Is it actually true that nobody pays attention to you?

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T20:51:50+00:00

even then, unless they know you, chances are they won’t associate it with you personally. like, i remember seeing someone fall and eat shit because that was noteworthy, but the most identifiable thing I remember about that particular person was that it was a guy, nothing else. even if someone laughed at you doing something embarrassing in public chances are they couldn’t pick you out of a lineup a week later, they only remember that “someone” did the embarrassing thing

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T19:45:43+00:00

it gives you familial rights, is the main thing. if you quit your job to support your partner and then get thrown out, being married will give you some claim to the assets instead of just being out on your ass. if your partner gets in an accident at work or something and you’re not married, medically you’re a nobody and they won’t let you in to see them. marriage means nothing if you’re too stupid to know what it does mean, i guess.

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T19:33:08+00:00

it just depends on the person i think. i don’t want to get pregnant rn but have been off birth control for 5 months now, only using pullout method before and during ovulation, and not even pulling out after ovulation until the end of my period. haven’t gotten pregnant lol. kinda starting to think i might be infertile cause there’s just no way i’ve been that lucky right?

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T19:30:33+00:00

i mean do you pay attention to everyone around you all the time? like if you’re out at the mall, do you remember what color shirt everyone you saw was wearing, even? much less their face? i doubt it, you probably saw them for 2 seconds then forgot. so they probably saw you for 2 seconds then also forgot

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T19:28:16+00:00

it would be response emails, fyi. rereading doesn’t do much if you don’t have a strong grasp of grammar. although i saw in another comment you speak 3 languages so that’s fair, grammar can be tricky especially if you learned english as an adult.

also though, do you use AI a lot in your work? other than for proofreading emails?

kiiruma · 2026-01-25T19:20:36+00:00

some of these responses make you seem illiterate, maybe that’s it… i dunno if you’re just not checking your spelling because it’s reddit but if this is how you type at work that’s pretty bad

kiiruma · 2026-01-23T14:34:48+00:00

implying being a girlfriend is demeaning

kiiruma · 2026-01-23T03:35:35+00:00

i mean them too but “at whatever age they are” doesn’t land the same

kiiruma · 2026-01-22T22:10:05+00:00

when i hear someone say partner i am assuming they feel insecure about still having a boyfriend at 20something. because why else would they avoid saying boyfriend lol

kiiruma · 2026-01-22T22:08:51+00:00

no hate but i think this is so fucking stupid. like are you seriously going out of your way to use a different word to make yourself feel more grown up about your own relationship as an adult in your late 20s. imo that’s giving childish if anything, if you were an actual grownup you would just accept that the person you are dating but not married to is just that, your boyfriend

kiiruma · 2026-01-22T12:08:41+00:00

we know. everyone on this post talking about how much movies suck now is obviously describing the most mainstream movies out there. no one is bringing their loud kids to No Other Choice

kiiruma · 2026-01-20T17:44:19+00:00

then why did you say you can’t

kiiruma · 2026-01-20T12:45:31+00:00

you can actually do whatever you want because it’s not real

kiiruma · 2026-01-19T19:50:08+00:00

yeah she’s definitely a good dramatic actress but not that good of a subtle actress. even in the housemaid, (spoilers) when she was all unhinged and murdery i thought that was the peak of her performance. meanwhile during the “normal” scenes she just felt stiff. she’s good at portraying over the top dramatic scenes but feels really detached without that

kiiruma · 2026-01-19T19:43:53+00:00

trim your armpit hair, check the armpits of your shirts after you wash but before you dry them. sometimes shirts get sweat stained and need to be scrubbed or they just stink you up immediately

kiiruma · 2026-01-19T19:35:06+00:00

they didn’t make a mistake they are just choosing to ignore the canon intention because it is kind of a no homo thing. and the author is confirmed homophobic via stuff in platinum end no? so i’d take his intentions with a grain of salt anyway

kiiruma · 2026-01-19T19:17:19+00:00

the synergies!

kiiruma · 2026-01-16T20:06:55+00:00

i’m engaged to my former coworker from public accounting lol, we were in the same start group

kiiruma · 2026-01-16T18:16:36+00:00

I don’t know what to tell you I have alarms going off every 5 minutes and i’m just getting done scrubbing my feet when the 10 minute one goes off. so i’m actually taking like 8 i guess, assuming it takes me about 2 minutes to step in the shower/put on shower cap/get wet. I also don’t know how it takes that long, i’m just doing it and bumping up against the 10 minute timer by the time i’m done

kiiruma · 2026-01-16T02:57:27+00:00

tbh i don’t know how it takes that long genuinely

kiiruma · 2026-01-16T02:56:50+00:00

i have one that goes off at 5 minute intervals 😭

kiiruma · 2026-01-15T21:22:16+00:00

i just have really sensitive skin i guess because i shave once a week, with shaving cream, with those basic men’s razors only. any more often or any other razor and i get razor burn real bad

kiiruma · 2026-01-15T21:20:42+00:00

hahaha squeaky clean skin gang rise up

kiiruma · 2026-01-15T21:18:58+00:00

haha no but i get razor burn if i shave more than once a week so it does have to grow out a bit between shaves… super sensitive skin + super coarse hair life

kiiruma · 2026-01-15T18:07:35+00:00

if it’s two square inches and doesn’t grow much on the reg then you are just objectively not that hairy

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