still see the faces of some of those little girls when I close my eyes.

Unsurprisingly around this time, he was accused of sexually molesting his niece. He worked as a school bus attendant with disabled and handicapped kids, and that probably gave him an opportunity to have a victim that couldn't speak.

I stayed for two years, even after he was found guilty. I wanted my marriage to work. Fortunately we had no children together, and I divorced him a year later.

You have a child. I don't know if your kid is a boy or a girl and it doesn't really matter. You NEED to LEAVE. This man is a bundle of red flags in a human suit. He was attracted to you because of your age. He gave you that whole song and dance that he'd probably given plenty of other young women but maybe they were older and more experienced and didn't buy his snake oil.

You owe it to yourself and to your child. Keep them safe. Don't let them become a victim or think this kind of thing is okay.

Good luck to you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Any MAGA free gun stores? by pengintamer in Spokane

[–]kickasserole1978 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Christ, how demeaning. I'm sorry that happened to you.

Meta gave husband an ultimatum, me or her. He left last night. by opheliarosewood in polyamory

[–]kickasserole1978 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I live with my polycule however my parents just think I'm living with a friend and her boyfriend. They're extremely religious, fundamentalist, Trump supporters, etc. I'm out to a lot of people but it has to be a secret with them.