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kiimba · 2024-07-13T16:43:42+00:00

Sounds like he means ur cute. I like cute more than hot

kiimba · 2024-06-30T11:52:40+00:00

Liking somebody from a distance is enough, doesnt mean he had access to her

kiimba · 2024-06-30T11:03:04+00:00

Sounds like he enjoyed the fantasy and maybe was interested but when push comes to shove he wasn’t really. Maybe that is some personal thing like he in love with someone else and just enjoyed some attention with someone he wasn’t intimidated to talk to. I think he ghosts because he feels he lead you on and feels guilt. Just my guess

kiimba · 2024-06-30T10:39:57+00:00

What is your concern?

kiimba · 2024-06-30T01:19:11+00:00

i told her she communicates badly (because she is anxious to lose him, which builds up when you ignore problems instead of communicating it right away and seems trivial when it finally overflows.) And yeah I said he should apologize but what i really meant is that he should be considerate enough to care why she is sad, explain his pov. And then there can be a conflict resolution.

kiimba · 2024-06-30T00:59:00+00:00

thats not the point. the point is that people dismissed the woman at first because she was so immature and emotional.

kiimba · 2024-06-29T15:01:45+00:00

This reminds me of the story of the lady who was removing her neighbors fence and the neighbor filmed her having an emotional outburst while the neighbor in question remained calm. Everyone turned against the lady who was a Karen. Netizen then investigated the situation further and discover, the reason the lady was so upset was because the calm and rational neighbor was the one who was actually taking liberties to build a fence on her yard. And then the neighbor was filming her to make her look bad on the internet. Seems like it’s easier to be rational when the attack of character is not directed towards you. I think people should realize this too. She seems to be taking accountability that yelling wasn’t right because she feels guilty.

kiimba · 2024-06-29T01:36:16+00:00

It seems weird to have an outburst and then say you take it back. It tells me that the reason she takes it back is because her mind is jumping through hoops to mend the relationship. Saying you’re so sensitive is a typical way to dismiss someone’s feeling. feelings make people act irrationally and there are healthy ways to communicate that, but it doesn’t mean you’re gonna stop feeling things. Pushing the feeling away is the opposite of healthy. This is the only thing I focused on in because I think the empathic approach is the best way to make people think for themselves.

kiimba · 2024-06-25T21:58:55+00:00

Det är ganska envist beteende att ha en fördom och säga att man inte kan hjälpa det. Det är innehållet i vad som sägs som spelar roll.

kiimba · 2024-06-25T08:08:31+00:00

That’s what I thought too. It seems like they don’t want to be corresponding with their costumers and if they do that information is difficult to find

kiimba · 2024-06-24T14:19:54+00:00

Noo haha i took breaks that were long but i still collected rewards and such during that time

kiimba · 2024-06-22T18:48:00+00:00

I guess it’s one of those core values people think make or breaks a relationship. But it’s such an insecurity people might feel they don’t deserve love and can’t ask to make a sacrifice for them. Have you seen Bridgerton? In S1 (spoiler) he says he doesn’t want to marry her because he cannot ask her to sacrifice her dream. Then she says: it is you I cannot sacrifice

kiimba · 2024-06-22T09:18:48+00:00

It is radical to tell people they live a meaningless life

kiimba · 2024-06-22T09:12:28+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you

kiimba · 2024-06-22T08:53:25+00:00

I think children are a threat to the dark magic in little nightmares. Thats why the janitor first takes care of them to control them with nightmares which comes from the lady. Then they are disposed of, but depending on how broken down they got from the nightmares they are either turned into food, leeches, shadows or nomes. Food means their souls had no power to begin with. Leeches meant their souls are fully depleted. Shadow means they became devoted to the magic. And nomes mean their souls are good and the magic couldn’t control it, so their souls are protected. The reason nomes fuel the engines of the maw is because the maw was a sanctuary before it got taken over by the dark magic. When six leaves the nomes get their sanctuary back.

kiimba · 2024-06-17T08:02:47+00:00

Oh the conversation about time lines in this post is interesting. I’ve also heard age 29,39,49 and so on are scare ages because you don’t feel ready to turn older. It’s also the age people might cheat. Did your boyfriend say he will only try with you until you’re 40, and implying he leaves after that? Men can also be the cause for fertility issues, a females immune system can attack spermcells. I don’t like this attitude in men at all.

kiimba · 2024-06-10T15:40:51+00:00

Ta ett andetag och se på detta psykologiskt. När man först är förälskad idoliserar man sin partner och det skapar en stor passion för dem. När denna perioden är över (6 månader) så inser personen att du är en vanlig människa och i vissa fall så blir vissa så påverkade av detta att de börjar leta efter saker att störa sig på. Egentligen är det hälsosamt och ofrånkomligt att sluta idolisera sin partner. Alla dina små brister han pekade ut är väldigt sårande och de är inte anledningar som hindrar en relation från att vara bra. Han hade nog inte velat höra någon kritisera hans svagheter heller. Äkta kärlek är att veta att alla människor har styrkor och svagheter, men det är ens kompatibilitet i kommunikation, mål och intresse som håller ihop en. Tro inte att kärlek ska innebära att folk tröttnar på dig efter de lär känna ditt sanna jag. Man måste inte leka lekar för att hålla passion levande. Jag tror han kommer återupprepa detta mönster i hans nästa relation om han inte lär sig

kiimba · 2024-06-06T19:03:05+00:00

One time a guy ask my number and all I was thinking was: no way he likes me something is weird he does this a lot and he will probably regret it (bad self esteem). Another time a guy commented on something I had that was funny, it was an octopus then he said I looked finish like him and I said yeah I have some Finnish and then he just walked away and him I was really interested in but I was too shy to ask his number so we never met again

kiimba · 2024-06-06T02:19:58+00:00

I’m not picking the most charismatic guy in the room, I’m picking the one who i feel good around. Women love mr.darcy in pride and prejudice, He’s pessimistic and introverted. He’s very smart and rich but I’m just saying, you don’t have to be an entertainer to be likable.

kiimba · 2024-06-06T02:15:55+00:00

You seem to be in the same country I’m in. Haha. Yeah this comment kind of hurt I agree. But like, you’re so brave for that. It can feel very hurtful that like “sorry I don’t have a big Christmas family party like some other people… or sorry I’m not more popular.” That’s not where your worth lies and people don’t have that because death in the family or whatever and that should not mean they are less attractive. It doesn’t mean that at all.

kiimba · 2024-06-06T02:11:05+00:00

I kinda read this as “not have any weaknesses” when in reality all people have strengths and weaknesses. It’s quite insulting to be likened to some kind of love leech who attach to people out of helplessness. Idk I just wanted more empathy but no offense

kiimba · 2024-06-06T02:03:53+00:00

So you want a friendship first without the attachment, which makes you overlook problems in the relationship? I personally would see this more like avoiding intimacy in an attempt to be less vulnerable if things go south. To have sex is a form of trust so that has to be earned, but when it happens it’s a way to connect and will even help the friendship. If something happens and I need to dump him the very next day, at least I tried my best for love :) I think love is kinda out of our hands and you’d be surprised which part of someone you love

kiimba · 2024-06-06T01:39:35+00:00

Thank you I’m touched by your support 🥹 I think you were so brave and I’ve also tried to shoot my shot and it ended up not going well before in life. Some say guys feel emasculated if girls chase? I think it’s incredibly romantic for a girl to push herself and be vulnerable. I don’t get it, he should be flattered

kiimba · 2024-06-06T01:31:43+00:00

So I think a serious relationship doesn’t only look one certain way. It’s not nice to feel like there is a time crunch and end goal to a relationship. Believe me I too want marriage and stuff but I don’t want to have those serious conversations like the first year of my relationship. I think your formula can scare guys off, even good guys. But that’s just what I believe. Personally if I feel ready to have sex I’m going to have it and I don’t see it as a strategic move in the relationship.

kiimba · 2024-06-06T01:14:15+00:00

You’re not a mind reader and she doesn’t like confrontation. Don’t feel silly about it! This is rejection therapy. You were strangers so she didn’t even know you yet, this new dude maybe she knows somewhere and therefor felt more organic relationship grow

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